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At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 5:31:06 AM

gentlesurrender

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When you first met did you have an instant thought, i want to be at his/her feet, or for Doms you wanted someone there,

or was it a feeling that grew,

or you will go to his/her feet only if told too

what are your views of being at his/her feet, or having someone at your feet

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 5:47:54 AM

IceyOne

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quote:

When you first met did you have an instant thought, i want to be at his/her feet,

No, it has taken time for that feeling to grow within me

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or you will go to his/her feet only if told too

In my past relationships, this was something that they always waited for from me. I see it as something that is highly meaningful.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 6:22:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gentlesurrender
When you first met did you have an instant thought, i want to be at his/her feet, or for Doms you wanted someone there,

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

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or was it a feeling that grew,

Sometimes yes, sometimes no

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or you will go to his/her feet only if told too

Sometimes yes, sometimes no

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what are your views of being at his/her feet, or having someone at your feet

It can be fun, casual, intimate or deliciously intense. At New Years when I had my two partners together for the first time, I knelt before both of them to signal where I was in my headspace as well as to encourage them to express themselves as dominant over me. That was delicious.

Other times it is just a snuggly time.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 6:40:07 AM

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I have a preference for over the knee...but I can be at his feet instead! Actually, it feels very humble to me, and takes me out of the concerns of the moment to concentrate on him....

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 7:02:55 AM

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quote:

When you first met did you have an instant thought, i want to be at his/her feet, or for Doms you wanted someone there,

or was it a feeling that grew,

or you will go to his/her feet only if told too

what are your views of being at his/her feet, or having someone at your feet

Heh, heh and heh. When i met him it was NOT an instant thought. Nor was it the next day or the next, or the next week.. or even the next month. If he had told me too, i'd of prolly looked at him mortfied like he just grew a 3rd head, sprouted horns and asked me to fly to neverland with him. Some feelings and depths of them are private not just something you share with anyone. Now i love it. Look foward to it and you will frequently find me there. i dont feel humbled or anything other then cozy and content.

Though i dont think i could do it with anyone else, it is not the side of me i show anyone else. That side of me was brought out by him and is for him. i honestly could not imagine being at another man's feet and i swear if one asked me too i'd prolly get highly riled and look at hiim like he's lost his mind. Cant imagine being at another man's feet with out wanting to grow 8 ft and step on him. But then i'm a bit odd.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 7:54:50 AM

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This does not happen with people in general, but with the Mistress it did happen quite fast. Once I was comfortable with overall physical nearness, I did want to kneel at her feet, or rather beside her legs. It remains a preferred position and feels like a priviledge. I'm not sure I could explain why. It isn't something she has thus far required of me at all. Still, when she is working or some such it's a place of comfort for me, and something about the perspective soothes. Perhaps it's because she will run a hand over my head at times, treat me more like a pet, and just then my presence is enough to please her. I know how I treat my animals and the idea of being in that position feels secure, especially loved.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 8:36:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: gentlesurrender

When you first met did you have an instant thought, i want to be at his/her feet, or for Doms you wanted someone there,

No. I actually started thinking, "I wonder how he moves when he fucks." I had a connection to him which was definitely partially an urge to submit. But I don't think I would have predicted that I would have become his slave. That urge grew over time.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 10:59:08 AM

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I did-but only because I thought that what was I was supposed to do.

Now, I never sit at my partner's feet. The floor is uncomfortable and I prefer snuggling with him on the sofa.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 1:11:02 PM

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I've only ever met 1 that i wanted to kneel down before right off the bat..... and that was when I got the honor of meeting Troy with MontgomeryGentry. OMG..... two shots of Jim Bean later... and I was ready for anything.

Now when it comes to Master... it's something that developed. And i'm not kneeling all the time. I may start off that way, but not there long. I may even kneel by him to watch tv, but that's short lived due to being uncomfortable.

I enjoy my time down there... but prefer to be up where he can have full access to me.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 1:28:19 PM

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I enjoy my time down there... but prefer to be up where he can have full access to me.

Different strokes. I love sitting at my owners feet, or laying down on my back and having his feet on my belly (its usually pretty comfortable for me)... its one of those all is right with the world moments.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 1:45:36 PM

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I had known Master almost a year before I actually did this of my own accord. I think it comes with time, with understanding that which is within yourself, and understanding the relationship dynamic between yourself and your partner ( ie; what each actually expects from the other )

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/3/2006 8:49:48 PM

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I can't speak for my Sub but in my case it grew. I was a little wary at first of Kari (especially since she has that degree in Psych) and, over several weeks, came to see her as a wonderful person that I both respected and enjoyed. By then I was having lots of thoughts of her at my feet, on her knees, or in even more 'submissive' positions.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 6:15:14 AM

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i think for me and my current Owner it was pretty instantaneous. i was introduced to him by a friend and even standing there talking to him i felt out of place..that i should have been at his feet. we were in a fairly public place so i didn't kneel at that time..but the first time we were alone together i was kneeling beside him. there is something intoxicating about kneeling there, head on his thigh, arm wrapped around his knee, his fingers stroking through my hair and occasionally gripping my throat. That has become his desired place for me as well. when we are together i am to immediately be on my knees. i enjoy how it humbles me, the feelings it gives me, the happiness it gives him and the constant "centering" i get from it all.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 6:22:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

I enjoy my time down there... but prefer to be up where he can have full access to me.

Different strokes. I love sitting at my owners feet, or laying down on my back and having his feet on my belly (its usually pretty comfortable for me)... its one of those all is right with the world moments.

C~

Got nothing to do with my different strokes... it's all got to do with the pain now a days. With my former Master, i use to let him use me as a foot stool too. Things change for some of us with age, aches and pains.... LOL

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 6:52:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: gentlesurrender
When you first met did you have an instant thought, i want to be at his/her feet, or for Doms you wanted someone there,

or was it a feeling that grew,

It isn't the first thing I notice. Many women catch my eye/turn my head, but it takes mare than take for me to feel that spark of attraction that means I will do more than simply think "Very nice" and return to what I was doing.

If the attraction is there and returned AND I can feel the D/s dynamic slipping into place.... then that thought begins to form. But for me it isn't enough to have them at my feet, I need to know it is where they want to be.

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what are your views of being at his/her feet, or having someone at your feet

It depends on the situation and wether it is done with any delibrate formality.

If I have told her to be there it is because I want something. Either to discuss/explain something or start something. In both cases the kneeling at the feet is delibratly reinforcing the D/s dynamic.

If she has placed herself there then I usualy assume it is because she wants something, again it could be talking, reasurance or to ask/beg for something. I've had partners who have lacked confidence in expressing their wants and needs and this extra bit of 'formality' sort of 'gave them permission' to do so and helped them get past that.

And informaly, with a couple of partners it was simply where they felt comfortable sitting whilst we did other things, like chat to friends.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 8:57:05 AM

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Upon first meeting? Truth be told it is not usually my first thought. My FIRST thought is usually of a more base nature. Then I remember where I am and why and then I remember to interact and speak to the poor boy.

I have never had to instruct a sub to kneel at my feet, in the past they tended to do it automatically or on one occasion ask permission. I had never really thought about it prior to this, but I have only met one sub who did not kneel and kiss both of my feet prior to exiting. Perhaps this is more common in male subs?

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 9:36:36 AM

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I prefer for her to sit in my lap with her head on my shoulder, softly nuzzling my neck

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 10:22:43 AM

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Upon first meeting? ...
Perhaps this is more common in male subs?

It probably is. They're always squirmy because I don't allow it at our first meeting at, say, Starbucks. It makes them have to [ gasp] make eye contact and conversation! lol

They're only *allowed* to be on their knees, once I've chosen them.

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 11:34:07 AM

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i felt that "at His feet" was right where i wanted to be from day one. i had waited for it and was excited to have the opportunity by the time i'd gotten where He was. Sometimes it's not practical of course, but it definitely keeps me in the submissive frame of mind. It was nice that even when W/we had people around (i.e. the kids) they had no clue what it meant for me to be there. Also, W/we do spend a lot of time snuggling up on the couch as mentioned by Zenrage. Either way, there is almost always constant contact of some sort, no matter where W/we are...especially all through the night...it's O/our favorite part of the "day".

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RE: At His/Her Feet.... - 2/4/2006 3:09:42 PM

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hmmm this is an interesting subject for me, as a currently unowned submissive...and when i was owned it was quite the oppisite of many of the replies here...with my first Master when i "wanted something" i would curl up next to him on the couch and very calmly put my head on his lap or play with his chest hair or whatever, when i just wanted to be with him and near him and feel comfortable, i would sit on the floor or wiggle under his feet so he wouldn't have to make the effort to lift his legs...not because he was lazy but because i was making it easy for him...
i have a Dominant friend that i kneel at her feet when ever i need to release and unload all my troubles of the day, especially when she sees me in trouble, she just gets my attention and points to the floor in front of her...i guess it took a while for me to get there with her, in fact, its taken me about two years to wiggle under her feet so she could use me as a foot stool...which happened just last night

...and her Dominant husband sat down in the chair next to her a few minutes later and did the same, i was in heaven...i have never played with him, nor submitted to him in any overt way (he is one of those Doms that walks into the room and doesn't have to do a damned thing for everyone in the room to know he's in charge...of what he wants to be in charge of, not everything before i get jumped on...i am getting off on a tangent here, so i will stop) but i also asked her for something i had never asked for nor even experienced...for her to put her foot on the back of my neck, something i have often fantasized about...i LOVED it...face down on the floor ankles crossed, arms above my head and a foot on my neck and one on my butt...i was in subspace almost instantly, till the baby came and dragged a dog leash over the back of my calves...
as for whether it comes instantly or works up over time, i guess depends on my level of submission to the person...i have often knelt for Doms the first day i met them, but only for scening purposes...i guess being at the feet of a Dominant for me is much like what yun described, a humbling and centering place

babbled enough...
take care
chelle

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