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RE: Co-Ownership - 4/27/2009 6:29:37 PM

ElizabethAnne

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Hello lovingpet,

I do not think a woman can serve two Masters.   This is my personal opinion, I however have never seen it work for a long period of time. I have to agree with IronBear and his views, that is almost exactly how our home is organized.

My FC has a slave that live with us, he owns her, but in his absence she follow my direction.   I enjoy his slave, she does serve me in many ways, though final decision rests with him.

To touch again on serving two Masters, I have seen it tried many times.   It may work in some circumstances, but I would say those are very rare.   Most often I have seen the woman married, and her Master a different man. To me that is a huge recipe for disaster. And of course someone will say how successful they are doing just that, and I am not say ALL, but I can say ALL I have known, that type of arrangement has never worked out for a long period of time. Someone has to have a final say.   Again, I'm not saying ALL, just all I have ever known. What happens is truly the slave can only obey one at a time, so who does she obey? Unless the Masters are not equal, and their is a senior Master, as IronBear discussed in his post.

I wish you well,

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RE: Co-Ownership - 4/27/2009 6:41:03 PM

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I agree with ElizabethAnne. Someone has to hold the trump card and what if they are in conflict? It just seems like disaster waiting to happen, imo.

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RE: Co-Ownership - 4/27/2009 6:51:43 PM

DavanKael

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElizabethAnne
Most often I have seen the woman married, and her Master a different man. To me that is a huge recipe for disaster.

Avoiding the conflict between my husband and one who I would call Master (Again, highly significant term for me, as is husband) is precisely the reason I avoided seeking out D/s dynamics in poly- situations during my marriage.
The situation I spoke of in previous posts, not one sought out but happily happened, had me on the D-side of the kneel most often and still a conflict as they were both people that I emotionally, viscerally, and naturally placed in primary roles. Really well said, ElizabethAnne. :>
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