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windy135 -> No Names (2/1/2006 5:57:10 PM)

I'm just wondering if anyone would be intersted in sharing their horrible Dom stories. Please don't tell me I'm alone because I have met the most dickish Dom ever. Lol.. I mean Wow, I didn't realize people could be so weird. He's not only a dick but he's fake. What's with this? Anyone else ever meet one?



justheather -> RE: No Names (2/1/2006 6:08:20 PM)

Nope. Not a single one. Sorry.



LessThanKate -> RE: No Names (2/1/2006 8:22:41 PM)

It's always the Ones who send you chat request after chat request and then keep messaging you saying, "get on your knees, slut". I don't need that kind of aggravation, so I do a lot of blocking when I meet bad online Dominants.

Another problem on CM is that many view this site as simply a dating service and they become disgruntled when they realize that some of us are not interested in that aspect of it. I, for one, come here to read and post on the boards and keep up with friends. I clearly state in my profile that i am Owned, but that isn't much of a deterrent.

Was that what you were looking for?



siamsa24 -> RE: No Names (2/1/2006 9:31:55 PM)

I know how you feel. I clearly state (several times) that I am taken and quite happy about it, but I still get messages from people who are angry that I am happy in my relationship and seem quite convinced that I should leave my partner for them (fat chance!)



Arpig -> RE: No Names (2/1/2006 10:37:06 PM)

Well of course you should Siamsa, its obvious they are far better for you than who you are with, which is clearly evident by their inability to read a profile, and the fact that they are not with anybody (unless you count the wife who can't know anything about any of this).
[:D]



perverseangelic -> RE: No Names (2/1/2006 11:09:23 PM)

Mostly my interactions with people are very very positive.

There was one individual, however, who contacted me on another site and just...just didn't get it.

I finally gave in to temptation and posted our conversations on my bdsm-related journal because it was so insanely silly. These conversations make me look fairly...mean. This isn't my normal means of interacting with people, but sometimes, just sometimes, I get pushed.

Rather than sum up, here ya go---
(fyi, this is the same person in every part, but the handle IS NOT HIS. It is a play on his handle, changed enough that it can't be identified as the "real" persons.

Part the First

Part the Second

Part the Third

Part the Fourth

Part the Fifth


C'est fini.




windy135 -> RE: No Names (2/1/2006 11:36:00 PM)

Wow perverseangelic that is an odd conversation, I guess what I was saying is in person. I met a Dom thought I somewhat knew him and then he starts being really mean when we are talking on the computer. Later telling me it excites him. The weird thing is it kinda worked me up too. I have known him for months and he just confuses me, why I do not block I have no idea. Maybe in a way I like the attention, even though I know I do not want him in any form. I think maybe I should stop complaining on here. haha as soon as a positive thing happens I'll be sure to perk up my posts.. thanks for putting up with it all :)



foxglove716 -> RE: No Names (2/2/2006 12:03:17 AM)

perv, i just read the whole thing, i have to say that it was a riot. You are a lot more patient than most!


quote:

I must be infuriating to talk to if you're a cyberwanker.


priceless



Arpig -> RE: No Names (2/2/2006 12:06:01 AM)

perverseangelic...that entire series of exchanges was...perverse.
Like you I cannot fathom what he got out of the discussions...perhaps he just mentally inserted the desired answers instead of yours...Ooops, that couldn't be, that would require some mental ability....which he showed no evidence of having.
I am sorry you had to deal with him, but thank you for sharing it....I found it very funny, and your answers were a model of wit and self-restraint (well mostly...and the one that wasn't was long overdue anyway)



NakedOnMyChain -> RE: No Names (2/2/2006 9:25:17 AM)

I had one break things off because I "demanded too much of him sexually". Right. This guy had a tiny pecker and was no star in bed, plus I had my ahem... side projects going on at the time. We had sex maybe once a week at the most. I laughed at him when he told me we'd have to end it.

On a side note does anyone remember a certain guy on the boards about six months back who posted random inane threads asking futile questions? He's not here anymore. [;)] No names, remember?



IrishMist -> RE: No Names (2/2/2006 11:43:10 AM)

/scratches head and thinks hard

Sorry Windy

[:o]

I really am sorry that the one turned out to be a fruit [&:]



FelinePersuasion -> RE: No Names (2/2/2006 11:53:38 AM)

The list of mine would be shorter if I posted about good doms than the fuirts idiots and loosers. All I ever find online and in real life is flakes. In the 6 years I have been activive I've only met about 3 guys who were what they said they were, and one of them had so much emotional baggage he let that get in the way of what could of been for us.



Nuke718 -> RE: No Names (2/2/2006 1:27:10 PM)

Hey, guys are not the only "bad" dominants out there. Plenty of women fall into the catagory as well.

For example...
Good profile, first couple of e-mails went well, but after we started talking on the phone I got a vibe. I mean she was obviously not as experienced as she lead me to believe but I prefer enthusiastic interest over experience. After meeting in person tho, I realized she didn't have a dominant bone in her body. How? Well I knew she was married and also dommed her hubby, but after meeting them I realized he wanted to be an SM bottom so she stepped up to the job. And I definately had the feeling that she was just looking for men to "make" him have sex with. I dont mind bi folks, but its not my thing. And being up front would have saved us both a lot of time.

Nuke }:-



PenelopePitstop -> RE: No Names (2/3/2006 10:12:59 AM)

Funny I should see this thread: I am seething with someone, myself.

I've had a Dom friend on IM for a bit, and had been chatting with him, being very clear that chat was probably only as far as it would go right now as I am new, have issues, am breaking up with someone and in the exploratory stage. I thought he understood that. Well last night we had a bit of fun, mentally it was very good for me, he seemed to enjoy himself, and I was very clear that I wanted online roleplay (cos frankly I can't cope with much else right now), and that these were my fantasies, but...he got very manipulative with me and when I repeated for the umpteenth time I was expeimenting and new he basically told me I wouldn't want to be a true sub because I would be 'unwilling to try' ie, arrange a meeting with him. Which is basically calling me a fake because I won't be rushed.

I understand that when you are aroused you can get carried away but his reaction after i had tried so hard to explain what I was looking for and he had seeingly accepted it..well the mental image I had was of a kid having a tantrum in a sweetshop. NOT SEXY. Well, he's off my list.

Too many Dominants are only really dominant as long as they are getting what they want, and when they can't they become so infantile. I think it is a good test of dominannce actually, if such a thing were deemed useful: how does your so-called Dom react when he can't have what he wants?




fastlane -> RE: No Names (2/3/2006 10:23:35 AM)

My Dick's not fake.....Fastlane unzips and looks....nope...real good and hard....now where the fuck do I put it? Hand sez..me, me, me..... as far as Dick's on the site, the same applies to women....sorry ladies, but it's true.

Wendy, hang in there, you are precious and you will find the right Dom/Dick to not only satisfy you, but to make you happy......I'm sure!

Peace, Kevin



littleone35 -> RE: No Names (2/3/2006 11:04:34 AM)

I got a story i met this Dom r/l he seemed nice did not give me fireworks just something about him seems wrong to me when we left said he would keep in touch and gave me a hug. Wen i got home i had a e mail fom him saying i was not what he was looking for. he could have told me that up front i mean no hard feeling not everyones is someones cup of tea just seemed rude to do it over the puter.

littleone



fastlane -> RE: No Names (2/3/2006 12:15:58 PM)

I once new a Dom that was stringing on two women at once, and the fell in love.....Dumb Fucker! It was good, til love came into play
He hurt them both and then the one he fell for disappeared.....How ugly is that?

Fastlane retreats and sings the Dionna Warwick song.."I'll never fall in love again."

Love, Lord above, now your trying to trick me in love?
Peace, Kevin



windy135 -> RE: No Names (2/3/2006 12:35:42 PM)

Fastlane... I'm sorry you are hurting... time heals all wounds.. at leaste I hope it does..



Firmmaster4u -> RE: No Names (2/3/2006 7:18:57 PM)

im sorry i did this to you m



FTopinMichigan -> RE: No Names (2/4/2006 6:10:07 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got a story i met this Dom r/l he seemed nice did not give me fireworks just something about him seems wrong to me when we left said he would keep in touch and gave me a hug. Wen i got home i had a e mail fom him saying i was not what he was looking for. he could have told me that up front i mean no hard feeling not everyones is someones cup of tea just seemed rude to do it over the puter.



If you're meeting someone for the very first time, to get to know them...it means you don't know them, right? That also implies that you don't know how they might react to rejection, let alone with it being in public.

I have met with a few men for lunch or drinks, and immediately realized that things wouldn't go well between us. I also felt an obvious response from them, that they thought we were a perfect match. They were either blind to our differences, or completely ignoring my hint, and even my direct words, in some cases. I have even spoken to them about things probably not working out, and this "always" feel on deaf ears (of course because they always felt they could "change my mind"). Rejecting them in a public area, in my own neighborhood in some cases, may not be the best move, as I don't know how they would react. Some people don't do well with rejection (do ANY of us do well with it), as evidence from the responses many of us have received when we've rejected folks just via e-mail contacts alone. Can you imagine that same rejectee reacting poorly in public?

I think the let down, via contact "after" an initial meeting(that didn't go well) is better for both parties sometimes. I also feel that finding out that the match is not a match is good, regardless of the way it's offered. Too many people just disappear without reason.

K



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