RE: Color Of Submission

RE: Color Of Submission (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress

Message

thetammyjo -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/8/2006 9:36:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: veronicaofML SOMEONE...pleeeeeeeeeeeze explain.. i guess? "I" just do not get-it... is it ONLY about that hormone thingy in s/m? coz "I" aint part of that...so is that why i do not understand? Veronica What are you asking? I'm not sure what it is you are asking about. =========== welllllllllllllllll ya'all talking about this eye color change thing...i am GUESSING...this is about those hormone things that folks get...that subspace thingy? i was not aware people HAD eye color changes..is all. sorry i ASKED now,... nevermind I asked my eye doctor once about. She said they didn't know but that it is commonly reported.

veronicaofML -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/8/2006 10:51:53 AM)
I asked my eye doctor once about. She said they didn't know but that it is commonly reported. _____________________________ Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains, TammyJo ============== well thank YOU... that's 2 answers... better than none i suppose.

missnoir -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/8/2006 11:37:55 AM)
I have witnessed eye colour change because of emotion frequently. Mine tend to change from blue to green when I am angry, surprised or in the heat of the moment, if you will. While earning my degree, I asked one of my professors if the change was just perception or an actual occurance. He told the change was very much in actuality. He said the cause for the colour change was dilation of the pupils. When the pupil widens, it allows for more even red light to enter the eye. The addition of the red light allows for the eye colour to variate. A nerdy explanation but I hope it solves the puzzle.

veronicaofML -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/8/2006 1:44:50 PM)
welllllllllllllllllll You CAN be nice... interesting... and thanks

Slipstreme -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/8/2006 1:59:02 PM)
I have naturally light sky blue eyes. I have found with my own eyes that their color is enhanced by the clothing I wear. So a lot of it is perception, in a way. Darker clothes, darker eyes, blue clothes just make them look very blue, green reflects green and so forth and so on. I have noticed though they occassionally go from a sky blue to a silver grey and also to a yellow like silvery gray. I have also looked at them in the mirror and controlled this color change, but yes a lot of it does seem dictated by the amount of light in the room. Do they change during a scene? I don't know. Maybe I should look into that. I do tremble often however, when a flogger is passed over my skin and that little voice inside starts saying "Hit me!" I have noticed that they go a hard blue when I am very excited. So they probably change colors when I Top.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/8/2006 4:23:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: veronicaofML _____________________________ well thank YOU... that's 2 answers... better than none i suppose. Veronica, I didnt answer because you said "never mind" I took that to mean you really didnt want an answer. But...since you did I will try to answer :) In my pups case, maybe his eye color changes because of slipping into sub space and maybe they just change when he is excited. As mentioned in a few of the responses, this could be a natural occurance. I suppose I probably wouldnt of noticed normally, but I tend to pay ALOT of attention to his eyes and facial expression during sessions, so I did notice. I hope this answers your question.

veronicaofML -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/9/2006 12:39:39 PM)
Veronica, I didnt answer because you said "never mind" I took that to mean you really didnt want an answer. But...since you did I will try to answer :) In my pups case, maybe his eye color changes because of slipping into sub space and maybe they just change when he is excited. As mentioned in a few of the responses, this could be a natural occurance. I suppose I probably wouldnt of noticed normally, but I tend to pay ALOT of attention to his eyes and facial expression during sessions, so I did notice. I hope this answers your question. -------------- yeah i've gotten several answers now. its just THIS kind of stuff "I" dont know about, and i guess? it is something the rest of you all..take for granted----coz i aint one of your play me do me boys. i JUST do service so "I" miss SO much of the topics...it is ALL above my head.. just like folks ask...what do you see looking into someone'e eyes...i dont LOOK in eyes...i was taught NOT to. people ask...face me when i talk to you...NO!...that means an intimidation attempt and THAT means a fight is on. there is SO much "I" do NOT understand!!!!!!!!!! thank YOU

SabrinaRising -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/9/2006 10:22:56 PM)
I just had this exact same experience. A pet I was using has gorgeous hazel eyes...in very pale skin and black hair no less...so very striking. And when he became fully "on" during play his eyes were the most brilliant green I have ever seen...it was hypnotic. To the point of I almost thought I was imagining things...snicker. Fabulous to know this happens in other pets as well. Sabrina

MistressOfGa -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/10/2006 8:18:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SabrinaRising I just had this exact same experience. A pet I was using has gorgeous hazel eyes...in very pale skin and black hair no less...so very striking. And when he became fully "on" during play his eyes were the most brilliant green I have ever seen...it was hypnotic. To the point of I almost thought I was imagining things...snicker. Fabulous to know this happens in other pets as well. Sabrina Yes, that is exactly the word I was looking for. I get lost in his eyes, they are so BEAUTIFUL. He is beautiful in every way. His intelligence, his wit, his innocence and his laugh. His laugh is so infectious. When other people are around him, they feel happy. He just glows.

TexasMaam -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/11/2006 8:01:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa Hmm..I was so hoping that I would hear from other Dominants about this, but maybe it is more rare than I thought. Fergus, I think that we all have a certain amount of change in our eye color depending on moods, ect. but this is different. I have never seen anything like it. Thank you all for responding, there for a bit, I wasnt sure if anyone was going to :-/ At the risk of getting flamed again by those who seem to have some personal problem any time I post any details regarding My sub: bobbi's eyes are a pale sky blue, most of the time. When I begin a scene he doesn't show them to Me, he lowers his face and hides his eyes, either looking down or away from Me, or closing his eyes as he falls into subspace. I must command him to look at Me when he's so entranced, unless I happen to elicit such a deep response that his eyes fly open and he looks My way, eyes brimming with tears. On these occasions his eyes are a dark bluish gray, irises smoldering like heavy low clouds on a stormy winter's day. They seem almost iridescent, with dark, glittering pools of black that mesmerize Me. Time seems to stop, the fall of the whip hangs frozen in mid-air. I have removed a blindfold after a scene, and/or have lifted his face to Mine to kiss him after a scene, to find his eyes a deep prussian blue; dark blue with violet hues. They gradually fade to pale sky blue over the next several hours. If we sleep enfolded in one another's arms, they are pale blue when he wakes. I love bobbi's eyes. Thanks for asking, and for sharing. I've enjoyed reading the thread. TexasMaam

MistressOfGa -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/12/2006 7:20:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa Hmm..I was so hoping that I would hear from other Dominants about this, but maybe it is more rare than I thought. Fergus, I think that we all have a certain amount of change in our eye color depending on moods, ect. but this is different. I have never seen anything like it. Thank you all for responding, there for a bit, I wasnt sure if anyone was going to :-/ At the risk of getting flamed again by those who seem to have some personal problem any time I post any details regarding My sub: bobbi's eyes are a pale sky blue, most of the time. When I begin a scene he doesn't show them to Me, he lowers his face and hides his eyes, either looking down or away from Me, or closing his eyes as he falls into subspace. I must command him to look at Me when he's so entranced, unless I happen to elicit such a deep response that his eyes fly open and he looks My way, eyes brimming with tears. On these occasions his eyes are a dark bluish gray, irises smoldering like heavy low clouds on a stormy winter's day. They seem almost iridescent, with dark, glittering pools of black that mesmerize Me. Time seems to stop, the fall of the whip hangs frozen in mid-air. I have removed a blindfold after a scene, and/or have lifted his face to Mine to kiss him after a scene, to find his eyes a deep prussian blue; dark blue with violet hues. They gradually fade to pale sky blue over the next several hours. If we sleep enfolded in one another's arms, they are pale blue when he wakes. I love bobbi's eyes. Thanks for asking, and for sharing. I've enjoyed reading the thread. TexasMaam TexasMaam, No, thank you for sharing your lovely story about bobbi. He sounds alot like my pup. What a nice story to read this early on a Sunday morning :) Pup's eyes are normally a brownish/grayish color. It is strange. But oh how I love those submissive green eyes <s>

Misstoyou -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/12/2006 10:18:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SabrinaRising I just had this exact same experience... Sabrina Great to have you here, Sabrina. [:)] Your story of self discovery/acceptance on the Gorean board was mesmerizing.

Misstoyou -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/12/2006 10:27:22 AM)
With regard to eye color change, some years ago I scared my then submissive. During a particularly intense energy exchange, he said he saw the reptilian in me when my hazel eyes turned gold and glittered (among other things.) He continued to love me, he couldn't help that, but from then on he became afraid to totally open himself to me. So that event became the beginning of the end.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/12/2006 8:02:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Misstoyou With regard to eye color change, some years ago I scared my then submissive. During a particularly intense energy exchange, he said he saw the reptilian in me when my hazel eyes turned gold and glittered (among other things.) He continued to love me, he couldn't help that, but from then on he became afraid to totally open himself to me. So that event became the beginning of the end. I would like to say how cool that sounds, but I am sorry that this unique gift you have with your eyes caused you to lose someone. I have never heard or seen such a thing as you described. It does sound cool though <g>

DragonNphoenix -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/12/2006 9:16:58 PM)
Please excuse an answer from a slave. I spoke to my Dragon and He told me to reply to this. He says that my eyes go to a steal grey when I submit. Durning pain they are grey with silver in them. Thank you for letting my respond. 1st Girl Phoenix

MistressOfGa -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/13/2006 7:19:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DragonNphoenix Please excuse an answer from a slave. I spoke to my Dragon and He told me to reply to this. He says that my eyes go to a steal grey when I submit. Durning pain they are grey with silver in them. Thank you for letting my respond. 1st Girl Phoenix Hi Phoenix! Thank you for responding. I should of made it clear in my OP that submissives are welcome to answer <s> What color are your eyes normally?

DragonNphoenix -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/13/2006 12:36:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa quote: ORIGINAL: DragonNphoenix Please excuse an answer from a slave. I spoke to my Dragon and He told me to reply to this. He says that my eyes go to a steal grey when I submit. Durning pain they are grey with silver in them. Thank you for letting my respond. 1st Girl Phoenix Hi Phoenix! Thank you for responding. I should of made it clear in my OP that submissives are welcome to answer <s> What color are your eyes normally? Maam, My eyes are blue normally.... 1st Girl Phoenix

windchymes -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/13/2006 3:58:44 PM)
I hadn't thought about this until I read this thread..... I had some major surgery on my back about a month ago (doing fine now, thanks!) and my eyes are usually aqua blue, but I noticed that since the surgery, they seem to be more of a steel gray. I thought it was my imagination, and then I thought maybe it was the lighting in the bathroom, but maybe it's something to do with anesthesia & other drugs altering my body chemistry, and my body healing itself? Any thoughts on that, anyone?

MistressOfGa -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/13/2006 4:34:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes I hadn't thought about this until I read this thread..... I had some major surgery on my back about a month ago (doing fine now, thanks!) and my eyes are usually aqua blue, but I noticed that since the surgery, they seem to be more of a steel gray. I thought it was my imagination, and then I thought maybe it was the lighting in the bathroom, but maybe it's something to do with anesthesia & other drugs altering my body chemistry, and my body healing itself? Any thoughts on that, anyone? Hmm..maybe the pain?

windchymes -> RE: Color Of Submission (2/13/2006 4:51:42 PM)
But I'm not in any pain anymore, not on any pain killers at all now, I'm just biding my time waiting to get cleared to go back to work, but my eyes are still gray instead of back to blue. ????

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.03125