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vixien666 -> I would like to know (5/1/2009 10:25:34 AM)
What should I do about a fake sub that is a true lier?? Most Dommes would not want to waste their time with him just to have him run off and hear nothing more. I hate to admit it but he wasted 2 hours of my night talking to this fake and I know others that have gone through the same thing. Let me know your thought on this. Goddess Lonna

Apocalypso -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 10:30:03 AM)
Put it down to bad luck and move on. If you've already wasted 2 hours of your time on a loser you shouldn't be spending another minute more on him.

DesFIP -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 10:34:26 AM)
Just because you aren't a good match for him doesn't mean he won't be a good match for someone else. How would you like it if he told everyone that you are a fake and a liar simply because you decided there was insufficient compatibility to continue talking? Haven't you ever had a bad date before? That's all this was.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 10:37:08 AM)
Just forget all about them and move on.

NihilusZero -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 10:58:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Just because you aren't a good match for him doesn't mean he won't be a good match for someone else. How would you like it if he told everyone that you are a fake and a liar simply because you decided there was insufficient compatibility to continue talking? Haven't you ever had a bad date before? That's all this was. 25 points.

ranja -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 11:09:19 AM)
Nothing...maybe his computer crashed...maybe he thinks the same about you

RCdc -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 11:10:02 AM)
Forget and move on. It doesn't mean a person is fake, it simply means your not compatable. Why waste your time? the.dark.

lizi -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 11:16:28 AM)
Lesson learned, chalk it up to experience...frustrating as it is when you feel 'taken' that's about all you can do. Why let this have more power over you by letting it disrupt your peace of mind? You are better than this person who deceived you - move on from it. The ultimate revenge would be to find someone who was great right? Let this go and start your search... Moving on and forgetting about it is all you can technically do here. CM has a policy of not blacklisting people and will remove postings etc that do this. If this person has put something in their profile that is untrue you can report it, that's about the only recourse I know of.

PanthersMom -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 12:04:48 PM)
so, you talked with someone for two hours and you think he's a fake. guess what, that's going to happen. i think you're totally off base looking to "report" him. so you didn't hit it off. maybe he thinks your idea of bdsm makes you a fake. you're a newbie, get used to the idea of kissing alot of frogs and move on. it's a little silly to think that you're going to sign on and find the right person right away. PM

Lockit -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 12:24:10 PM)
Two hours? He wasted your time for two hours and you are so bent out of shape you make a thread over it? Geezzzz... try a year or more of wasted time then I might tolerate a bit of a bitch about it! lol Two hours... lol I can top that at four hours a day sometimes! Player's can be frustrating... I find them trying to use me all the time. They have no problem with my illness... my son (adult) and say all the pretty words for a long time and I am not talking a few hours and then when they get the talk... they are running for the hills because they never planned on being there after a few months of play time. Now that is a player. Two hours wouldn't even give me a pimple! Don't ask what can be done about the players... ask what is that you are doing that two hours of your life wasted would be such a major thing.

Whenready -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 12:30:25 PM)
Isn't a true liar a contradiction in terms? Just a thought....

stella41b -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 3:00:45 PM)
And erm.. like, you're a true Goddess, right? Looking at the OP and the profile I'd say it's pretty much even steven when it comes to the kidology stakes. Seriously, I'd chill. Just completely chill out.

oceanwinds -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 3:10:35 PM)
I find it very hard to comprehend why someone would get so perplexed by a couple hours wasted, let alone having the need to waste more time whining about it. I do know that the world takes all kinds of people, so there will always be room for those who have to just whine about experiences they wished they didnt have. A couple hours is zelch in the scheme of things. Perhaps the need to redefine what really is important to you might be needed?

angelikaJ -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 4:20:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: vixien666 What should I do about a fake sub that is a true lier?? Goddess Lonna Li´er (lī´ẽr) n. 1. One who lies down; one who rests or remains, as in concealment. There were liers in a ambush against him. - Josh. viii. 14. webster() Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary, published 1913 by C. & G. Merriam Co. Lier is also a city in Belgium. Is he perhaps a Lyre or a lyre bird. I am terribly confused. Perhaps he is too? [8\|]

littlewonder -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 4:26:17 PM)
What should you do? Move on and forget about him. He's not your type. He may be someone else's type.

CatdeMedici -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 5:07:40 PM)
Suck it up Princess its only the beginning, at least it wasn't 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years.

windchymes -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 5:14:25 PM)
Maybe he decided she was a fake and moved on?

LadySweetOrSour -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 5:23:59 PM)
Meh, you say potato, I say, erm, well, potato. Ok, that was a bad example.[:D] If I had a dollar for every person, sub, slave, delivery guy, woman who works in the fruit shop who tells me about her 23 children, etc, who wasted my time, I'd be $1,283,972.03 richer than I am now. At a rough estimate. Anyway, define "waste of time". I watched a movie the other night that was crap. I didn't need to come and tell anyone that it was crap and that they must all not see it. Someone else might like it. Really, every minute we spend doing something other than curing cancer and fixing the problems of the world and universe could be classed as a "waste". Now I am accepting donations of $2 per minute of typing and giving you my thoughts and feelings. Please send cheques via CM.

pahunkboy -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 7:57:44 PM)
..try to equally exchange ample data with the next contestant.

CatdeMedici -> RE: I would like to know (5/1/2009 8:33:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes Maybe he decided she was a fake and moved on? damn, you are always a step ahead of Me!

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