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barelynangel -> RE: Is it improper to ask questions - or is it vital? (4/25/2009 3:57:51 PM)
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To me it depends on WHY she wants to know the answers. I mean a general mentality of why a Master is choosing to do something with his slave is not really her concern. As a slave, why does she need to know his mentality? To approve it, to give her permission, to make sure she can understand it and/or him? Sorry, to me, slaves don't need to always KNOW the mentality of why or how or whatnot a Master determined something. Over the course of time, a woman will learn her Master, but that doesn't mean she is better off THINKING she knows how he thinks or why he thinks what he does or chooses what he does.
Depending on what she is asking to me yes she may actually BE improper asking her Master to "explain himself" to her. And many times no matter how politically correct a person tries to say it that's exactly what is being implied -- he needs to explain himself. No, to me as a Master he does not. She is a slave. I don't think she should be asking anyone else either because on many levels she is treading on grounds she will never understand as a slave to a Man or grounds she doesn't need to understand as a slave to a Master.
Many times this is what i see that causes all the issues within the slavery concept people try and live withiin -- the slave believes the Man HAS to and MUST run everything past her so she can make sure he is doing it right. For Doms and subs, sure this may work, but to me, a slave thinking that as a slave she will ever understand the mentality of a Man who is a Master tells me she has a lot to learn based on the very real difference between slaves and Masters. Their perceptions of not only themselves but of the world around them. They don't think alike and therefore, a slave doesn't need to worry about the mentality, she to me should me concentrating more on herself to worry about what the Man's mentality is to me is simply setting herself up to a position she shouldn't attempt to place herself in -- a judge of whether or not a Man is doing things correctly in HER mind. If she is a slave, then she needs to concentrate more on HER mentality than worrying about anothers mentality.
grins, i know MANY people will have a kiniption about what i have said here because what i have said here is well a slave doesn't NEED to know everything. Its that simple. To say she does to me comes down to why? Can she as a woman and a slave really get where a Man comes from in his perception and thinking when she has 1) never been a man, and 2) more than likely has never been a master of a woman and needing to own a woman while making determinations for his home.
Over the course of enslavement and mastery, a woman gets to KNOW a Man, but that's not the same thing as understanding a mentality. So yes, many times it all comes down to motive as to why she is asking and i would seriously say 9 times out of 10, a woman is attempting to gain information not to basically understand but because she is attempting to manipulate the situation so she has some type of indirect control -- after all many times knowledge is power and power is control.
angel
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