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The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 9:15:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		That you have given or received. Do you felt you deserved it? Or, was it a steam valve for you Dom?
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 9:28:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Friday night. And it was 'valve relief' for me. I don't know how the heck his hand stayed attached to him after it all.  It lasted for several hours.

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 9:45:25 AM   
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Which is all the time of course.
 
On a more serious note, spanking isn't a punishment or a bad/negative thing for everyone.
 
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 10:33:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		We had to stop because of the bleeding.  (Next time, hard implements before leather straps and switches.)  Both of us wanted it to go further.  My arm was sore for a day or so afterward, and he had some pretty spectacular bruising. 

Did he deserve it?  I suppose so.  He was very nice and paid for my hotel and everything, and I try to reward that kind of behavior. 


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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 10:37:01 AM   
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 10:42:16 AM   
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I like to use switches next to last *because* of the cool welts and bleeding. 


I love welts.  I would've thought that I'd like the bleeding, but I mostly found myself irritated by it.  Next time, though, I will have a proper first aid kit with me, rather than being in a hotel in a strange city without so much as a band-aid. 


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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 10:45:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: strangedesire

We had to stop because of the bleeding.  (Next time, hard implements before leather straps and switches.)  Both of us wanted it to go further.  My arm was sore for a day or so afterward, and he had some pretty spectacular bruising. 

Did he deserve it?  I suppose so.  He was very nice and paid for my hotel and everything, and I try to reward that kind of behavior. 





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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 11:01:06 AM   
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That you have given or received. Do you felt you deserved it? Or, was it a steam valve for you Dom?
Several years ago, I attended a play party in detroit.  I was flogged by 6 Doms, had single tail, and at the end of the evening,  when several layers of skin was missing from my hehind,  I received a long, hard spanking by someone who was really into it.  I struggled with no avail, and between the rawness of my butt, and the extreme spanking,  I had trouble sitting, walking, wearing clothing, for about 3 days.  Was sooooo intense, but what a wonderful 4 hrs of pleasure/pain it was.   

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 12:20:05 PM   
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 12:33:02 PM   
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edited to correct ommission, never type and have your house invaded by 5teenagers at the same time!

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 1:22:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		deserved? i don't know if she deserved it. i wanted to give her that spanking and did so

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 1:38:36 PM   
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The worst spanking I got in a BDSM context had nothing to do with punishment. We do spanking cause it's fuuuuunnnnn!!!!!!!

There are sometimes trumped up, contrived reasons for the "punishment" just to add to the fun, but I can assure you my spanking priveleges would be cut off if I attempted to brat out to get them. I can also assure that when punishment was needed, no fun toys were involved. Pencil and paper maybe or a terrible ouchie lecture, but no, the yummy spankie things are put up for the duration of being in trouble. Fortunately, I behave remarkably well, so those lovely things never collect much dust.

As for how severe, well it was my first scene ever and he wasn't ready to break his brand new toy the first time he played with me. He stopped just short of drawing blood. I would have been perfectly content if he had gone further. I do hope my mouth is not writing a check my ass can't cash! LOL

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 1:47:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		i never deserve it...it is not like i am a smart-ass or anything.

The hardest, with his hand, was after the use of his belt. I stood for a few days.


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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 1:50:22 PM   
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Quite a nice memory, feeling that dull ache whilst healing.

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 2:29:46 PM   
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 4:03:18 PM   
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 9:01:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: wantstrictmommy

That you have given or received. Do you felt you deserved it? Or, was it a steam valve for you Dom?


It was the night my ass met a sjambok.  It wasn't about deserving or not.  It was what he wanted to do.


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RE: The severest spanking - 4/27/2009 11:54:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		The worst spanking I ever received was with a metal paddle.  I was really bruised, and it hurt to sit for at least a week.   I have to say that I probably did deserve it, but I would say that it was also a steam valve for my Domme. 

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RE: The severest spanking - 4/28/2009 6:01:55 AM   
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RE: The severest spanking - 4/28/2009 7:28:41 AM   
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i never deserve it...it is not like i am a smart-ass or anything.
God, I wish there was an icon for an eye-roll.  T'would come in sooooooooooooo handy. 
One could make the argument that, in D/s BDSM, spankings are earned through good behavior and are thus, well-deserved.  Since you proclaim what a good girl you are...~coughs~...then you were deserving of a good spanking. 

The hardest, with his hand, was after the use of his belt. I stood for a few days.

~applauds Mr. Jim~ 

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