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toy2serveu -> Surprises for Him? (2/4/2006 11:25:48 AM)
Valentine's day is fast approaching, and I have a general idea of what I'd like to do for him to make it special, but I'd love to hear ideas from the members here for something...shall we say, less vanilla. He's a very romantic person, so the traditional style gifts and atmosphere are welcome and I will be doing that also (candles, music, massage, cooking & cleaning for him, etc) but those are things I do rather often. I'd love to do something unexpected and truly surprise him. What I'm thinking right now would be, of course, new lingerie, and stripping/dancing for him, and I'm trying to think of a way to incorporate some bondage maybe, having my wrists tied to the beams on the ceiling...I could easily dance then, but the stripping would suffer. Any creative ideas or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

IrishMist -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/4/2006 1:04:45 PM)
I like the stripping idea to tell the truth, and it would mean so much more if you did something like that...considering the current conversation that you brought up [:)] something sexy and slinky...slow jazz music maybe? or something really sexy and bluesy? major strip tease followed by a lap dance? /grins evilly Mmmmhmmm now that sounds like a good time had by all [:D]

Gauge -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/4/2006 1:15:57 PM)
quote: What I'm thinking right now would be, of course, new lingerie, and stripping/dancing for him, and I'm trying to think of a way to incorporate some bondage maybe, having my wrists tied to the beams on the ceiling...I could easily dance then, but the stripping would suffer. If you have never seen 9 1/2 Weeks, there is a scene in there where Kim Basinger strips to Joe Cocker's You Can Leave Your Hat On. Great scene and a wonderful song about getting naked and being ready to have sex. Just a thought for the music.

HayaSierra -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/4/2006 1:39:53 PM)
Greetings, This may take a while to do, but if you have a knack for artistic endeavors and creativity, perhaps making a scrap-book of pictures and or cut-outs that describe exactly what He means to you, and how Serving/being with Him has made a difference in your life. If you are really daring, perhaps spreading a Devotion of your submission, over several pages with the pictures and artwork/cutout pictures might do well. Use some of his favorite colors, and include worthwhile memories in this from your relationship. Of course, it will be even more special if you present yourself in a nice manner to him for his pleasure and comfort for the rest of the day/evening. And yes, the stripping will work well too... because this is something highly erotic.

toy2serveu -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/4/2006 6:34:11 PM)
Thanks everyone, and agreed, the stripping is something he'll really enjoy. I've made the attempt a few times, but usually chickened out [X(] lol I've never seen the movie, but thanks for the sound suggestion. The scrapbook idea is a good one too, I could definitely see him enjoying that as part of a gift. Thanks for the ideas guys! I'm still puzzled about how to incorporate some bondage in there, it's been one of our favorite elements of the scene so far and he's enjoyed it a lot when I've dabbled with it by myself and he comes home to me being semi bound to the bed. The tricky part is figuring out a way to mix being tied but also being able to move freely and not impede taking the clothes off...maybe a certain way to tie the ropes that's "quick release"? If anyone knows a way to do that, I'm all ears lol Thanks again!

maybemaybenot -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/4/2006 8:23:36 PM)
Have you considered the bondage- strip in reverse ? When preparing your striptease costume incorporate nice silky scarves or long opera gloves, depending on the size of your wrists. You can either have the scarves wrapped prettily around each wrist or as an adornment on your outfit. Do your striptease, and end it binding your wrists with the scarves offering your bound arms to him. Using opera gloves, you leave them on for the entire striptease, at the end seductivly remove tying the non finger end to each wrist and tying the finger part together. Another thing that I have done that worked nicely is: wear some pretty thigh highs, the ones with the pretty lace at the top... as you strip, do that little stripper move: when removing place thigh highs around his neck, play a little with that, letting him feel the material on his neck, leave them on his neck, like a scarf. As you finish your dance. At the end, approach him and slowly remove the thigh highs, and bind yourself offering your bound arms to him. It's more a symbolic dance, but it gives him the idea and he can improvise from that point and take it in his own direction. mbmbn

toy2serveu -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/5/2006 9:46:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot Have you considered the bondage- strip in reverse ? When preparing your striptease costume incorporate nice silky scarves or long opera gloves, depending on the size of your wrists. You can either have the scarves wrapped prettily around each wrist or as an adornment on your outfit. Do your striptease, and end it binding your wrists with the scarves offering your bound arms to him. Using opera gloves, you leave them on for the entire striptease, at the end seductivly remove tying the non finger end to each wrist and tying the finger part together. Another thing that I have done that worked nicely is: wear some pretty thigh highs, the ones with the pretty lace at the top... as you strip, do that little stripper move: when removing place thigh highs around his neck, play a little with that, letting him feel the material on his neck, leave them on his neck, like a scarf. As you finish your dance. At the end, approach him and slowly remove the thigh highs, and bind yourself offering your bound arms to him. It's more a symbolic dance, but it gives him the idea and he can improvise from that point and take it in his own direction. mbmbn I really love this idea, I have a lot of thigh highs and he loves them, so I planned to wear them, but hadn't thought of using them that way, that's great! Thanks!

maybemaybenot -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/6/2006 9:45:19 AM)
YVW, toy. I hope you both enjoy it !! Ya gotta love thigh highs and opera gloves, they can be so eloquently wicked.[;)] mbmbn

toy2serveu -> RE: Surprises for Him? (2/6/2006 8:54:13 PM)
Definitely [:D] I spoke to him at work today and then sent an email with a tease of what you suggested about the thigh highs, it's safe to say when he called me when he came home that his feelings about the idea were positive lol Thanks again!

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