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gofor4 -> My wife fems then dominates me (5/9/2009 11:59:17 AM)
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Ok, that's not exactly what happens but let me explain :). I'm looking for input from others into similar ideas or suggestions from doms.
I cannot tell you why but over the years, I have developed an *intense* desire to have my wife feminize me then take control.
My favorites are when we'll start early in the day, she'll make me dress up, then will make me her secretary or servant for the day. The more she takes control, the more it turns me on, and the more I want her to take control.
We're not into pain, humiliation, spankings, we're simply not hard core about things. When we're not playing, dressing me up is not something she would suggest and it's not her favorite thing but she tolerates it and is very sexy about it, I never feel anything but naughty.
The thing is, once she's in the mood, she can get very nicely naughty, teasing me, talking dirty about having someone else over, ordering me around and most importantly, talking about how she would like to *make* me into her servant other times, like going to the cabin for a weekend, making me her house slave, things like that. She very much seems to get into it once she's warmed up.
I am almost sure that one of the reasons is that other than my own fetishes, she really has none. She is very much, very playful, very naughty, even downright dirty when the mood hits her but it's all because of me.
I love her to no end, would never think of messing around on her, we never think about screwing others but we do have fun fantasizing about meeting a similar couple with similar interests. We've had two girlfriends, she's had bi fun, she's obviously very open and adventurous.
She loves being photographed, absolutely has a bad girl show off side and about the only thing I'd love to add is her learning to enjoy dressing me up and really taking control.
I constantly fantasize that we might meet a lady friend who would enjoy adding to everyone's fun, her's included. The beauty is that she would bring fresh new ideas to our fun and we would include her in ours. I know that my wife would be very easy going about our friend dominating me. She loves teasing me about having her girl friend sitting on my face or making me serve them.
Problem is, years and years of looking has lead to nothing because most everyone wants all out sex and our limit would be oral. I mean, who knows, she might decide otherwise and I would simply follow my orders but it's not something we're planning on.
I would so badly want to make it worth her while for pleasing me, also!
I think what's happening are two things and this is where I am seeking advise.
1: I suspect that because I'm the one with the fetish ideas, that it seems, after a while, that it's always the same things, always for me. Even though I try very, very hard to encourage her to be as she wants to be when we're playing. I have suggested that she can fantasize about other men, getting doubled, what ever she wants, it's cool with me, it's all hot when it's fantasy, no nasty experiences.
2: I think we run out of ideas. In fact, I know we run out of ideas. She loves reading penthouse letters where the wives fem up the hubby and take control and she's bought two books about domination. The books she didn't much care for because they were too hard core for our style.
So, how do you think we could find a balance of making things very hot, naughty and well balanced as well?
Thanks for any input you can offer. And yes, I already know to pay special attention to her romantic side so that things aren't always fetish :).
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