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RE: Simple Question - 5/5/2009 10:36:45 AM

MsFlutter

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

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A domme asked me "why I should give it serious consideration"

She is obviously talking about your penis. Why should she give it serious consideration? When you think up a good answer let her know.

~Lashra

BWAHAHAHA !! That came out of nowhere!! (You'd think I'd learn by now that eating lunch while reading the boards can be risky ! )

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RE: Simple Question - 5/5/2009 2:45:10 PM

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Well the communication between the two of you... as presented here, leaves a lot to be desired. If you can't explain it... you have one thing to do. Ask her to explain what she means and answer her. You don't need us to have an adult relationship.

Ditto, I don't get people who think submissive means reverting to childhood or lack of common sense.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/5/2009 3:42:07 PM

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It is as much a question of whether you should seriously consider her as it is of whether she should consider you. After all, unless you are willing to submit to any Domme who will accept you, it needs to be a fit from both sides.

Also, at this point you have no idea whether or not considering you (I assume that means opening communication and seeing where things might lead) will be to her benefit, other than if she is not open to talking to new men she is unlikely to find the one she wants.

I favor an honest and thoughtful response, rather than one which is a sale pitch. Tell her that you are seriously interested in finding a relationship, that there are things in her profile that caught your attention, that - if she choses to consider you - you will seriously explore whether or not you are right for each other, and that you will be honest and forthright in what you say.

If she doesn't want to open communication either she has already decided that you are not right for her or she is not really interested in a meaningful dialogue.

Good luck.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/6/2009 3:10:44 AM

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Lashra wrote:

Hi. Please could you tell me where you got your anti-gravity boots? I've not been posting much recently because mine broke while I was dancing on the ceiling just like you do and I hurt myself quite badly when I fell.

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RE: Simple Question - 5/8/2009 1:10:05 AM

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I have asked in my profile
If you wish to write:
tell me how you would enhance my life..
( if we were a D/s)

This gives me an idea of

1) preceptions of power....do they"I would let you ass fuk me" or
"I wish to be moulded to serve and please a compatible Mistress"?

2) do they have a skill set which may be useful or compatible to my situation?

3) are there things about them they wish to offer or can do that I need..want...can add to my life?

THESE things could be written about or answered when asked

"Why should you /it be under serious consideration
(you/or a Ds reationship)
eg:
I can add you your life by........
I can enhance your life by...thru...
MY skill sets include......
MY experience is......
MY strengths are
I wish to serve because..........
I am trained in...
I am good at....
and refer to specifics if possible from her profile..
eg)several have noticed I publish a mag and indicated HOW they could help there...or that I craft jewelry and asked /suggested HOW they could help...at shows? packaging?computer skills? a website? this goes a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnng way to being CONSIDERED
I was very impressed!

BE SPECIFIC ABOUT YOU OP!! get to know your self and your uniques gifts and talents that will enhance HER..
life..please her

best of luck
GQ

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RE: Simple Question - 5/8/2009 5:55:13 AM

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I agree with everything GypzyQueen has written. But the killer bit is how a sub picked out her skills and interests from her info, and then told her how his skills could fit what he thought her needs might be.

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