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Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of my ... - 5/7/2009 8:13:25 PM

TravelingTrucker

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***Just wanted to say, if I view your profile, I’m more than likely interested in hearing from you***

Its not that I am lazy and that I don’t want to send an email, I still do, I just hate typing out an email I spent my time on and two days later I go though my mailbox and find its been “Deleted Unread”.

That is the biggest slap in the face, I believe. I understand if they contacted you before and have no desire in hearing from them, but someone who is trying to make a good impression and be original and you have the audacity to just delete it. What if I was what you were exactly looking for? What if I would have been the one? Or at the most, what if I was going to be a great friend in the lifestyle? Well, no way to know now! Man, it just irks me…

I understand that woman on here, whatever your dominance orientation, get the most messages. Most from trolls and copy/paste-rs. I feel for you, I really do… But that is no reason to stop trying. There are genuinely good guys who try their best to make a good impression.

If you read my blog post, profile, and message board posts, you know I am not an English major and I don’t plan to be. I run all my stuff through Microsoft Works to help with my spelling and I do try my best to make it look nice, neat, and somewhat grammar friendly.

I just signed up for LifeLock. I feel safer already!

Picked up my first hitchhiker a few days ago. Picked him up in Sioux Falls, SD and took him to Angola, IN. It was nice to have someone to talk to. After awhile you just get so bored from hearing the same songs on the radio all the time. We stopped at Lake Station, IN to reset my hours. I bought him a shower and a meal and when we were walking out, we saw a couple. They were sitting in the vibrating massage chairs near the driver’s entry. I looked at him and then looked at her. She had a collar on. I didn’t go up and talk to them, but I’m pretty sure they were into the lifestyle. I have to admit I was instantly jealous! I want my pet to come with me on my trips too!

*Note: This post is also a journal entry…

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:15:49 PM

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:18:50 PM

TravelingTrucker

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I so am an attention whore!

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:23:40 PM

SlaveBlutarsky

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Interesting posting style. I predict much positive feedback.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:24:14 PM

LadyPact

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Dude, you've been here three whole days. You've got to be kidding.

Do you have any idea of how long it would take to even read the profiles of the people who looked at Mine? Geez! I'd never have time to do anything else. We're talking hundreds a day and I'm a 40 year old, married, poly Dominant woman. I can only imagine what it's like for a single submissive female.

Secondly, people look at profiles for all kinds of reasons. Not all of them include expressing interest. Like it or not, if you want to tell someone you're interested in them, you have to say so in an email. People aren't mind readers just because you 'looked' at them.

Last but not least, you're going to have a lot of emails deleted unread. Females here get a boatload and if you don't fit what they are looking for, many will save themselves the time.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:26:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

Interesting posting style. I predict much positive feedback.

Could you at least teach him how to dress? Off road trucking does not ignore the formalities!

Ok we think you are hot in a tux.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:30:30 PM

SlaveBlutarsky

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lol, I ain't teaching nobody nothing. why would I help my competition? this is war baby. No mercy. Does James Bond teach his enemies his secrets?

and thank you for the compliment. I plan on looking much hotter in a tux by the end of the summer.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:31:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TravelingTrucker

I so am an attention whore!

...Promised myself I would be good. Must ignore the desire to express what I really want to....must!

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:32:51 PM

TravelingTrucker

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Thank you for your reply, I guess I should start by saying even though I’ve only been here three whole days, that shouldn’t matter and my opinions still matter as much as yours. I am not trying to disrespect in anyway, but I understand woman get more attention on here as well. I suppose I wrote my first line for the ones who actually look at my profile after either I send them an email or view my profile after I view theirs. Again, thank you for your reply, but I agree with some and others, not so much.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:34:50 PM

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:35:21 PM

TravelingTrucker

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Go ahead I don't care... I know what I am.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:38:29 PM

RedMagic1

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Dude. Your opinions matter just as much as mine... which is to say, not at all. However, it is a fact of life that acting snotty to a woman who is trying to help you does not exactly impress the babes.

You might try behaving like a gentleman. I've heard it helps.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:40:57 PM

LadyPact

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TravelingTrucker

Thank you for your reply, I guess I should start by saying even though I’ve only been here three whole days, that shouldn’t matter and my opinions still matter as much as yours. I am not trying to disrespect in anyway, but I understand woman get more attention on here as well. I suppose I wrote my first line for the ones who actually look at my profile after either I send them an email or view my profile after I view theirs. Again, thank you for your reply, but I agree with some and others, not so much.

Fair enough, but here's a perfect example.

I clicked on your profile because of the forum post to catch some general information on you. It's not an interest, it's a curiosity.

One thing you should know is that a person doesn't have to look at your full profile to read the top portion. Some of your mail deleted unread comes from this. It gives them the chance to have a look at you without you knowing. So, it's not so much that you might be fantastic and they missed you, it's that they may take the sneak peak and know you're not for them.

Edited to add...... Thanks, Red. Ya knows I luvs ya.

< Message edited by LadyPact -- 5/7/2009 8:42:10 PM >

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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:41:19 PM

TravelingTrucker

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I do need to take better pictures, and ones with me all dressed up. I just don't have the need when Im on the road tho. I like my blue collar shirts, jeans, and my old Army boots, including my black hat of course!

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:42:52 PM

TravelingTrucker

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Ok, I agree with that.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:45:32 PM

SlaveBlutarsky

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dude, seriously, no one doesn't care about your opinions because you are new, they don't care about because of the obnoxious centered, bolded, goofy way they're presented. Stop thinking everyone else is the problem.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:45:50 PM

TravelingTrucker

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To be completely honest, I wasnt acting snotty. Im not an asshole, I just didnt agree with some of the things she said. I didn't realize disagreeing with someone was being snotty. My apoligies.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:47:27 PM

marie2

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Just another opinion in the crowd here, but I wouldn't suggest dressing up for some photo for your collarme profile. I suggest being yourself, and dressing the way you usually look. There is absolutely nothing wrong or offensive about your photo. In fact, it looks very nice. Best of luck in your search.

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:49:15 PM

TravelingTrucker

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Ok, apparently I have started off on the wrong foot here…

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RE: Ranting, raving and just needing to get this out of... - 5/7/2009 8:51:26 PM

TravelingTrucker

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Thank you very much. I really just put photos I had on my computer.

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