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Penis Size


Measures the worth of a male
  10% (7)
Its pretty important
  33% (22)
I dont really think about it
  12% (8)
Doesnt matter, if you know how to use it
  43% (28)


Total Votes : 65
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Penis Size - 2/2/2006 2:49:40 PM   
KarbonCopy


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Status: offline 		This has always bothered me because, well I've never been able to get a straight answer.

In today's society men are plagued with feelings of insecurity, penis envy, etc.
We've been brainwashed by the media to think that a man is only as good as the size of his penis.

I dont belive this is true, but i've heared too many different opinions on the fact, so I want to know what you think.
This poll is open to anyone.

The question is,

"How important is penis size to you?"

Feel free to add your input on the situation.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 4:29:46 AM   
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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 6:33:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is important if your partner enjoys phucking (man I need to wash my mouth out with soap ), because it simply is not fun to phuck someone and not feel anything...
There are many factors of course, not the least of which is the woman's size (not so much physical size, but how toned she is in certain parts (read vagina... again way too much honesty here).
I say if you are at least average, and you are both flexible and she is reasonably toned, than it should be fine. If she likes to be hurt while phucking, you're not going to be able to do it with a 3-5" penis.

All of that however doesn't matter if: 1)she doesn't care for intercourse, 2)she loves you (even though you may be underendowed) and finds toys with which you can please her, rendering your penis less necessary (for fun or humiliation).
Yes it is possible for a penis to be too big, but that is subjective for each lady. I think anything bigger than 8" is too big, but the women who enjoy fisting would think 8" is just not enough.

I apologize to people who respected me up until this post, I know I sound like a pig, but KarbonCopy is worried about penis size, I wanted to alleviate some of his worries. I'm doing a public service, so you all will forgive me I hope. M

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 10:31:54 AM   
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"How important is penis size to you?"


If you take a poll of females and ask them if it is important to them. Many will tell you it is very important. Then if you delve deeper you will also find out these same females were taught about sex from their peers who know nothing.
I know this, because I have taken such a poll many years ago while in college.

Remember back when we were pre-teens talking about sex? That is when most learned what they still know today. Very few have taken the time to really learn anything about sex and our bodies.

So, does penis size matter in reality? No, it does not. Yet people will tell you it does.
There is so much more to be considered than what a man has between his legs. Would you rather have a large penis and never be able to satisfy your woman or would you rather know how to satisfy her through foreplay? Sex isn't all about intercourse. Sadly many people don't understand that.
Like the old saying goes it's not what you have but how you use it.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 10:48:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think those that came up with the saying it is not the size of the worm that matters, it is how you wiggle it were all underendowed.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 11:04:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		well personally i don't really think about it. I am over the published average, so maybe that is why (I am not by any stretch of the imagination large). i think the comments about pussy size is also very valid, after all tab A has to fit into slot B.

On a humourous note to the issue of penis size, a friend of mine, when chatting or reading dating profiles used to deduct 3" for what she called "internet enxpansion"

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 11:44:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

So, does penis size matter in reality? No, it does not. Yet people will tell you it does.
There is so much more to be considered than what a man has between his legs. Would you rather have a large penis and never be able to satisfy your woman or would you rather know how to satisfy her through foreplay? Sex isn't all about intercourse. Sadly many people don't understand that.
Like the old saying goes it's not what you have but how you use it.



DITTO!!! There is more to sex then just "screwing". And man with any size penis is pretty worthless if he doesn't know how to use it.


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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 12:02:34 PM   
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DITTO!!! There is more to sex then just "screwing". And man with any size penis is pretty worthless if he doesn't know how to use it.


I would have tended to agree with you until i dated a man that was no bigger than my little finger. I'm over 40...i can afford to be a little shallow when it comes to my personal wants...I want to feel it!


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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 12:40:11 PM   
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I would have tended to agree with you until i dated a man that was no bigger than my little finger. I'm over 40...i can afford to be a little shallow when it comes to my personal wants...I want to feel it!



LOL That reminds me of someone I dated a loooong time ago...he had the distinction of not only being the last vanilla I dated, but also having the smallest penis I have *ever* seen.

Yes. Size matters, to some degree.

I would say on the whole though...most guys are far more concerned with their penises - size, what they look like, etc. than the women they wish to seduce are. For example, no matter how lovely a cock a guy has, if he's sending pictures of it to me without me having asked (and I won't ask - I'll wait until it's appropriate to see it real time) - then he's gone. Nor am I going to want to interact with his penis until I've interacted with his brain for a while and been impressed.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 1:13:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		It doesn't matter if he knows how to use it. It does matter if it's so large to cause pain or too small to feel.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/3/2006 3:43:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think that it's more important to know how to use one's tool properly than it is to have something large.

But since I don't enjoy sex presently I can conclusively say for myself that size doesn't matter even in the slightest.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/4/2006 1:13:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Now how important do you think it is when a person feels inadequate. Regardless if this is true or not, its the way a person feels. What do you think the main problem is there?

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RE: Penis Size - 2/4/2006 1:46:14 PM   
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Now how important do you think it is when a person feels inadequate. Regardless if this is true or not, its the way a person feels. What do you think the main problem is there?


I think the main issue is self-image. It comes down to accepting who you are and what you were given to use. I am a little above average as far as penis size goes but I had thought that it was all about size up until I met someone who told me that I was a perfect fit. Would I like to be hung like a horse? No... not really but for the longest time I thought I would love to have a 12" dick. I settled this question in my mind years ago when I just accepted the fact that I am who I am and I decided to become comfortable with that.

Feeling inadequate in any way can really play havoc with a person, but feelings of sexual inadequacy is a serious issue because it feeds itself. If you feel inadequate sexually then that will translate into performance anxiety and possible sexual dysfunction. Sexual dysfunction is terribly difficult to get over because there is always a lingering doubt in your mind that it will happen again... the cycle repeats. There are reasons why there are so many penis enlargement machines and dietary supplements available; it feeds on the lacking self-image. The drugs to help erectile dysfunction are a wonderful thing because it can help overcome performance anxiety.

The bottom line is... don't try to be someone you are not. Be happy with yourself and find someone who will love you for who you are.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 6:43:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes
I would have tended to agree with you until i dated a man that was no bigger than my little finger. I'm over 40...i can afford to be a little shallow when it comes to my personal wants...I want to feel it!


dont they make male strapons er something? LOL

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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 7:21:08 AM   
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dont they make male strapons er something? LOL
Are you suggesting they should be the replacement for the man???? M

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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 12:55:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with candystripper, bigger is not necessarily better.
Too small can be a problem too though. I'm like Little Red Riding Hood, looking for juuuuust right.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 1:05:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Men worry about penis size, women worry about if their ass looks fat.....
been that way since time immemorial.

80% or so, (the standard bell curve) fit in the acceptable catagory I suppose ... after that, you gotta have some outside influence.

Mine is big enough to satisfy ME, apparently; so that's worked out real well for ME...

LOL,
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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 2:15:04 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		well i must admit i had some fun and put in "deems a man's worth"

but personally. it IS how you wiggle your winkie.

i was interested in this guy once.. went over to his house to play pool and in the middle of the game he flashes me this massive hardon. Now besides the fact that i was aghast at being flashed, just merely the monstrous size of his penis had me NEVER calling him again. (though the end of that story was he called me every 6 months to make sure i hadnt forgotten him.. heh)

Had a boyfriend whose penis was rather large. That thing hurt! Made things a pain in my uh.. Point was, i didnt enjoy it. ONE BIT

Now there was this guy once whose penis was too small and he was finished before i even realised he'd entered. Came to realise later he was ALL of about 3 inches. (he had issues.. yes he did.. lucky him they created viagra!)

i've had men on the lower side of things and well position matters. Take a girl from behind and if your about bigger then 3 inches (and if you're not viagra can surely help get the blood flowing) you're liable to slam into her enough to get that will deep enough so it doesnt matter. Same with her being on top.

you know, i had a rather unforunate encounter with some one once and they told me "my penis doesnt work but my tongue works great" And ya know, i think he really had something there.

i wouldnt really worry about your penis size. The average of penis size is what i would consider rather short being at about 5 inches i think it is. But since it seems to be a national average alot of women must be happy with it. i mean they're dealing with it right?

No personally, if i were you, i'd worry about what you do with it. Skill ALWAYS prevails over the tool. To make a sword you need a blacksmith with tools and the SKILL to use those tools. With out that skill.. (heheh and the tool) you're gonna get a terrible sword.

Ahem.. so go practice your skill!

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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 4:40:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

It is important if your partner enjoys phucking (man I need to wash my mouth out with soap ), because it simply is not fun to phuck someone and not feel anything...
There are many factors of course, not the least of which is the woman's size (not so much physical size, but how toned she is in certain parts (read vagina... again way too much honesty here).
I say if you are at least average, and you are both flexible and she is reasonably toned, than it should be fine. If she likes to be hurt while phucking, you're not going to be able to do it with a 3-5" penis.

All of that however doesn't matter if: 1)she doesn't care for intercourse, 2)she loves you (even though you may be underendowed) and finds toys with which you can please her, rendering your penis less necessary (for fun or humiliation).
Yes it is possible for a penis to be too big, but that is subjective for each lady. I think anything bigger than 8" is too big, but the women who enjoy fisting would think 8" is just not enough.

I apologize to people who respected me up until this post, I know I sound like a pig, but KarbonCopy is worried about penis size, I wanted to alleviate some of his worries. I'm doing a public service, so you all will forgive me I hope. M



There is no need to apollagise BlkTallFullfig. There is a lot of truth and honesty in what you say.


I regards to some of the other posts. I'll say it and I'm not afraid to do so. Us guys, meaning myself, need to be taught to make love (change to serve if you prefer) to a woman. We simply arn't born with the knowledge, and each woman has her own preferrence.

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RE: Penis Size - 2/5/2006 6:02:30 PM   
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Us guys, meaning myself, need to be taught to make love (change to serve if you prefer) to a woman. We simply arn't born with the knowledge, and each woman has her own preferrence.
Thanks MichMasochist... In my opinion, if two people share "chemistry", all you need to be in order to be a good lover are: attentive, open minded, communicative, and not afraid to get dirty (sex is only dirty if it's done right saying)! M

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