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lolipop -> RE: are there any daddies here? (4/11/2006 4:40:10 PM)

I lovelovelove daddy/daughter play, especially integrated into a 24/7 relationship. I normally do dress sort of little-girlish, but going all out, holding daddy's hand while he takes me out is a great feeling. Letting him order me a kid's meal, getting the confused looks from onlookers but ignoring them, giving him little kisses, getting immersed in the role. Most of all, just having him call me his little girl and I calling him my Daddy. I suppose that's the thing I most miss about my last relationship, because he felt the same as I do. =(



SirTrust -> RE: are there any daddies here? (4/11/2006 4:43:50 PM)

hi honey...)



JassWolf -> RE: are there any daddies here? (4/11/2006 6:44:36 PM)

I'm a daddy. For me, and for her, it's not "role play," though we've done that (e.g., Toys R Us!), but pretty much is part of the definition of our D/s roles. As far as I understand it, it's the emotional face of my need to nurture and mentor; for her, maybe it's from her desire to find a place that is secure and without the need to be 'in control.' I notice I haven't mentioned play ---

JW



Soquili -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/16/2006 10:57:13 AM)

In my case being Daddy has little to do with sex as such. It's more who I am, and now I am free to be myself as I really am. ;) I've put into common usage the "rules" I've mentioned to others: #1:complete honesty, #2 open communication, several others that aren't as pertinent to this post atm. It took almost completely losing my little girl before I was comfortable to let her know how I *really* felt about her. We were to the point of "I don't love you anymore" ;P before I decided to follow my own advice. Yes, it was scary, yes, I might have lost her completely, but it was *so* worth the risk. Yes, we age play but the ages don't really matter as much as her being free to be a little girl loved and protected from harm by Daddy. Could I have trusted her more and been more open years ago? YES! Was I? no ;/ If having a little one works for you and him/her then it can be the best thing that has ever happened to you. As long as you follow at least the two rules listed above, regardless of what turns you on, you will be much happier in the long run. I've seen many people both vanilla and not have problems that a little honest, open communication could have minimized or avoided completely.. 

Be yourself, be honest, communicate openly, and watch the problems fade into meaningless babbnle in the background. You may still have problems, everyone does, but they will be much easier to resolve if everyone involved is honest with everyone else. Let the other person(s) be mature enough to deal with anything that you need to tell them, and be mature enough to deal yourself. I get to test myself on these very things soon, need to talk to the person who was going to own my little girl, and gave me the chance to tell her how I really felt without worrying about losing her, since she had already given up on my ever giving her what she wanted. Now he and I will have a talk, and see what we can do for her together. I owe him a great debt, and hope he understands what that means to me. What a southerner owes, a southerner pays. ;)

Now, soon (I hope) I will own my little girl again. I'm debating a post about the mental switch from Daddy to Dom. I've tried to explain what I mean to my little girl, in that as my little girl she is treated one way, and that as my sub she gets treated another, but I'm not sure I made her understand. If anyone, and I -do- mean anyone, can think of a way to help me make her understand feel free to post/email me. I want her to be happy above all things, and she needs to understand how I can see her as two separate people. "Your voice changes when you talk about "the other one", (her as a sub) Daddy" I'll probably post something tonight or tomorrow with more detail, I just hope to find someone I/we/she can talk to about this, I'm still a bit shy about some things with her since she is usually my little girl when we talk.



mixielicous -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/16/2006 11:17:42 AM)

riotgirl i relate to your dynamics as well. Daddy was there before my Master was. He melted my hart the first time He told me i was His good girl. its comfort for me. it makes me feel cherished and cared for .... not to mention He is the cook of the house so it just fits [:D]. I dont scene with Daddy very often, only Master. Daddy is nice to me and He is my protector. Daddy wouldnt spank me even if i begged for it .... Master though ..............



Najakcharmer -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/16/2006 11:17:59 AM)

At times, I identify as a gay male leather Daddy.  I had one LTR with a boy where this was the exclusive dynamic, and I enjoy topping casually in this manner at play parties.  It gets a bit confusing to my partners when I flip genders back and forth, since I'm not particularly a clothes horse in either my Daddy or femdomme gender identity.  But my preference is for a partner who can be equally fluid and appreciate both gender modes, which lets me flip back and forth as the mood strikes me.

Oddly enough, I absolutely refuse to do "Mommy", and consider that the biggest turnoff imaginable.  I don't know why.  "Daddy" to me is sexy, "Mommy" is decidedly not.  When I'm doing femme drag, I'm still not Mommy even if I was just being Daddy.  Eh, the human psyche is a wondrously complex place. 



bondagemastertj -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/16/2006 1:52:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BrutalAntipathy

I could never be a daddy, but would make a great evil stepfather.

sounds like somebody has been reading My mail



Tamerofwild1s -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/21/2006 5:57:53 PM)

I have added the Daddy side to my life ... I am addressed as Daddy which I perfer to Master or Sir. there is a more loving and respectful conotation to it .. it doesn't have to deal with age play at all, it is more about the nurturing and caring side of the lifestyle. also because of my children it's easier to explain the slave calling me Daddy as opposed to Master
 
so now I am a Master with a Daddy Doms flair. it really makes the relationships stronger and the slut more eager to please. but this is just my honest opinion



impishlilhellcat -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/25/2006 7:55:41 AM)

I've always loved the dynamic of the Daddy/lil girl relationship. I feel more comfortable calling someone Daddy than I do Sir or Master. I love serving and pleasing Daddy and I am extremely disapointed in myself when Daddy is displeased or disapointed with how I have behaved. Not to mention that it just knots my heart all up when Daddy has to discipline his lil girl. I guess it's more a safe, secure, trusting relationship for me.. Sometimes I view Master/slave relationships as detatched and adding that Daddy aspect to it makes it more warm and familar. It doesn't really have anything to do with age for me either. Mainly because I am still young and also because I've always been attracked to older men.



SrDarkLord1 -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/25/2006 7:59:10 AM)

Impish one,perhaps we can talk and see just how well we match...I always wanted to have a little girl to train and own....let me know



CrappyDom -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/25/2006 8:26:29 AM)

I have come to be a daddy although it was a long road I resisted but it best defines my style.  I am loving, caring, nurturing, and I want to push them to be their best and I do that from a fatherly space.  I don't play so much age stuff, it just is sort of there.  I am NOT into the whole lollipop and pony tails stuff, but I like to brush their hair, tuck them into bed, make them feel safe end of it. 

Although it still makes me hard when the right woman looks me deep in the eye as she calls me Sir...and last weekend I was the beast clawing the very flesh from her bones too, so who knows!



genvieve -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/25/2006 11:48:38 AM)

While my relationship with my Dominant is not of the Daddy/daughter realm... W/we will play along those terms from time to time.  i've always wondered what the constant attraction to the Daddy/daughter play there is in this lifestyle and then i get to thinking...
 
Is not any Dominant a Daddy/Mommy figure to their submissive?
 
i mean, most vanilla P/people say W/we have those issues... have W/we proven them right?
 
Food for thought



spankmepink11 -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/25/2006 12:20:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

... I am addressed as Daddy which I perfer to Master or Sir. there is a more loving and respectful conotation to it .. it doesn't have to deal with age play at all, it is more about the nurturing and caring side of the lifestyle. 




Very well stated....i feel the same. Riotgirl...you nailed it as well. 



Tamerofwild1s -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 9:38:36 AM)

I also thought I would mention I get hard as a rock when my lil girl says Daddy .. please fuck me like the slut I am ..... mmmmmm



pinkee -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 10:23:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LondonDaddy

Yep, I have developed a strong daddy/daughter fetish over the last year or so and am now searching for a 'special lil girl' to play with :) I think the main appeal for me is the combination of dominance and loving together with the taboo aspect. It's my fave :)


It was FloridaSIS who introduced/explained Daddy/lg relationships to me.  Prior to that i thought it was just age play.  Now i have the gooies for Daddy Doms.  He, he.
 
pinkee



FloridaISIS -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 10:29:17 AM)

I've read the posts, and am well pleased with what I'm seeing.
[quote ] Original: Tamerogwild1s
it doesn't have to deal with age play at all, it is more about the nurturing and caring side of the lifestyle


quote:

Originial: Jasswolf
As far as I understand it, it's the emotional face of my need to nurture and mentor; for her, maybe it's from her desire to find a place that is secure and without the need to be 'in control.' I notice I haven't mentioned play.
 
For me it's all about the nurturing and caring. A Daddy by nature is more gentle, and tender. I don't see  a Daddy slapping his girl across the face, or humiliating her til she's a sobbing mess kneeling before him.
My last dom was too intense for me, and this is part of the reason I insist on being with a Daddy from here on out.
Daddy is Daddy, always there for his babygirl..guiding and teaching her, loving and protecting her. Making sure no harm ever comes her way. Nobody  messes with Sexy daddy's babygirl, not unless they want a date with the elastrator and Burdizzo plyers--lmao.
Nothing melts me faster than to hear Him call me babygirl, how can you not want to instantly comply?
(I may've stuck my foot in it there, as we all have limits, but a Daddy calling his treasured one babygirl, my gosh how can she not just want to melt in his arms.)
quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

I also thought I would mention I get hard as a rock when my lil girl says Daddy .. please fuck me like the slut I am ..... mmmmmm

Now aren't You a naughty Daddy, Tamerofwild1s. [;)] Us babygirls love seeing Daddy get his boxers in a bunch--hehe.

I have the added dilema of not only Wanting a Daddy Dom, but a Daddy who can switch, as I want  him to experience the same delicious delicacies.

Sits and prays with all her might...please oh please send a Daddy Switch my way. [sm=flowers.gif]
-----------------
Peace  and love,
Isis



FloridaISIS -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 11:43:02 AM)

pinkee, doesn't it just melt your insides and leave everything else like a Nestle's chocolate chip cookie--oooooie gooie, delectably irresistable.



tangldupinblue -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 11:49:41 AM)

See now my Daddy slaps me in the face til i'm sobbing all the time,and i go fucking crazy for it. my knees go weak just at the thought. My Daddy is my Daddy 24/7 and i wouldnt have it any other way, He does those painful things to me because i need it and cant live without it and He knows me well enough to know when he calls me baby while hes hitting me it sends me even further into oblivion.

blue



FloridaISIS -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 12:05:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tangldupinblue

See now my Daddy slaps me in the face til i'm sobbing all the time,and i go fucking crazy for it. my knees go weak just at the thought. My Daddy is my Daddy 24/7 and i wouldnt have it any other way, He does those painful things to me because i need it and cant live without it and He knows me well enough to know when he calls me baby while hes hitting me it sends me even further into oblivion.

blue

In no way did I mean to imply that it doesn't happen. Each couple defines it their own way, and uses what works for them.
I'm glad you're mentally able to handle such a scene. I wasn't and found out the hard way. A man slapped me across the face he'd be out cold, and I'd be out the door, but that's just me. I know many Doms and their subs are into face slapping, and I know for many subs it's almost orgasmic.
Call me a tender one, but I can't take face slapping.
I meant no disrespect, if anything I respect you more for being a step above me in this matter.
Face slapping for me is a hard limit, unless of course I'm so far out in subspace it's the only way to bring me out of it.





tangldupinblue -> RE: are there any daddies here? (5/30/2006 12:08:04 PM)

oh please i took no disrespect, just sharing what happens to me. there is never one perfect answer for everyone, i just got really lucky.

blue



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