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Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 5:55:54 PM   
exptrainer


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Status: offline 		I have allowed my slave to sleep with me on the condition that he will be tied up all night.
What I am looking for is a technique that ties the boy securely and at the same time allows him to get some sleep. I also do not want him to have assess to his penis.
Experiences? Suggestions?
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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 6:12:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: exptrainer

I have allowed my slave to sleep with me on the condition that he will be tied up all night.
What I am looking for is a technique that ties the boy securely and at the same time allows him to get some sleep. I also do not want him to have assess to his penis.
Experiences? Suggestions?


No expert in bondage here  but my master is.... I get tied up at night sometimes. ..... a rope from one bedpost at the head-end ,with two loops close together , and the same at the foot-end of the bed. .......there's enough *give* to turn over but not much else. I've slept pretty well like this.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 6:13:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are some other considerations you might want to be aware of. For example, if you hogtie him, and leave him on his stomach, there is the possibility he could suffocate. Not only the danger of having his face in a pillow, but having his weight in his abdomen can make breathing difficult. A loose hogtie, with him on his side may be what you're looking for, as long as he can't roll over. Any position can be uncomfortable after a  few hours, so you might want to change him a couple times a night.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 6:32:01 PM   
exptrainer


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Status: offline 		Thanks for your suggestion. I had thought about that, but it has been my experience, like yours, that the hog tie position cannot be sustained for very long.
I definately withh bind the ankles together, but the hands are problematic. I was thinking of a short rope from the collar to the rists...not allowing him access to his penis. If necessary a rope around the midsection restricting movement of the arms might be indicated.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 6:36:52 PM   
exptrainer


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Status: offline 		So, the hands and the feet are bound. Are the hands over your head or is the rope long enough for your hands to move freely?

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 6:51:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't stay for hours with my hands over my head even awake. Let alone sleeping.

You may want to ask if he has any sleep problems. Does he need to go to the bathroom during the night? Does he suffer from insomnia or allergies. Having allergies I keep an extra pillow next to the bed so if I wake up during I can prop myself up on it until my sinuses begin to drain. Sometimes I can go back to sleep with it but usually not.

If he has any such minor problem that impacts sleep he'll need to wake you. Do you want to wake up twice during the night if he wakes up coughing and needs water? Are you easily awakened if he can't shake your shoulder?



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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 7:05:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Let's hope the house does not catch on fire while the boy is bound.

~wiggles her nose at the thought of fried slave boy~

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 7:08:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Scratches his head at the thougth of a slave boy..   Shrugs....

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 7:41:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: exptrainer

I have allowed my slave to sleep with me on the condition that he will be tied up all night.
What I am looking for is a technique that ties the boy securely and at the same time allows him to get some sleep. I also do not want him to have assess to his penis.
Experiences? Suggestions?


I'd use soft rope, make a rope chain and bind his hands in front of him, then do a straight line down to his ankles. 5 or 6 loops between the hands will allow him some freedom of movement without him having to disturb your rest in case he needs to roll over for circulation.Then just lock him in a CB3000 or something and that should take care of all your concerns.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/15/2009 10:08:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		My Husband and i have one of those under the bed harnesses and He has on occasion used that to leave me tied up over night.  The straps can be moved to come from the bottom and top of the bed or the sides.  He takes the straps from my side of the bed, ties my hands and one leg, or legs and one hand to help not hinder movement completely.

I rather like being restrained overnight;  i sometimes request it.
Hope this helped and didn't confuse :)

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 12:36:31 AM   
Impstoy


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Status: offline 		I've been made to sleep bound before.  I have to say, my advice is don't use leather cuffs.  They tend to be heavy and uncomfortable.  I slept very little.  Soft rope might work best.  I know that metal hitting the other metal woke me up a lot too.  So I'd highly suggest no metal either. 

But mainly, I was wondering... do many men access their penises in their sleep?  Really not trying to be a smart alec, just was curious - I know I don't tend to touch myself in my sleep....

Good luck with this...

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 12:54:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		if this is something you're really wanting to implement you should do so at short intervals. building up to a full nights rest. if the subject is unaccustomed to this it can be overwhelming to endure all at once. also, you have to factor in if he needs to relieve himself during the night. are you willing to get up or will there be proper padding or diapering instead? what about cramping or other signs of discomfort?

are you willing to watch over him to guarantee his safety or will you be fast asleep as well? are you light sleeper or dead to the world when your head hits the pillow? and as someone else mentioned what about emergency situations? will he be able to free himself if necessary or is he wholly dependent on you for that as well?

a multitude of questions and something that shouldn't be undertaken without great thought and preparation. enjoy!

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 12:59:42 AM   
Fadingthought


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Status: offline 		People move too much in their sleep, being bound would wake them a lot I would imagine.
But I like cuddling, I don't care what anyone says, being a big spoon is very dom!


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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 6:30:25 AM   
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So, the hands and the feet are bound. Are the hands over your head or is the rope long enough for your hands to move freely?


My hands are in front of me at chest level......I can move them enough to turn over but can't move them below chest level.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 7:47:56 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		i sleep like a baby in a straight jacket

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 11:12:03 AM   
exptrainer


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Status: offline 		Yes. Men are always touching themselves, esp when they are nude. Younger men typically get an erection in the morning, almost without exception, and for many it is a time for masterbation.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 11:13:48 AM   
exptrainer


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Status: offline 		I am a very lite sleeper, there is no doubt that I would be up and awake in a second if there was a problem.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/16/2009 12:10:35 PM   
chronos1976


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i sleep like a baby in a straight jacket


My last sub that said she had the most content and deepest sleep when she was in a straitjacket and blindfolded.

A straitjacket would help with the OP's problem of keeping the lower regions out of reach too!

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/17/2009 4:26:19 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: exptrainer

I have allowed my slave to sleep with me on the condition that he will be tied up all night.
What I am looking for is a technique that ties the boy securely and at the same time allows him to get some sleep. I also do not want him to have assess to his penis.
Experiences? Suggestions?

For me, it's one of the marvels of the universe just how well my subs have slept while bound and how mentally refreshed they are next day - though some physical stiffness is inevitable. 
 
I have my own standards (naturally) since I can't monitor the girl's safety and well-being nearly so closely while sleeping myself.... 
So she *never* sleeps alone while bound, for starters. 
Sleep bondage is never too elaborate; wrists (behind) and ankles only. 
I use light leather cuffs and not rope, to reduce the chances of circulation problems developing. 
The wrist cuffs are secured with just a dog-clip so I'm not fumbling for keys in the dark or while drowsy, should an emergency arise.  (just one end of the clip for both cuffs so she can't undo it herself)
And finally, I usually have her pulled close to me with her head near my shoulder so I'm alerted to breathing problems.
 
Second marvel of the universe is how well I usually sleep when basically restricted to sleeping on my back the whole night when I'd normally "explore" the whole bed in all positions throughout the night when sleeping alone.
 
Mind you, the hetero in me says I wouldn't sleep at all well with another male in the bed...!  lol
 
Focus.

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RE: Bound while asleep - 5/17/2009 11:20:00 AM   
TEMPERANCE


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Status: offline 		Straitjacket?  They are damn comfortable for sleeping in too, allegedly.

Tie his wrists to the leg of the bed, he'll be sleeping on the floor naturally, and slap a chastity device on him just in case.  

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