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Blushing - 4/23/2009 4:08:21 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		There have been several recent threads were blushing, particularly in submissive males, has been mentioned. I was wondering is this role orientated, do Dominants blush as much as submissives.

I was recently in a local store, being cheeky with the two feamle cashiers. One said if i carried on i would get spanked. The other looked right at me and said " He would probably enjoy it " ( How did she know ? ) The upshot was i went bright red, much to their enjoyment.
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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 4:15:05 PM   
PeonForHer


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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 4:17:29 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		See, I don't blush!  Must be the Dagonian blood, because I've been called "a body double for a ghost".  THAT is part of the reason making others blush is so much fun.

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 4:17:51 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		That would be a time saving device at the very least Peon.

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 4:32:57 PM   
SlaveBlutarsky


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Status: offline 		I only blush in my honking ass. 

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 5:30:32 PM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

There have been several recent threads were blushing, particularly in submissive males, has been mentioned. I was wondering is this role orientated, do Dominants blush as much as submissives.

I was recently in a local store, being cheeky with the two feamle cashiers. One said if i carried on i would get spanked. The other looked right at me and said " He would probably enjoy it " ( How did she know ? ) The upshot was i went bright red, much to their enjoyment.


Oh Polite, lol, they can tell alright. There's this indescribable openness and refreshing humbleness in men who enjoy submission and though I don't have the exact science to prove this gut feeling, I have enough trust in the peripheral vision of my feminine intuition to say it is so. ;D




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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 5:36:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Blushing is cute.  I like seeing red cheeks on someone else.  


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I only blush in my honking ass. 


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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 6:13:55 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Really?  You could spot a sub male amongst vanillas from his demeanour? 

Subject for another thread and one that's no doubt been done before, though. 

I shall research . . .

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 6:21:19 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I think that thread has been done before...  just like the "spot the dom" threads.  I do believe you can tell if someone is submissive or dominant.  What you cannot tell is if they are KINKY.

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 6:41:38 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I don't know about the phrase "as much" but I've been known to blush a time or two.  It doesn't happen often.  A good zinger that hits close to home will do the trick.  The timing and conditions have to be just right though.

Anytime someone mentions blushing in regards to Me makes Me think of a story from last summer.  There was one weekend that clip and I had decided that we would go up to the club in Atlanta Friday evening for some play and come back to town for a demo the next afternoon.  The Friday night had gone exceptionally well.  The play was amazing and had a wonderful erotic effect on Me.  The kind that almost makes Me wonder if, when during aftercare, laying the boy's head in My lap, it would be almost impossible for him not to know just how aroused I really was.

To make a long story short, we raced back to town the following day, running somewhat late to make it on time for the demo.  No time to shower just barely making it on time for the social hour.  I'm still quite spacey and aroused, hoping that no one can tell.  Prior to the demo, a few of us our outside for a smoke break, and under cover as it had started to rain.  Out of the blue, one of the gals mentions something to the effect of how I'm getting 'drippy' from the moisture.  I made the connection in My own mind to My feminine state of physical arousal and started to giggle and turned bright red.

Thank goodness, clip was the only one who knew what had really clicked in My mind.  The boy got a real kick out of it!


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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 6:56:02 PM   
ShaktiSama


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Status: offline 		I do turn rosy very often, but it's usually from exertion or excitement, not embarrassment. I'm very pink and steamy at the gym and err...during other athletic endeavors.

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 7:20:00 PM   
Andalusite


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Status: offline 		I blush from embarrassment fairly easily, and I also sometimes turn red when I'm laughing, especially when I get tickled. Guys seem to find it rather endearing, regardless of their BDSM orientation.

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RE: Blushing - 4/23/2009 9:36:15 PM   
MistressTaboo


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Status: offline 		Oddly enough vanilla things can make me blush...

BDSM does not...I can talk about BDSM and sex all day long...but compliment my work and my cheeks are bright red. Go figure...

And yes Peon some can tell the vanilla subs a mile away in a vanilla situation...I swear my mentor can smell them or something.... she's always 100% right too...I envy her that ability.




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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 3:31:35 AM   
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Politesub53 wrote: I was recently in a local store, being cheeky with the two feamle cashiers. One said if i carried on i would get spanked. The other looked right at me and said " He would probably enjoy it " ( How did she know ? )

She knew because you were in the sex shop again, buying a new paddle to replace the two-week-old one you've already broken.  Remember?

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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 4:02:59 AM   
azjojoba


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Status: offline 		Subs are put in humiliating or embarrassing situations so they are more likely to blush. I'm a blusher, and the mistresses I have been with seem to know that if they mention it, I blush even more.

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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 4:05:08 AM   
azjojoba


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Status: offline 		Yes, women can tell. I have been told be dominant women that they tell I was submissive just talking to me. I still don't know how. Feminine intuition maybe?

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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 9:47:33 AM   
Politesub53


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She knew because you were in the sex shop again, buying a new paddle to replace the two-week-old one you've already broken.  Remember?

beeble.



Dang, I told her the paddle was for my canoe !!

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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 9:53:30 AM   
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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 3:07:33 PM   
MistressRouge


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RE: Blushing - 4/24/2009 3:20:21 PM   
SlaveBlutarsky


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quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

Yes, women can tell. I have been told be dominant women that they tell I was submissive just talking to me. I still don't know how. Feminine intuition maybe?



Are you trying to massage their feet while you're talking to them? That may tip them off :)

I actually don't even know if I blush. I've never been called out on it.

Also, I'd highly doubt someone would flag me on their Subdar as being submissive in the grocery store or other vanilla contexts, even if there was a joke made that could lead them in that direction. I'm pretty quick and witty, so I usually come up with something funny, but doesn't give me away.

On the other hand, if I'm talking to a woman i know who's dominant, even if I have no interest or chance of having any sort of relationship with her, I turn into an idiot regardless and pretty much give myself away.


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