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hibiscusamira -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/6/2009 11:50:15 AM)
I am going to the munch on my own. I met with the person who puts it together and decided it'd be fun. Thanks again for all of Y/your comments.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/6/2009 12:05:58 PM)
Good for you :), tell U/us how it went?.

AquaticSub -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/6/2009 12:29:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hibiscusamira I am going to the munch on my own. I met with the person who puts it together and decided it'd be fun. Thanks again for all of Y/your comments. Best of luck - I hope you have a great time!

AquaticSub -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/6/2009 12:36:26 PM)
I am not making universal statements Focus. I'm pointing out that, by my experience, your unviseral statements that it's a terrible idea are false. If YOU do not want YOUR property to go without you that's fine. What I was questioning is your attitude that NO ONE should want differently. And clearly, I'm not the only one who doesn't think along the same lines since I'm not the only saying "Go if you feel comfortable". Quite frankly, feminism doesn't have anything to do with this. It has to do with different styles of doing things and respecting dominants who do things differently.

hibiscusamira -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/6/2009 12:56:12 PM)
I certainly will let Y/you all know :)

AquaticSub -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/6/2009 1:05:29 PM)
[:)][:)][:)]

Focus50 -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/7/2009 5:03:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum ehhh focus my "read" of your post is...ME TARZAN UBER DOM... you helpless sub jane .. you can't do anything for yourself without uber dom to guide you. not my style. More like Me "Daboss man" <yes she sometime actually call me that cracks me up to no end>... you competent jane....i have trained you well enuff to think, make decision for yourself <kid analogy> so go ahead make a decision, make mistakes you will <as we all do> And you can count on me to be there thru it all. If you rasie/train someone to "have to count" on somebody else you are doing them a huge diservice. To be afraid to be to try something new without someone holding your hand is nutz. Im not saying my way is better or worse than your way of rasing /training someone. Im saying that is my way, and I dont agree with yours. It's not cool of me to be possessive and controlling of MY possessions? gasp SailingBum, your reading of my posts says waaaay more about you than it does me.... <snort> focus. but of course Im the Idiot and subject to your rather childish attempt to belittle me. My "childish attempt to belittle" you? Me, the "ME TARZAN UBER DOM" me??? Are you familiar with the term "transference"? quote: As you can't add anything constructive to this discussion. Seems to me I've contributed enough in this discussion to constitute a small (but very informative) novel. Look for the green text, this is at least my 8th post.... quote: That tactic may work in some fantasy uber dom world ...it doesn't work in mine. The..... "tactic" of preferring to discuss the actual topic? Finally; I'm lost for words...! focus.

Focus50 -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/7/2009 5:16:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 And let's be clear, when I tell my girl (my possession) something is her choice, I'm not entirely off the hook if hindsight says she chose poorly or was unlucky. Stop pissing Me off by saying things I can only agree with! [:D] On the nail there focus. If I am giving My girl a choise, in effect I am approving all the choises that can be made regarding that issue. I Own her, her choises are either made by Me or accountable to Me... The only way I can be 'off the hook' is if she disabeys Me and then there is a bigger issue to deal with! When My girl was asking about maybe going to a munch I couldn't go to.... a ladys munch.... I said fine so long as We arranged for her to go with one of a couple of people I know that attend, people who would keep an eye on her and also help her break the ice as well as be company themselves. The first local munch after she moved in with Me.... if I had not been able to attend, she would have waited till the next month. That is MY home turf, whilst I have no qualms about her safety she gets nervious attending new things alone. she would have felt very odd going there for the first time without Me, people would have been more concerned in finding out where I was than about meeting her. Going with Me, I was breaking the ice for her Myself, introducing her around and yes proudly showing off My girl! Plus, whilst I would have had no concerns about her well being whilst there.... like hell would I have her walk home alone around pub chucking out time. The area where the munch is is pretty quiet but the area where We live can be a little 'lively' if you know what I mean! she doesn't get to go to the corner shop alone after 10:30 let alone walk back from the munch. Ahhh, a light-bulb moment.... I've noticed that you just seem to vanish periodically from CM then return. But no, it's that you mostly live in the real world but check in here at regular intervals to get refresher tips from my posts.... Damn, I shoulda spotted that a lot sooner...! ;-) Focus.

Focus50 -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/7/2009 5:50:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub I am not making universal statements Focus. I'm pointing out that, by my experience, your unviseral statements that it's a terrible idea are false. If YOU do not want YOUR property to go without you that's fine. What I was questioning is your attitude that NO ONE should want differently. And clearly, I'm not the only one who doesn't think along the same lines since I'm not the only saying "Go if you feel comfortable". Quite frankly, feminism doesn't have anything to do with this. It has to do with different styles of doing things and respecting dominants who do things differently. My attitude; my "universal statements" etc. Just curious, what with D/s relationships generally founded on an unequal control dynamic, is it not possible that I made at least some valid points in your eyes? Or is conceding that less pallatable than continuing to mock and deride? Frankly, as far as your feminism statement goes (which looked quite universal, btw), I think your experience of being a gentleman in an age of feminist brand sexual "equality" is on a par with your experience of a Dom's psyche and what motivates the decisions we make. Which again makes me the idiot for continuing to debate with you.... <gives myself an upper-cut> Focus.

SailingBum -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/7/2009 8:57:28 AM)
geez focus get a grip... I see your point just dont agree with it. nuff said BadOne

RavenMuse -> RE: Would you let your possession go? (5/7/2009 9:13:20 AM)
LOL 50% correct is better than your usual strike rate Focus old mate. Yep, if things get busy in the real world here then CM doesn't get a second thought. If I am just bouncing round the net with a bit of time on My hands then I wander back in. As for checking with You... dream on. Apples don't need tips on being an apple from an Orange [:D]

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