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Oral Domination - 5/11/2009 9:45:00 PM

paulsissyslave

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Hi,
I recently had another session of Oral Domination, I was bound on my knees and He entered me. I was once again taught how much of a sub/slave i am and how much i do enjoy being dominated in this way. Other's have told me how repugnant this is but if that's so then why is this sooo goood.

Does any other sub or slave enjoy this? How does it make you feel? Do you feel so warm and content as His pounding dominant love is there?
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RE: Oral Domination - 5/11/2009 9:48:12 PM

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If you're confusing cocksucking with love, you may want to re-examine your position.

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/11/2009 9:52:54 PM

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< giggling > That is pure genius, Lady Pact, pure genius!!! I swear you should put that on t-shirts and market it! :>
OP; sure, providing oral for a partner is groovy. Hurts like hell (To varying degrees: tmj) but extremely enjoyable none-the-less. Also, I don't assume providing oral is an inherently dominant or submissive act. Depends entirely on the dynamic and intent.
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RE: Oral Domination - 5/11/2009 9:55:28 PM

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I might just do that, Davan. However, I'm still enchanted with the shirt that MP brought Me back from Korea.

"Ow is not a safeword."

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/11/2009 10:05:12 PM

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< giggles > That's a good one too. :> And, yaaaaaay that MP is back!!! :>
Apparently I'm in a capitalistic mood as I'm thinkin' that you could market your shirt and use the proceeds to buy any number of cool t-shirts, in addition to nabbing at least one with your saying for yourself (And perhaps sending one to an enterprising Davan, lol! :> )

OP, I'm curious what others are saying is repugnant and if revulsion from some is part of your 'kick' from the whole thing.

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/11/2009 10:56:17 PM

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*rolls eyes* Troll?

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/12/2009 12:31:05 PM

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I'm not quite sure what your asking?? If you are asking if people like to be bound then engage in oral sex I think you will get a lot of yes's considering the website your on...but still, I really don't know what your asking. I'm fairly new to the site so if I'm misunderstanding something I'm sorry.

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/12/2009 1:05:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

< giggling > That is pure genius, Lady Pact, pure genius!!! I swear you should put that on t-shirts and market it! :>
OP; sure, providing oral for a partner is groovy. Hurts like hell (To varying degrees: tmj) but extremely enjoyable none-the-less. Also, I don't assume providing oral is an inherently dominant or submissive act. Depends entirely on the dynamic and intent.
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RE: Oral Domination - 5/13/2009 4:05:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: paulsissyslave

Hi,
I recently had another session of Oral Domination, I was bound on my knees and He entered me. I was once again taught how much of a sub/slave i am and how much i do enjoy being dominated in this way. Other's have told me how repugnant this is but if that's so then why is this sooo goood.

Does any other sub or slave enjoy this? How does it make you feel? Do you feel so warm and content as His pounding dominant love is there?

It would seem it's some of the ladies posting here that are confusing cocksucking with a physical act of domination.

Speaking from the dominant's perspective, if I'm using oral as a form of domination then, yes, I want the dominated to be helpless and vulnerable as part of the desired headspace for *both* of us. That means she'll be naked, bound and kneeling, and usually in front of my wall mirrors so I can selectively allow her to see herself when I choose. And sexual release may not even be part of the scene as it's not necessarily the point of what's taking place - that the reinforcing of respective dominant and submissive roles *is*. Hence I prefer the term "oral service" to plain ole nilla oral sex....

Yet to meet a fem/sub who doesn't enjoy the dynamic of being dominated....

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/13/2009 4:27:51 AM

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hmm... was there more to the situation? because i have been bound on my knees during oral and also it is an act of submission, it's a small one and is engaged in by even the most vanilla of lovers. (furry handcuffs and oral, table for two?) maybe you are just new to sex in general... whatever the case, i don't see why anyone would have found that scenario "repugnant." and i agree that "love" is quite a strong word for oral sex. but there's nothing wrong with enjoying being on your knees... i'm pretty sure nearly every sub does.

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RE: Oral Domination - 5/13/2009 5:04:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: sunshiinedreamer

hmm... was there more to the situation? because i have been bound on my knees during oral and also it is an act of submission, it's a small one and is engaged in by even the most vanilla of lovers. (furry handcuffs and oral, table for two?) maybe you are just new to sex in general... whatever the case, i don't see why anyone would have found that scenario "repugnant." and i agree that "love" is quite a strong word for oral sex. but there's nothing wrong with enjoying being on your knees... i'm pretty sure nearly every sub does.

I think this was more a forced-bi thing - OP seems to be male.

Honestly, I think guys who rock on being forced to suck cock are an expression of repressive, Puritannical American culture. There's such a huge taboo against male homosexuality that sometimes a forced-bi scene lights up the endorphin switchboard in their head because of being transgressive.

But on the other hand, given Kinsey's findings, I sometimes think that a lot of guys seek forced-bi in a D/s scenario simply because they fall in the middle of the scale and have some homoerotic desires which terrify them because of their acculturation that says this is the Worst Thing A Man Can Ever Do. Being "forced" to engage in it therefore would free them mentally and emotionally by removing their need to feel responsible for the act "They MADE me do it! I'm not really queer! I am not even bi!"

Which is not to say that some subs aren't getting and enjoying domination which happens to be expressed as oral service. One of the most intense experiences ever is being on my back, head over the edge of the bed, hands restrained, while having either a man or a woman with a strap on take me orally. That has a lot of feelings of helplessness, panic about breathing, etc. associated with it.

All that aside, I think the OP was trolling for wanking material, honestly.

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