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Are they also mystical?? - 4/25/2009 10:53:30 PM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/25/2009 11:32:56 PM   
BKSir


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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/25/2009 11:49:17 PM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/25/2009 11:56:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: peppermint

If you get involved with your local BDSM group, you could find Doms willing to give you the play experiences you want and wouldn't even ask you to clean or cook.  


Quiet you!  I need someone to do dishes and mopping for me, without expecting much more than a 'thank you' and a solid whack or two on the ass in return! 


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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 12:17:08 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 4:42:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		peppermint hit the nail on the head about getting involved with the local groups.  I have several "friend" submissives that thoroughly enjoy spending a few days throughout the week tending to various task involved in running my home and business.  The exchange - is that I have no problem giving them experiences within the dungeon - especially with something they are either curious about or simply enjoy.  Bartering can be a win-win situation.


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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 6:25:06 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 8:16:58 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 8:35:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		I definitely know of Dommes that would take you up on that.  : )

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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 9:03:51 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 10:40:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		If I ever found a submissive that was truly interested in such a barter I would take him/her up on it.  But I would want someone that comes does a good job, doesn't have be nude or cd while working, doesn't need me supervising and bitching at them while he/she works and actually only expects a non-sexual scene in return.  But when I have been offered such services I find that there are a lot of strings other than just some pain play when I discuss the arrangements.


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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 8:28:08 PM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/26/2009 8:56:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do understand the reality of the situation. I am completely serious in wanting to barter. I am good at cleaning, laundry, and organizing- just to name a few things.  I love to know that a person enjoys walking into their space to find it the way they want it and that i had something to do to get that way. I also know that since I am not in a position to move and scheduling get tricky with travel and things that it is going to be a slow process. I know that if i am patient that hopefully something will work out. Otherwise I keep doing what I am doing. Which is to take care of my Sir here at home and wait for when he is the mood for pain play. I know that if I want it to work out I just have to wait and not rush things. Thanks to everyone for listening to me.

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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 2:10:57 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 5:53:06 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 8:53:49 AM   
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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 2:33:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

letsee a no strings smack around for a clean house.  cmere babeee I 'll hurt you so good.  If someone local made that offer to me I jump at it.



And the only reason I would not is that I have My household set up to be efficient and easy to keep on top of. Sometimes My girl says she already has too little of that kind of service to do so I haven't 'room' to accomidate such. But otherwise......


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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 2:49:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

letsee a no strings smack around for a clean house.  cmere babeee I 'll hurt you so good.  If someone local made that offer to me I jump at it.



And the only reason I would not is that I have My household set up to be efficient and easy to keep on top of. Sometimes My girl says she already has too little of that kind of service to do so I haven't 'room' to accomidate such. But otherwise......



To have a  no strings bitch come around whenever for fun and frolic I'll make room.  I have a bitch for everything else.  She just can't take the pain that I like to dish out  <most can't> on a regular basis.

I seriously doubt this girl could either but it'd be fun to try.

BadOne


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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 3:19:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		I won't put on a charade for anyone. A simple playpartner is easy to get (Here in London at least.... last time I specificaly looked it took 11 hours from starting to search to first play!). A service submissive gets some of their needs fulfilled from providing a useful service.... creating a false need for that service isn't going to float either their boat nor Mine.

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RE: Are they also mystical?? - 4/27/2009 6:58:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, hell yeah, I'd be willing to dish a bit of training, praise, and possibly pain play (Though, that might step over a personal line for me regarding not playing casually) for a maid (As someone mentioned, a really well-done job, not someone prancing around more concerned with their own fantasy than with serving).  I suspect, OP, that you'll find more women who wish to take you up on thenon-sexual offer than men, however. 
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