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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/4/2006 9:39:28 PM   
TexasMaam


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HOw important is it it for you dommes, for the slave to be well hung? Be honest.



Honestly, with the men I've met over the years, since turning 40, I'd have to just say that it would be more important if it just worked!

K


<LMFAO! A girlfriend and I were talking on the phone earlier today. We howled with laughter at the following chat thread she experienced:

"...hell, I don't even ask a guy anymore if he uses viagra or not, it's gotten to the point where I have to find out straight up front whether or not he even has teeth. They don't even have to be real teeth. Dentures are fine, as long as there aren't gaping holes in his head!"


We laughed so hard, we absolutely cried!

TM

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/4/2006 10:00:14 PM   
TexasMaam


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Good for you *rolls eyes*

Didn't know we were gloatting.

In that case. I have this absolutely TO DIE FOR stuffed moose. His name is Stuwart, named after the first Bass player to be in The Beatles. He's soo ceeeuuutttteeeeee.
*squeeze*


And your point is? You 'do' the moose?
I suppose that's a mite better than a cold shower.
Good luck with that.

TM

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/4/2006 10:09:22 PM   
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HOw important is it it for you dommes, for the slave to be well hung? Be honest.


Well, since I've already got a well-hung man in my life, any slave I would own doesn't even have to have a penis at all. However, if we're going to assume that any slave I owned would be used sexually, then the only time size matters is if it's too big to fit or too small to feel. Beyond that, I'd rather he have endurance than size.

But there is SO much more to my life than sex.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/5/2006 4:16:16 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		for me it does not matter sometimes someone can be TOO BIG and that will cause i problem for me lol


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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/5/2006 7:10:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Evanesce
Beyond that, I'd rather he have endurance than size.

But there is SO much more to my life than sex.


i like sexorama days, where ya get the lube and do 2 - 3 hours at a time a few times in a day and then spend the next few days recooperating lol

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/5/2006 11:05:13 AM   
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Not to be rude.. but i was curious.. what would be Your ideal way of Your submissive servicing you? (Just trying to see if theres a "general" idea of servicing)


My ideal service well mop the floors, clean the bathroom, start laundry, have the dogs fed and dinner started when I get home. Take my coat, rub my feet and then cuddle in my arms after doing the dishes. Note a weiner was never required for me to be fully serviced and pleased.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/5/2006 3:30:40 PM   
MsPurrmeow


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Status: offline 		If the slave is a partner, then whether or not his penis is big or small means nothing more than whether or not I have intercourse with him. If I like the tools, I'll use them, if they don't do it for me, I'll get mine another way.

That being said, I don't do "slave" play dates. A casual or friendly non-live-in D/s relationship or encounter will not include sex, so it wouldn't matter. If the person became a partner with a long-term commitment, then sex would be a part of it. Penis size wouldn't change whether or not I'd choose the relationship, just how I would go about getting off when that opportunity arose.

Too many slaves advertise their penis size as a manipulation in a relationship. If they have a big one, they generally want it to be serviced by the domme. If they have a small one, they wave it like a flag (metaphorically) to prove that they can self-humiliate to promote Female Supremacy (yuck and double-yuck.) I agree with the poster above who mentioned that when men are obsessed about penis size, it's time to move on.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/5/2006 4:57:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Once apon a time I ask a lifestyle domme if she liked her men well hung?

Her answer was to throw a rope over the rafter and tie a noose in the end. She said, " My wife and I agree that the only good man is a hung man".


:-D

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/5/2006 8:44:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Size does not matter to me either, as long as if I desire to do some type of cbt, there is sonething to grab ahold of, and that does not take much in size, chuckles. I do not haved sex with my male submissives, so that is of no consequence to me..

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/6/2006 1:51:56 AM   
mons


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your welcome it is true not every sub is hung like a horse and i think it is more important how you present yourself as a submissvie then so stub who is oh yeah baby i have the goods for you and you will love me. a friend of mine call those men " diamond dick fooled " we laugh so hard she said what does it means nothing
so hey it is all in you my dear

with greeting

mons

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/15/2006 11:45:36 PM   
xXDollFaceXx


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Status: offline 		alright. i ask you to forgive me for you'll probably be seeing many 'simple minded' questions on these chats from me, but i am newer to this than i had previously thot.

A number of you have stated that you don't mix sex with your subs and such. This is somewhat bizzarre to me due to my ignorance otherwise.
Does this mean you have a partner who is equal to who with whom you have sex, or you seperate yourself from your bdsm life and your sex life, or you simply don't feel the need for sex or what.....

so confused.....

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 12:56:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xXDollFaceXx

alright. i ask you to forgive me for you'll probably be seeing many 'simple minded' questions on these chats from me, but i am newer to this than i had previously thot.

A number of you have stated that you don't mix sex with your subs and such. This is somewhat bizzarre to me due to my ignorance otherwise.
Does this mean you have a partner who is equal to who with whom you have sex, or you seperate yourself from your bdsm life and your sex life, or you simply don't feel the need for sex or what.....

so confused.....


In the Clintonian sense, I don't have "sex" with anyone but Libby. This is partially to protect her from disease but it is mainly because sexual intercourse is something so intense and intimate we want to keep it just for ourselves.

Our scenes with our submissives are usually quite intense affairs with orgasms aplenty, but by holding genital/anal/penile intercourse to ourselves (they are allowed to assist us which can be a very intense experience) we keep the seal of our relationship as something special and distinct.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 1:49:32 AM   
xXDollFaceXx


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Status: offline 		ahhh.....
my problem is that i date my subs.
It makes sense... to have a relationoship which you find special enough for sex, and then you have subs for the other fufilling aspects and such.
*nods*
much appreciated.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 5:53:12 AM   
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Honestly, with the men I've met over the years, since turning 40, I'd have to just say that it would be more important if it just worked!


OMG... you are on the money here... and turning 40 has nothing to do with it... for the longest time I was beginning to think that submissive male = erectile disfunction... lol!!

Ok, yes, size matters a great deal to me... I do expect sexual relations with my sub and I'm a small person... do the math here... I'm 5'2" tall.... how much room do you think there is between my crotch and my naval??? Sorry, really well hung and you just ain't getting it close to me!!

Jewel

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 8:39:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xXDollFaceXx

alright. i ask you to forgive me for you'll probably be seeing many 'simple minded' questions on these chats from me, but i am newer to this than i had previously thot.

A number of you have stated that you don't mix sex with your subs and such. This is somewhat bizzarre to me due to my ignorance otherwise.
Does this mean you have a partner who is equal to who with whom you have sex, or you seperate yourself from your bdsm life and your sex life, or you simply don't feel the need for sex or what.....

so confused.....


Sex doesn't require a penis.

There are lots of types of sex that involve penii but many do not.

Two women together means no penis -- though it might involved some toys if they so chose.

Even a man and woman together don't necessarily require a penis. Last night I had amazing sexual pleasure from Fox -- he used his mouth, his tongue, his hands, his legs, his voice, everything except his penis.


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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 8:54:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cbts4gd

HOw important is it it for you dommes, for the slave to be well hung? Be honest.



Does size matter? First of all, a submissive who asks this question has already answered it to himself. I have sex with My husband in every way, shape, and form AND he is My submissive. The size of hispenis does not matter at all. As the wise Ladies before Me have accurately spoken, endurance is the key. A man that has to stop himself from ejaculating 15 times cannot be giving Me the steady pleasure that it takes to fulfill Me. As long as the penis has a nice shape and looks pleasing (thick, well-veined, nice color) that is all I care about.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 9:00:24 AM   
michaelGA


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ooops, Christmas is over, sorry. a little nostalgia there...LOL

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 11:23:35 AM   
IndigoDadesi


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Status: offline 		Well personally Im not that...um...deep, so its more important that he knows what they hell to do down there. Of course if I have to ask if its in yet we have a problem...

On that note though, why arent more people asking if the depth of a woman is important to guys?...It just never comes up....

I.D.

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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 11:29:49 AM   
michaelGA


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here's how men view it, an enormous cock (DAMN, how i hate that work, but could come up with a tasteful replacement) impalling a very tiny pussy...LOL

can we say "OUCH"



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RE: slave, hung a must? - 2/16/2006 12:30:31 PM   
SimplyV


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Sex doesn't require a penis.




*snickers* maybe not.. but for me its so much better with one. Mmm I love a good cock.

Personally, I like sex with my submissive. So yes... his penis does matter. I like medium to well-hung (not gigantic though).

There is a thing to be said about thickness, but that isn't that much of an issue with me. I've found my vagina adapts pretty well to most.

And as someone here said, there is a thing as too long. But in my various partners, I've only had too long once.

There is a too small for me. I've actually had to ask "Are you in?" and if I have to ask it, then its not going to be a good time.. for either of us.

________

Now that said.. is his penis size a complete deciding factor? Probably not. As long as he's not miniscule, I don't see me tossing him aside. The most important is the man himself and how well we fit together in all areas of life rather than just the bedroom. Communication, trust, honesty, and a sincere willingness of spirit. Now those are much more important.

Oh.. and it must work. If it don't work, believe me I'll be finding one that does.

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