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Ropes - 2/5/2006 11:32:35 AM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		I have never been any good with knots so when my little one and I started discussing her love of breast bondage my first thougths were to find someone who would like to bind her and help instruct me. Her thoughts were why don't we just do it ourselves. Neer having been one for turning subs into guniea pigs of course I liked my plan better. We bounced this back and forth and started looking at a few tutorials and finally decided to give things a go last night. I must say I think I own the most patient sub on the planet and know without doubt she is mine and loves me, nothing else explains why she would sit through my going back and forth between her, the ropes , and the tutorials. Now, I had been told that having her breast bound puts her almost instantly into subspace, and after I finished the wrapping and started cinching the top and bottom ropes, I am scratching my head and looking trying to figure out if I am actually doing it right, and I hear a whisper, "it's right", I look up and her eyes are glazzed over and she is trembling. Now not being confident in what I am doing, I was constantly checking everything to make sure it was right, and shewas not being injured, after assuring me again everything is fine, she checked out on me and ventured off into sub space until we finished. Later as we are laying in bed discussing everything, she tells me that she could tell everytime I wasn't sure and was concerned if I was hurting her and she hopes that as we continue I can relax and enjoy it as well as she did.

We have become so much a couple in every way I still can't believe sometimes we found one another here at CollarMe, and we only lived 15 minutes away from each other, who knew.

Kyle

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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 11:48:17 AM   
typesgirl


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Status: offline 		PlayfulOne: congrats on having and adventure together! isn't that what it's all about?
I think You did everything right...researched, communicated, experimented carefully and with consideration, and then discussed everything afterward. This is absolutely the way to explore any kink or limit...with information and communication.
How awesome for both of you!
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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 1:33:06 PM   
Smythe


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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

I have never been any good with knots so when my little one ...... <snipped> Later as we are laying in bed discussing everything, she tells me that she could tell everytime I wasn't sure and was concerned if I was hurting her and she hopes that as we continue I can relax and enjoy it as well as she did.

We have become so much a couple in every way I still can't believe sometimes we found one another here at CollarMe, and we only lived 15 minutes away from each other, who knew.

Kyle

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Very nice story, and congrats to both of you. Rope bondage is the coolest!
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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 2:08:25 PM   
cloudboy


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We have become so much a couple in every way I still can't believe sometimes we found one another here at CollarMe, and we only lived 15 minutes away from each other, who knew.


Meeting someone great AND close by is the FAIRY TALE SCENARIO.

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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 3:56:31 PM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		Congrats PlayfulOne, it sounds like you two had a wonderful time. :)

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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 4:27:53 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne
sit through my going back and forth between her, the ropes , and the tutorials. Now, I had been told that having her breast bound puts her almost instantly into subspace, and after I finished the wrapping and started cinching the top and bottom ropes, I am scratching my head and looking trying to figure out if I am actually doing it right, and I hear a whisper, "it's right", I look up and her eyes are glazzed over and she is trembling.


LOL Oh gawd, do I know this scene. My last dominant and I went through exactly the same process...Thanks for reviving the sweet memory...Love those ropes...love them, love them, love them!!!!!

Cin

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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 4:34:14 PM   
PlayfulOne


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ty, she asked to handle it this way so I did the best I could to make sure she was safe. She looked at the post and told me she remembers me talking to her, but has no idea what I was saying, she doesn't remember shaking and her knees getting weak, all she remembers for sections is just floating off into bliss

cloud,
it is amazing sometimes what you can find right under your nose. we couldn't be more perfect for one another

Smythe, you are so right, I should have been a boy scout and learned how to tie knots years ago instead of playing baseball


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RE: Ropes - 2/5/2006 5:19:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Patience and work is the only way to gain anything really worthwhile :)

When I went to the Austin Rope Symposium, EVERY tutor there said "OK just do a basic breast harness." And not a single breast harness was done the same way or looked like the other one.

THe joy of bondage.

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RE: Ropes - 2/6/2006 2:18:12 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		I have a mate who won't come golfing with the rest of us because he's no good at it. And he's no good at it because he's never tried it....

I'd sometimes wonder if life was even worth living if we needed tutoring for everything before trying it. Fair enough if there's an element of danger involved but bondage is something you can start slow, simple and easy with and there's no real perils as long as you have basic safety sense.

For eg, better knots that are too loose than too tight while you're learning because everyone reacts differently to pressure on the skin, esp females and extra esp if she's fair skinned - and you need to learn how *her* body reacts. Don't leave her alone while bound, even if she's (hopefully) totally lost in subspace. And have something to cut the ropes off in emergency. Lastly, keep checking the bound limbs etc for colour change or loss of heat....

One final note; most subs are loathe to "complain" if a bind is too tight, loose, itchy or generally uncomfortable etc because they just wanna be bound and left to drift off. Indeed, they can be quite selfish about it! But these things will distract her nonetheless and affect her ability to drift as deep into subspace as you'd both like. So not only do you need to check her regularly, but you also have to encourage her to communicate anything that isn't right, too! You may even have to put it in terms of failing you if she doesn't report any problem, no matter how minor.... Everything needs feedback in order to gain confidence and expertise.

Focus.

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RE: Ropes - 2/12/2006 5:41:20 PM   
artglfr


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Status: offline 		LA is right the austin Rope Symposium was awesome and I learned a lot there. I think couples especially would learn so much and would enjoy attending next year. If not there may be something in Your area where you could learn safe rope techniques.

Focus is absolutely right with every word He says. Subbies have to be watched, checked and especially like Focus said let them know they are failing You if they do not tell You when something hurts or is not right.

Rope play is sensuous but very habit forming.

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RE: Ropes - 2/12/2006 6:56:44 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		PlayfulOne..... you make me sick!... lmao..

No serious... I'm so happy for you and your little one. Most spend along time... still... seeking what you two have found. Continue to cherish... explore.... have fun...... live... and love.... and love.... and love......

Master and I run the same path as you and yours..... hard to believe... we started our journey about a year ago... it all still seems.... feels.. so new to us both.... and it keeps getting better with each passing day.....



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RE: Ropes - 2/12/2006 7:22:46 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		Well true, I think we are all going to be banned if we don't tone down the love fest, lol.

If you really want to be sick she just got home and posted on the When did you Know thread i started

Many blessings to you and your Master

K

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RE: Ropes - 2/12/2006 9:47:40 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		One of my favorite BDSM books is "The Morrow guide to Knots" by Mario Bigon and Guido Regazzoni. The front cover claims it's for sailing, fishing, camping and climbing.. but really, a lot of the stuff works great on a submissive. ;) I especially like the rope ladder for breast bondage and the chain sinnet for those with trubles having their arms behind their backs. Pages 236 & 204 respectively. ::chuckles::

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RE: Ropes - 2/14/2006 12:17:19 AM   
slave4Darby3d


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Status: offline 		you know - unless you cut off the circulation to the puppies there really is not "wrong" way to bind them.

Midori does beautiful things with rope (google Midori+bondage).

Master is very good at it too. I look forward to him putting his hands on me...

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RE: Ropes - 2/14/2006 4:50:40 AM   
amayos


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Status: offline 		What a wonderful story; congratulations.


I for one often find myself far too impatient for the intricacies of complex rope bondage. Some day I'll take the time to learn more technique.

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RE: Ropes - 2/14/2006 7:47:38 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		i find myself also enjoying the act of being bound...of remaining still while he works on me, as his object to play with. Sometimes feeling like a bitch, being prepared to be shown. i love listening to him breathe while he works the rope, watching his face as he works, and seeing that look of satisfaction as he steps back to admire what he has done. i can't help but feel so much closer to him during this process. Has anyone else felt that kind of intimacy during such a situation?

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RE: Ropes - 2/14/2006 10:05:12 AM   
HoosierScorpio


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Status: offline 		To help you to grow into breast bondage and bondage in it self I would recommend you to get a book called erotic Bondage by Jay Wiseman. This is a very good book to get you to know and understand what you are doing. Just take your time and go slow as you move forward. Also invest in a good pair of EMT Scissors So if any thing does goes wrong you can bust her out of the rope. There is many styles and Technique on doing breast bondage and each one is very effective and stylist. I would also get a Midori books they are very helpful with rope harness. I have been able to do breast bondage with camping straps and black straps. There is an event coming up in Chicago called Shabricon it a convention about Japanese bondage or Shabri. I enjoy your scene report thank you for sharing it with us and keep learning about it as much as you can.

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