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allthatjaz -> RE: Abduction/Kidnap roleplay (4/30/2009 11:48:06 PM)
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ORIGINAL: bottomforbinding
Has anyone had experience with this? How do you play safely with someone new - in terms of taking precautions, etc. ?
I recently wrote in my journal about my own experience of kidnap.
If its going to be outside in the elements then you are always going to take risks. The law and the general public don't take this sort of stuff lightly. Two friends of mine were recently front line news after a dog walker reported a woman tied to a tree in a secluded wood and dialed the emergency services. Search helicopters and ground teams with dogs were brought in and the entire town was sectioned off whilst the police did door to door inquiries. What started as fun ended in tears.
Is it you that is looking at being kidnapped? If so you need to follow a few guidelines.
1. Know and trust your kidnapper and make sure he is not going to do anything stupid that could get you both caught.
2. Make sure you have limits set in place and that your trustful enough of him that he would abide by those limits.
3. Make sure your ready for this. My kidnap is nothing like I imagined and I was to an extent traumatized by the experience, even though it was my partner who I trust 100%
4. Try and get as much information on this guy. Ask for a reference from a former sub or anyone he has done this with before.
5. With kidnap you don't know when or where its going to happen and so having a (later) safe call is often not possible. You must however, make sure that you tell someone who you talk to on a daily basis that this is going to happen at some point and make sure they have all his details, including his address then make sure he knows you have done that.
6. Make absolutely sure he is who he says he is.
7. Be aware that if caught you are committing a criminal act and could end up with a record. There is no such thing as consenting to being kidnapped.
For the kidnapper.
1. Know and trust the one you kidnap. Make sure that she's not some dingbat that is going to make you accountable for this.
2. Make sure you know and understand her limits.
3. Even a fake kidnap victim should not be left on her own for some time after. Make sure you have good aftercare covered.
4. Talk to her friends and try and get some clues as to how she will react to this.
7. As above
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