RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions)

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seaturtle50 -> RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions) (2/5/2006 12:19:23 AM)
quote: but I hate the topic of money like the plague, and I guess that's why I'd never do well in a bdsm relationship that was all about financial domination of any sorts. It's not that I couldn't afford it, but that it would just bother the crap out of me so much that I'd never even think of exploring i Is is possible that this is because this is the "final bastion" of control, the last essence of your maleness - and you cannot bear to give that <it> up? st50

GoddessArtemis -> RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions) (2/5/2006 1:19:29 AM)
It's amusing that many come to false conclusions. I actually did not meet this supposed submissive on collarme, nor have I revealed where I posted it for comment. I was interested in feedback on the agreement itself, but as always, threads go off-topic.

Arpig -> RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions) (2/5/2006 4:14:55 AM)
You may not have met him through CM, but it would appear your fixation with tribute/financial domination is clear to him. As to the contract itself...it seems a perfect way for the two of you to pretend you are in control, while allowing him to still retain full control of his "chastity" whatever floats your boat

littlesarbonn -> RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions) (2/5/2006 4:23:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seaturtle50 quote: but I hate the topic of money like the plague, and I guess that's why I'd never do well in a bdsm relationship that was all about financial domination of any sorts. It's not that I couldn't afford it, but that it would just bother the crap out of me so much that I'd never even think of exploring i Is is possible that this is because this is the "final bastion" of control, the last essence of your maleness - and you cannot bear to give that <it> up? st50 No, it's because I hate the concept of money on a philosophical basis. When in a D/s relationship, I give up pretty much everything, including financial matters. But I'd never get there if the conversation was specifically about money.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions) (2/5/2006 5:31:14 PM)
quote: No, it's because I hate the concept of money on a philosophical basis. When in a D/s relationship, I give up pretty much everything, including financial matters. But I'd never get there if the conversation was specifically about money. I can completely identify with this sentiment. I may never ask a guy to relinquish control of his finances... Unless he told me he never would, than it becomes a dare for me and a measure of his submission/surrender of control to/for me. P.S. I agree with Akasha when she says the chances of this contract actually coming to fruition are slim and none, but please come back and prove us wrong GoddessArtemis. M

MsPurrmeow -> RE: Chastity Agreement (comments/opinions) (2/6/2006 12:17:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn No, it's because I hate the concept of money on a philosophical basis. When in a D/s relationship, I give up pretty much everything, including financial matters. But I'd never get there if the conversation was specifically about money. This is well-stated. If the introduction demands a financial component, (or a few other triggers) then I won't go any further for me. There are things that will follow naturally in the organic growth and development of a solid long-term relationship. Trying to push one fetish and ride it's tails to longevity has not proven itself out over time. I have little comment about the O.P. though. I don't see much of the contract having anything to do with chastity. That contract is about demanding that a female dominant serve pseudo-sub in a manner which gets him off in a way he chooses. I don't see any D/s in it. Purr P.S. sarbonn. Nice profile, this could possibly be an example of "profiles I will read and respond to."

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