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seaturtle50 -> RE: Is There Really Such a Thing Called "Love at First Sight?" (2/2/2006 12:24:45 PM)
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Much rather have people expecting and hopefully planning an exit strategy if Jeffrey shows up
Well when Jeffy showed up in real life, he appeared to be good looking, charming, and a generally nice guy. That was a big part of how he could attract his victims.
i wonder, at which point in the process of getting to know him that the "it’s time to use exit strategy" first came to the mind of the victim? <not to be morbid> In all known cases, it came too late, except for the one boy who drugged (or otherwise unable to verbalize) <generalities used in preference to morbid fact> managed to get away, and was found outdoors in his underwear by some cops in the street. Jeffrey was so convincing in his facade he walked right up to the victim and the cops, explaining that his “boyfriend” was drunk.
Since the victim could not coherently explain his dilemma, and since Jeffy was so charming, the cops released his "lover" back into his care. They believed him (trained professionals - took him at his word, he was that believable). So in that case, it also proved too late. Often, one cannot tell ones true nature, until it is too late. we are all playing the odds in this regard.
Note: it is just as likely to meet a Jeffy in RL as on the net.
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