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such lack of trust - 2/2/2006 3:40:36 AM

NWDomDommeCpl

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We have been in the lifestyle for almost 6 years .When We first started using the internet to chat and hopefully find the "One" most people were who they said.Unfortunately as the years have gone on this has become increasingly more difficult.So many are of course not who and what they say.Trouble is its not helped when you come across a profile that says " I don't send pics,I don't cam and will not exchange phone numbers".
How on earth can people expect to find who they seek with contents like this.
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RE: such lack of trust - 2/2/2006 3:48:21 AM

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That sort of profile is likely to mostly get replies from people looking for online only. If that is what works for them then fine, I'm not and so just head off to look at the next profile.

With the way the world is it only makes sense to be careful, however you do have to leave enough room, open yourself enough to be able to find what your looking for.

Welcome to the boards, hope you find what you seek.

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RE: such lack of trust - 2/2/2006 6:19:01 AM

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from a slave's point of view, Mistress, it goes both ways. these days, there are so many predators online that would take advantage of a sub/slave. this girl has heard the horror stories. you may thing/know you are a decent person, but the person on the other end of the screen has no idea, and really needs to get to know you *smiles*

she is sure you understand it is nothing against you. however, after a bit of trust and communication has been established, there is no reason it cannot take that step further into phone/pics.cam, etc. many people are afraid to take the next step. perhaps they have low self esteem from being hurt previously. this girl has met several slaves/subs here that have been scarred by the predators she mentioned above: people who claim to be in the 'lifestyle" but in fact are just opportunists who feel the need to ruin another person's life to feel good.

slaves/subs know real Dominants when they talk to them *smiles.

Good luck in your search, Mistress!

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RE: such lack of trust - 2/2/2006 11:12:30 AM

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A certain amount of caution is reasonable. But when you live in a state as large as Texas, and people won't even put down a county or region, it' a lot like saying for location: "Europe" (and Europe is smaller).

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RE: such lack of trust - 2/2/2006 11:47:28 AM

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Welcome to the boards :)

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RE: such lack of trust - 2/2/2006 4:12:37 PM

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Everything that each of Y/you has said all makes sense,and We too have been on the other end of predetors. yes even We got fooled.
We are all for being careful and like most will take the time to talk and get to know people before asking/expecting to get more personal information. Most hopefully on here can smell that wiley opportunist(not always We know) and thankfully do not give out too much information.
Its just sometimes as already been said,If the profile has little or no information other than female ,no cam,no picture,and no phone,it doesn't give anyone the incentive to even try. Thats unfortunately how things have got now due to all the ones who are not genuine.
Thank you for your good wishes.We return the same and hope those that seek will find
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