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Female sub turning switch- Advice? - 4/28/2009 10:49:22 AM

kINKSandMetal

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Hello, Beautiful Mistresses.
I am in a very strange situation...
I have always been a submissive woman, and a very obiedent one at that. And I am in a relationship with a Switch male. He is usually my master, and He does indeed own me...But he has been in a mood to switch lately and I find myself very interested in the chance to dominate him. There are a few problems with this tho. I have never done anything like this, and He has a low pain tolerance. Im more worried about how to become his mistress. I don't know how to demand respect. He enjoys being punished, and even slapped. which i have found i take great pleasure in doing. I would greatly appriciate any advice on how to become a good mistress to a breakable boy. I really want to give him this pleasure (thats my submissive side) but a side of me is glad to finally be able to use and abuse him in the ways he has done to me.

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RE: Female sub turning switch- Advice? - 4/28/2009 6:00:39 PM

Andalusite

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I've topped someone I felt submissive toward, to his specifications, but I haven't felt dominant and submissive toward the same person. There are lots of sensation-play options, bondage, and other things you can do to someone who doesn't have a high pain tolerance.

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RE: Female sub turning switch- Advice? - 4/29/2009 7:01:42 AM

MistressDolly

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I agree - sensory play is a good idea for someone not into pain: ice, wax, anal play, t&D, light floggings, etc. Have fun!

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