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ButtlerPaulie70 -> male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 4:11:02 PM)

Hello everyone I am very worried by what I saw last night. I went to a house to meet with 3 women of whom I had been chatting with on the phone and had got to no over a period of time for a face to face interview to see about a trial as a slave for them. While I was their I noticed a sort of small cage with a man inside it semi naked and when I asked they said he was their pet. I found out that he is only let out to go to the toilet and a 5 minute shower of a night thats it and he has been their pet for 4 months now. They would like to do the same with me but I said I was sorry and was not interested in being in a cage fulltime and they understood but I would like to know should I tell someone about this man being locked in a cage fulltime, he seemed fine but ot looked very cruel, I don't know what I should do.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 5:23:38 PM)

How big is the cage?




scottishdove -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 5:56:40 PM)

that is a tough one. if they were that casual about letting you see him and explaining, it is undoubtably consensual, and neither he nor the ladies are going to take too kindly to a visit by Social Services or the Police.

what about calling them and explaining your concern, and ask to speak to him on the phone, and have a conversation with him? If you aren't satisfied, then you can always call the authorities.





LadyPact -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 6:03:18 PM)

Personally, I'm too lazy to handle the upkeep of confining someone to a cage.  Having to bring meals to them, let them out for bathroom breaks and showers, having to worry about their safety while I'm earning an income.  Concern about atrophy and other medical issues.  Then there's nasty potential police problem that is always a possibility. 

I guess I'll just have to do this a few more years before I can get to that level of legitimacy as a Domme.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 6:13:29 PM)

I'd drop a dime. Its possible they were mindfucking you, and its possible the guy is perfectly happy in the cage. But at the end of the day, I hafta live with my decisions.
   What's the harm in having adult protective services do a welfare check on him, or having the police drop by? I couldn't sleep at night if I had to wonder whatever happened to that guy, and I hadn't done anything about what I consider to be a potentially very dangerous situation. Once they involve me in their kink, all bets are off if I'm seriously concerned about someone's welfare.




Lockit -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 6:35:06 PM)

Sounds like a mind fuck.  A small cage enough to hold a man all bent up to fit in it for long periods of time would have the man numb in places and in some serious pain.  No way could someone take that for four months and not try to get you to help him or let you know if he was in trouble.

What was his condition?  Was he ill looking or in pain or unhappy?  Was he alert or lethargic?  If he seemed okay, I think it is safe.  They could have had a great laugh about saying they wanted to do that to you and watching you.

If it were a case for authorities I would think that they would have let you in and not let you out because you could as someone said... drop a dime.




slavekal -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 8:10:21 PM)

Don't call the authorities.  If they were that open, the guy is there of his own free will.




SomethingCatchy -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 8:26:46 PM)

I second what everyone has said about a mind fuck. I've actually fantasized about doing something similar (hey, whatever floats our boats right?).

However, if you're really concerned I'd contact them and ask some questions about the situation. They may get a bigger kick out of it, but it doesn't hurt to ask either.




OttersSwim -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 8:40:16 PM)

Wouldn't it just be easier to have a goldfish?




igor2003 -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 8:48:59 PM)

Without more info I don't think I would call the authorities yet. All you know is what they told you and what you saw on one occasion. It may have all been just a set up to see what your reaction would be. If you are really concerned, then try to go talk to them again yourself to see if you can find out more or see more...or even get to talk to the slave himself. That might help you to be able to decide what would be best to do.




littlesarbonn -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 9:40:36 PM)

Um, I've been involved in something somewhat similar to this, and if someone contacted the authorities to "help me", I would have been seriously pissed off. Someone's not going to be in that type of situation unless it's agreed upon. If they showed this in a public setting to you, then he's fine with it. Otherwise, the conversation would have been a lot different.

For those that say this isn't for them (from the dominant side), I think there's a major misunderstanding about this sort of thing. People tend to see it from a context of "what do I get out of it", and if your desire is not to keep someone captured, then you're not going to get anything out of it, and of course, you're going to see it as work on your part. Why people feel a need to criticize it because it's not for them is often what leaves me wondering. For some people, this is what they seek, both dominants and submissives.

As for the OP, I would wonder why they were interested in you as a slave if you were so against this sort of activity in the first place. What had their conversations before this been about, because it just seems naturally odd that they'd bring you to their place and then suddenly reveal to you that they're into hard core captivity.

Personally, it sounds more like a fantasy someone concocted and then decided to post. As someone who has actually been in this type of circumstance, I know that it doesn't just fall into someone's lap that easily. This is one of those things you spend a long time searching for, and that's just with one person as the dominant. Three women? Usually I read about those types of cases in the context of "I never believed those stories before until it happened to me. One day, I was wandering lost into a college sorority when all of the sudden...."




scottishdove -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (4/30/2009 9:51:23 PM)

*lol*

i think littlesarbonn has hit it on the head...




SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 12:02:11 AM)

I have absolutely no desire to spent any real amount of time in a cage. After 10 years of being a cube jockey in some of America's finest and not so finest companies, I've developed claustrophobia. God damn sadists.







GreedyTop -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 12:03:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: scottishdove

*lol*

i think littlesarbonn has hit it on the head...


likewise ;)




SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 12:05:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn
One day, I was wandering lost into a college sorority when all of the sudden...."



Should I tell you about the year I was a busboy at the best sorority at my fine alma mater?




ButtlerPaulie70 -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 12:09:40 AM)

Hi again people, I have phoned one of the ladies today and spoken to the man involved just like one of you suggested that I do. He tells me that he is not in the cage all day and that he is fine and this is an agreement they have all agreed to. He told me not to worry and that all is ok so I think I shall leave it at that but I am not going back their thats for sure. And as for saying this is something I have made up well I am not even going to answer that one. To be honnest I am glad that following the advice of others on here I rang and spoke to the person involved and all is ok so my mind and yours should be at rest now, I am sorry for scarring anyone if it had come to that but it was a shock to me as well, take care all.




LadyPact -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 3:10:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

Um, I've been involved in something somewhat similar to this, and if someone contacted the authorities to "help me", I would have been seriously pissed off. Someone's not going to be in that type of situation unless it's agreed upon. If they showed this in a public setting to you, then he's fine with it. Otherwise, the conversation would have been a lot different.

For those that say this isn't for them (from the dominant side), I think there's a major misunderstanding about this sort of thing. People tend to see it from a context of "what do I get out of it", and if your desire is not to keep someone captured, then you're not going to get anything out of it, and of course, you're going to see it as work on your part. Why people feel a need to criticize it because it's not for them is often what leaves me wondering. For some people, this is what they seek, both dominants and submissives.

As for the OP, I would wonder why they were interested in you as a slave if you were so against this sort of activity in the first place. What had their conversations before this been about, because it just seems naturally odd that they'd bring you to their place and then suddenly reveal to you that they're into hard core captivity.

Personally, it sounds more like a fantasy someone concocted and then decided to post. As someone who has actually been in this type of circumstance, I know that it doesn't just fall into someone's lap that easily. This is one of those things you spend a long time searching for, and that's just with one person as the dominant. Three women? Usually I read about those types of cases in the context of "I never believed those stories before until it happened to me. One day, I was wandering lost into a college sorority when all of the sudden...."



For the exact same reason that I say the same thing in other areas.  At best, the story in the OP is fantasy fulfillment for the sub and at worst, it is fantasy for the person who wrote it.  Just as you pointed out in your last paragraph.  Personally, I thought it was bs and I still happen to think so. 

On a short term basis, such as a few hours at a time or perhaps a weekend, confining someone with only bathroom breaks and five minute showers wouldn't be a huge investment.  A period of four months is a lot more work for the person on the outside of the cage.  Very much the same as if you put a four legged pet in a kennel for the same amount of time.  Food, water, exercise, medical, financial.... the list goes on and on.  Sorry, but there isn't enough in it for some of us in return.  Just to say I have a 'pet' when I could otherwise have a pet that is functioning in My life, rather than one I'm keeping in a cage?  That's not enough for Me.
  I'd rather own someone who can be an interactive part in all of My life instead.

Sorry if My comments offended you because this happens to be your kink, but situations where the D type has a greater investment than the s type just don't do it for Me.  If it makes you feel any better, I say the same thing to ABs who try to convince Me that being their Mommy is D/s as well.




CatdeMedici -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 4:18:22 AM)

There is an old quote: "believe none of what you hear and half of what you see".




littlesarbonn -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 4:28:30 AM)

Well, your comments didn't offend me. That's not why I wrote what I wrote. My main point is that this is actually an activity that a very select few get pleasure from, from both sides. But if someone isn't into it to the level that they are (I used to be, but having lived in it, it kind of lessened the fantasy of it a lot to where it's not what I seek anymore), then an observant is going to see it as work rather than pleasure. The first woman who allowed me an introduction to this kind of play a massive extremist when it came to bdsm activities, and she almost scared me completely out of the community. But back then, it was the greatest thing ever.

Anyway, only posting a follow up because I don't want anyone coming away with the impression that I took any umbrage at what they think or say.




Kaiel -> RE: male slave locked in a steel cage fulltime as a pet (5/1/2009 5:45:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

There is an old quote: "believe none of what you hear and half of what you see".


Ummmhummm!!




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