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question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/25/2009 11:28:30 PM

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Traditionally, as far as i understand it, cuckolding refers to a woman who has sex with other men and her husband or boyfriend or whatever gets off watching it happen. Is there a term for the reverse, wherein the woman wants to watch her significant other male husband/boyfriend have sex with other women?

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/25/2009 11:53:37 PM

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Um... isn't it still cuckolding?

There's no feminine equivalent, if I remember correctly, for the title 'cuckold' (which is where the verb comes from)... so it would just be the same term.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/26/2009 6:21:38 AM

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Cuckold, by definition, is a male but sometimes you see the term used for females. I can't recall ever seeing a special term for the female.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/26/2009 6:42:05 AM

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Some women who are into this refer to themselves as cuckqueens. This is where a woman is witnessing or hearing stories of her husband/boyfriend having sex with other women/men.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/26/2009 7:38:04 AM

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I think the definition of that word is expanding. I have no doubt that it will include women soon.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/26/2009 8:12:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

Some women who are into this refer to themselves as cuckqueens. This is where a woman is witnessing or hearing stories of her husband/boyfriend having sex with other women/men.

I have also heard the terms cuckqueen and cuckqueening used for situations where a woman's SO is with another person sexually. I could be wrong but I believe I've seen the the term used here on CM. OP you may want to try a search on cuckqueen/cuckqueening in this forum section by scrolling down to the bottom of the page and it's on the right hand side.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/30/2009 7:20:49 AM

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I've had this dilemma before, but I've just kept calling it cuckolding, though a lot of people have tried correcting my use of the term (someone even brought Shakespearean England into his argument).... but when I ask them what the female equivalent is, they can't give me an answer.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/30/2009 7:36:02 AM

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yes cuck queening and there are threads about this here but unfortunately many people think it is just a sad case of men cheating on their partners...rather than a kink, good luck.

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/30/2009 7:45:52 AM

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i remember the discussions about this topic and went and found one of them
Maybe you could try emailing the OP as she seemed to be very open to talking with others

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/30/2009 11:44:42 AM

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okay - I was curious so I went and looked it up. --> Cuckquean

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/30/2009 11:48:46 AM

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Perhaps its called "Oldcucking"......

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RE: question about cuckolding, sort of... - 4/30/2009 7:20:07 PM

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Cuckold is traditionally used to describe " a man whose wife has sex with other men, most often against his wish or without his knowledge". "a man whose wife or partner cheats on him".
If the man is getting off on it, I'd personally call it voyeurism, but I've heard it said that he has " a cuckolding fetish", as well.
Of course, on the internet, and in the life of WIITWD, meanings sometimes blur, but I have always felt that the difference between cuckolding and voyeurism was the mindset of the male partner watching or being "left out"... meaning of course, that it's cuckolding if he hates it, and voyeurism or a cuckold fetish if he likes it.
Cuckold is, customarily, used to describe a man... it is noted in many places that it is one of the few words in English that does not seem to have a common female equivalent.
All of which means maybe nothing to we who break the rules and enjoy it, LOL.

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