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Q about CM bulk mail - 2/5/2006 4:03:15 AM

RavenMuse

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OK if someone has their mail control set then mail from people outside the peramiters of their search settings gets directed to their bulk mail rather than recieved mail. Correct?

Is there any way to tell from the other end that this is the case?

Situation is this: A young lady I'm trying to contact is quite likely to be getting a LOT of mail (I have good taste, she is quite stunning and seems 'real'. I anticipate she will draw a lot of interest even if she wasn't quite new) so it maybe that she is simply overwhelmed and neither of my two mails have been opened yet because of this.

If that is what is happening, given I am quite seriously interested in the young lady, it is probably worth me continuing to send the occassional follow-up mail maybe in a week or so.

However there is also the chance that I fall above the range of her search settings in regards to age (Nothing in her profile to indicate wether she is looking for a more mature Dom or not), if the mails are landing straight in bulk mail then there is no point.

We are not talking one line mails. When people contact me I expect a little time, effort and thought to have been put into it and likewise that is what I put into the mails I send.

Any way to tell which is occuring, or simply a case of continuing regardless in the offchance?

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RE: Q about CM bulk mail - 2/5/2006 4:31:57 AM

Quivver

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I believe the choices used in bulk mail folders are yours and yours alone.
I've found if something go's unanswered its usually for a reason.
Yet I've also blocked some I do enjoy chatting with just over age that
I had no intention of blocking. But an over filled bulk mail folder with
one certain name could look bad if it goes for months. just my .02

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RE: Q about CM bulk mail - 2/5/2006 4:44:19 AM

RavenMuse

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The other I had an initial particular interest (Also very attractive and new) likewise didn't open the initial mail but when I sent a follow-up a few days later I got a very nice reply. OK she had already found someone who had caught her interest, but the reply was such that I am even more convinced she was a very special person as I first thought. Her new master is a lucky guy.

I'm not talking about mail after mail, but maybe another couple over the space of the next few weeks. The reaction of the first young lady certainly convinced me that some degree of follow-up might be indeed worth it.

If the mail had been opened then I simply assume there was no interest, but when it isn't it leaves questions and possibilitys.

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