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ocwldcouple -> Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/4/2006 10:06:34 AM)
being a cuckold couple we would like to read others oponions, thought and general comments on cuckoldry. For us this is a very natural thing and want to hear if this is true with many other couples. We associate cuckoldry with BDSM and find this for us to be a comfortable form of male submission to the dominant wife/girlfriend.

truesub4u -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/4/2006 10:13:29 AM)
ok... i need someone to explain Cuckoldry to me please... Where is Lucky with her link when you need her?

yourMissTress -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/4/2006 10:16:59 AM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_207173/tm.htm

BalletBob -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/4/2006 3:39:27 PM)
Now I am MORE confused. I thought Cockoldery was where the Cock is Held, like where a Mistress is yanking on it or using it for torment. I never knew it was where a male just sits and watches his wife/GF have sex with another male as he just sits and watches. I guess I don't want any parts of it then.....I would rather have the tormenting and Yanking. Too Small to Grab Anyway, BalletBob

subfever -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/4/2006 11:10:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ocwldcouple we would like to read others oponions, thought and general comments on cuckoldry. For us this is a very natural thing and want to hear if this is true with many other couples. We associate cuckoldry with BDSM and find this for us to be a comfortable form of male submission to the dominant wife/girlfriend. I've never been involved in cuckoldry, and it's not something I would ever seek to orchestrate within a F/m relationship. I admit that in fantasy, the thought of cuckoldry can be arousing. However, the potential resulting pitfalls of cuckoldry frighten me. How do you emotionally deal with the risk of the Domme falling in love with her lover and running off with him? Also, who initiated/orchestrated the cuckoldry in your relationship, and for what primary reason? Finally, how do you deal with humiliation and respect issues?

truesub4u -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/4/2006 11:27:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourMissTress http://www.collarchat.com/m_207173/tm.htm Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh........... ok thank you Mistress, very much informed now.

Lordandmaster -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/5/2006 1:04:38 AM)
You thought wrong. What you're describing sounds more like CBT. quote: ORIGINAL: BalletBob I thought Cockoldery was where the Cock is Held, like where a Mistress is yanking on it or using it for torment.

Smythe -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/5/2006 5:47:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ocwldcouple being a cuckold couple we would like to read others oponions, thought and general comments on cuckoldry. For us this is a very natural thing and want to hear if this is true with many other couples. We associate cuckoldry with BDSM and find this for us to be a comfortable form of male submission to the dominant wife/girlfriend. Not sure what kind of a discussion you are interested in. My sense is that cuckoldry is a fairly common dynamic in a FemDom relationship. My question would be: Why with a male dom and femsub the same dynamic is not called cuckoldry??? Or is it? Smythe

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/5/2006 5:57:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ocwldcouple being a cuckold couple we would like to read others oponions, thought and general comments on cuckoldry. For us this is a very natural thing and want to hear if this is true with many other couples. We associate cuckoldry with BDSM and find this for us to be a comfortable form of male submission to the dominant wife/girlfriend. Cuckolding is a hard limit for me. I am monogamous with my sub and would never consider it as a form of submission for my boy. Be well, Julie

hairslave -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/5/2006 7:50:51 PM)
To truesub 4u and your MissTress i'm not intrested in being a cuck but, am one who finds this an intresting topic. to yourMissTress ,I just read what you intered on a nother threat. It was intreasting.Now for either or both of you. Can you enlighten me as to what would happen during a cuck event, where there is " forced-bi " .Other threads spoke of it but didn't make it clear. If it is consental , how would it be forced. There are profiles with this.there most be a way to better understand this. Thanks

wetsub000 -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/6/2006 12:01:16 AM)
Someone please correct me if I'm wrong, but it's my understanding that the word comes from cuckoo, a bird who lays eggs in someone else's nest for them to raise. In this sense it is only something that a female can do to a male (in this specific it simply means to sleep with another man not your partner) and while in BDSM terms this is with your partner's open knowledge/consent, in the vanilla world knowledge or consent is not needed for the term to be used.

slave4luv -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/8/2006 8:29:55 AM)
i agree totally with this couple. As somone who is looking for a long term relationship, perhaps even marriage, i think cuckoldry would be a natural fit for myself a maleslave and my future domme wife or girlfriend, who i have not yet found. It seems to blend well with the whole notion of d/s and even bdsm. Perhaps the stud will watch while your domme wife subjects you to bdsm, and then you are required to watch while they make love!

IronBear -> RE: Would like to start a discussion on Cuckoldry (2/8/2006 9:08:42 AM)
Main Entry: cuck•old Pronunciation: 'k&-k&ld, -(")kOld Function: noun Etymology: Middle English cokewold : a man whose wife is unfaithful - cuckold transitive verb One of the sex game my second wife and I enjoyed was cuckolding. The male was restrained naked and standing whilst he watched his wife giving oral sex to myself and then my ex wife. He would watch whilst we both had sex with her and later was sexually teased and if he behaved himself was allowed hand relief by my ex. Depending on the couple involved other games were played within the cuckolding frame of reference with the addition that he was forced to submit sexually to what ever commands were given to him. I most cases his wife was the dominant party but would be submissive to us.

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