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YourhandMyAss -> Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:27:16 PM)

At least in a position where he's standing and you're in the sling? When we have sex in missionary style I can feel him smashing my tummy between us, and he has a bit of a tummy that kind of obstructs his penis a bit, and I can't really feel any penetration, there's a brief moment when he first sips in, and then that's the end of feeling it or enjoying it and I can only assume it's one of the factors keeping me from feeling the penetration properly. And it's not cause his penis is small either, when fat folds are not in the way, it's a very lovely penis indeed.

And yes yes before the loose weight camp jumps in and says loosing weight would help more than any sex sling, we are working on weight loss but it's not going to just miraculously disappear in days and I am interested in an alternative until the weight and apron of loose skin can be dealt with and does come down.

I really don't want a bunch of advice about trying out other sex positions, since my question and interest is only about sex slings helping keep the stomach out of the way.:)



beargonewild -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:32:38 PM)

Thought about trying different positions?
Like you on top, doggy style?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:38:15 PM)

I think the sling would work, with you in several different positions, but how about trying with you on a table or countertop (okay, I like kitchens...) at the right height? 



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:39:31 PM)

bear Doggie is my favorite but he can't maintain it,  His hips are to broad for me to ride him, i can't get up there, and if there was some way to get up there I couldn't balance. I learned how difficult balancing up there was after sittng on his ass to pop his back today. lol.


and with things like riding him,  I would think his fat fold will still be in the way same with reverse cowgirl and sideways sex, all though maybe not when he lays flat, the fat fold does tend to shift away from the penis, leaving it nicely exposed.
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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

Thought about trying different positions?
Like you on top, doggy style?




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:41:33 PM)

That is a sexy thought but the kitchen counters are to high and the kitchen table is not sturdy enough to have sex on and it's well in the main part of the house in the kitchen where any one could walk in, and yes that's the only table we have and only counter we have lol.

I was of course wanting to try sex in a sling anyway, I hear it's fun, so if the sling did help it'd be an added benefit.
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I think the sling would work, with you in several different positions, but how about trying with you on a table or countertop (okay, I like kitchens...) at the right height? 



beargonewild -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:44:28 PM)

The one fun thing about sex is trying out different positions! And as Lady H suggested, there's leaning on a table or couch and he enters you from the rear or other variations. Had you thought about getting a book of the Kama Sutra? Granted the average person isn't able to try all the positions though trying is half the fun!

eta: a sling would be great fun too.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:44:52 PM)

Go with the sling, then!  I love those things! [:D]



beargonewild -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:46:29 PM)

I agree Lady Hib......that is going to be my next major purchase in the next six months!



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:49:31 PM)

bear, we were cuddling earlier, and his knee was in just the right spot that if we had time to explore could of lead to some fun sexy times. I want us to pick a time where sex is not the ultimate goal, finding out new positions and stuff and then maybe sex in discovered new position is, we just are not having much sex/ sexy time do to that in maybe tomorrow before house cleaning we will put the time aside. I wonder if the Karma Sutra book is availible for online viewing or find a copy for not very much, even if we couldn't do the things in there, it'd be a nice and sexy book to look at together.

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

The one fun thing about sex is trying out different positions! And as Lady H suggested, there's leaning on a table or couch and he enters you from the rear or other variations. Had you thought about getting a book of the Kama Sutra? Granted the average person isn't able to try all the positions though trying is half the fun!

eta: a sling would be great fun too.




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:52:13 PM)

I saw a leather sling like the ones they have in the Citadel, a dungeon in sanfransico, but it was 500 dollars, and it didn't have the frame or chaines or anything else, and both of us being about 600 pounds all total, we'd have to buy or make a custom frame, and we're up to our eyeballs and drowning in debt and there isn't enough money to go around for nessesities let alone sex slings and furniture and stuff
* sad sigh*

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

I agree Lady Hib......that is going to be my next major purchase in the next six months!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:52:34 PM)

I am sure there are books out there for people of size and stuff that works, position wise.  Also, you might want to check out stuff for the handicapped, if he has a bad back that is limiting.  Amazon.com an amazing place!



marie2 -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:55:14 PM)

Ok, what in the heck is a sex sling?



marie2 -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:57:20 PM)

Oh nevermind.  I just looked it up.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 5:59:22 PM)

My back is the one that is bad, it also hampers doggie, even if he could manage to stay in and fuck me from behind I'd pay for it with days and days of back pain weakness inability to move or walk much.

Amazon is indeed a great place, so is ebay and other wide varity of subject auction places.
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I am sure there are books out there for people of size and stuff that works, position wise.  Also, you might want to check out stuff for the handicapped, if he has a bad back that is limiting.  Amazon.com an amazing place!



beargonewild -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 6:04:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

That is a sexy thought but the kitchen counters are to high and the kitchen table is not sturdy enough to have sex on and it's well in the main part of the house in the kitchen where any one could walk in, and yes that's the only table we have and only counter we have lol.

I was of course wanting to try sex in a sling anyway, I hear it's fun, so if the sling did help it'd be an added benefit.
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I think the sling would work, with you in several different positions, but how about trying with you on a table or countertop (okay, I like kitchens...) at the right height? 



Here's a few links that may help:
http://www.freekamasutra.com/ebook_online/sex_positions.html
http://freekamasutravideos.net/free-kama-sutra-videos.php
http://www.goodtoknow.co.uk/relationships/259026/Kama-Sutra-positions
http://kamasutrafree.stores.yahoo.net/kamsutpos.html



Loxosceles -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 6:14:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss
Q: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of  enjoying sex?


A: Most likely.
 
If you don't need leather, you may consider:
http://www.invacare.com/cgi-bin/imhqprd/inv_catalog/prod_cat.jsp?s=0&catOID=-536885362

Then, go to Lowe's and ask an employee what chain to use if you are going to lift 300 pounds.  (They most likely won't ask you what it is, but if they do, say you are going to pull your engine out of the car. )  Then buy enough chain for 4 chains from your ceiling to your sling.  If each chain is rated at 300 lbs, then 4 should give you lots of extra capacity and you shouldn't worry about them failing, and you falling and busting your ass (or worse).  When not in use, hang the American flag from the four hooks in the ceiling.  No one will ever know that you pull the American flag down and use the hooks in the ceiling for something else (well, your kinky friends will guess).  Just ensure you put the ceiling hooks into the studs in the ceiling.
 
 




purepleasure -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 6:30:19 PM)

Speaking from experience, and as a larger person, this one is not comfortable.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 6:32:38 PM)

That LOOKS uncomfortable!



MadAxeman -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 8:02:56 PM)

Load yourself in LadyH and fire at me



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Would a sex sling help with problems of stomach getting in way of enjoying sex? (5/10/2009 8:03:06 PM)

pure, I read your name as purple pleasure one itme and not I have to struggle not ta cal you purple now lol.

pure, I have laid in one where your entire body is supported,  and it has a little head cushion and I was only in it for like 20 minutes but it was very very comfy.


JT stock room has one. but it is of course as I said very expensive, I am hunting for a picture now.

This is very much like it but not quite it's one solid piece and it had  leg slots at the end of it it.

http://www.saxleather.com.au/sex-swingsslings/cargo-sling/136/N/140
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ORIGINAL: purepleasure

Speaking from experience, and as a larger person, this one is not comfortable.



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