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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 8:10:34 AM

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At the risk of sounding like an asshole..... How is this unlike masturbating but you are just adding causing yourself pain with it? (but its a serious question).....isn't this just masturbation? Don't get me wrong....nothing wrong AT ALL with masturbating.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 9:04:47 AM

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At the risk of sounding like an asshole..... How is this unlike masturbating but you are just adding causing yourself pain with it? (but its a serious question).....isn't this just masturbation? Don't get me wrong....nothing wrong AT ALL with masturbating.

To me, it's not about masturbating, as the examples I gave are not sexually arousing to me.

It's about truly suffering for the satisfaction of someone who can and wants to enjoy it.

My satisfaction is the added value of my masochism, as it satisfies the sadistic needs and wants of someone else.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 12:06:51 PM

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I don't understand what people mean when they write "real live only, no online".

They mean the don't want online. If it makes you happy then by all means enjoy it. Just don't expect that everyone else will think its great.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 12:23:48 PM

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So I'm drawing a blank here.

What are some unusual tasks or commands that you can give an online pet? Because I'm comming up with only the same old shit.

Well, I'm going to once again be un-trendy and say "Gosh, there's lots of possibilities". For me, I don't really play games. If I thought of myself as in a relationship with someone, whether it was entirely conducted remotely or not, I would be involved in their real actual life. So there'd be all sorts of commands I would be giving.

How about things like, "Call me when xxx happens." or "Make an date with that guy you met"? In other words, my "fun" is in actually running or helping to run someone's life. But yeah, if you're restricted to sex stuff, then it's really hard to get serioiusly involved with sexuality in the absence of the physical component.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 12:38:45 PM

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Woo hoo for the Philosopher King approach which, be it ever-untrendy, is what makes sense to me too. I think, Jeff, that you're speaking of seeing another as a 3-dimensional person rather than interacting with them as if they're an aspect of an antiquated video game. :>
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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 1:14:29 PM

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My slave Josephine and I are long-distance. Here are some things I've had him do (although if you have a female slave, they probably don't have the same impact):

Go for a drive in a skirt. Talk to me on the phone while he's doing it.
Go through a drive-through in a skirt
Smoke a pink cigarette in public (in front of a busy convenience store)
Write lines and mail them to me
Tie up his balls with a tie while talking to me on the phone

And my favorite idea, which I'm waiting for a special occasion for:
Go to the store and buy the following items, and ONLY the following items: a cucumber, a box of condoms, and a jar of Vaseline.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 3:21:06 PM

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I don't understand what people mean when they write "real live only, no online".

They mean the don't want online. If it makes you happy then by all means enjoy it. Just don't expect that everyone else will think its great.

I don't. But those who don't like online should not suggest that online is not for real. That was my point.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/4/2009 8:00:05 PM

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If they have a digital camera, you can dream up some embarrassing tasks and have them take photographic evidence. For eg, I tell male subs to go to particular places, pee and take a pic. Or masturbate in the cubicle and thank Me aloud once they've came (and take a pic of the cum). One poor boy got followed by security into govt house toilet so he didn't complete that task LOL! Perhaps a tad more difficult for a girl, but she could take a pic of herself masturbating there, with or without a toy.

Puppy or kitty play on cam can be a lot of fun to do and watch.

Have her get a dildo same size as your cock and then have her do "oral practice" on cam with you giving her instructions.

Have her gag herself and then try to communicate with you entirely through facial expressions and sounds while you tell her what you think she means. Can be hilarious!

Have her write your name or X's sub on her ass every day with pen and go out like that. Every now and then, have her lift her skirt on cam so you can see she is still doing it.

Have a masturbation schedule ... can be a regular cyclic thing or something more random. Master had a complex method involving the numerals in the days of the month and rolling a die! Something like if it was an even day of the month AND i rolled a 2, 4 or 6 then i was allowed to. (i seem to remember i was getting too lucky so He reduced it to only rolling a 6 ... and then using 2 dice and rolling double 6!).

Don't neglect the "whole person" approach either, researching things eg a wardrobe for herself or for you, design the perfect dungeon, reading the same book, playing a game such as literati together online, going to bdsm chatrooms together and interacting in "public" in a D/s way.

I don't knock online, it was where I started out and while I love having moved to flesh life, and having been 24/7 with Master 5 years this week and collared to Him for 3 ... it never would have happened if we'd not been online first. Still want to find a sub for Me to take to flesh life though!

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/5/2009 12:29:42 AM

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i love online slavery

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/5/2009 8:42:47 AM

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i love online slavery

What is the attraction?

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/6/2009 6:43:05 AM

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Give her some exercises to do ... find something to brace her inner knees against and press them in, imagining it is your hands parting her legs open. It's also good isometrically.

Have her keep a journal and mail it to you regularly.

Have her adopt a regular ritual ... like pose uncomfortably every morning before she gets out of bed for the day (or right after she gets out of bed) for 60 seconds.

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/6/2009 6:57:56 AM

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Forgive me but I have not read all the responses...but I have had a few very long standing and intense online relationships that have boiled over into Rt and then back again.... here are somet hings we did that fitted into our relationship...

I would get him to email me each monday morning by 9am his schedule for the week.
After agreeing how much I would encroach into his life, I would do things like text him and tell him to be online in 20 mins. If he was at the pub with his friends ( and knowing that he had already asked how much he was allowed to drink if at all) i knew it would take him just that long to down is last drink ( more then likly coke) say goodbye and get in his car and get home..only to then tell him to go and play pool...now i know this sounds silly... but for him it was the aprehension of not knowing when i would text..what would happen when he got to the computer, and when he would be allowed to continue on his merry way. It worked very well... and did for a really nice 9-10 months... then on one of those nights i let the little bugger drink he met someone at the pub and asked to be released..which i did and he is now happily married an with a new bub... we are still friends...

So i guess if you are into micromanagement then you have alot of avenues to go... if you wann chat more about this with me then message me and we can go from there

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/6/2009 9:44:38 AM

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Forgive me but I have not read all the responses...but I have had a few very long standing and intense online relationships that have boiled over into Rt and then back again.... here are somet hings we did that fitted into our relationship...

I would get him to email me each monday morning by 9am his schedule for the week.
After agreeing how much I would encroach into his life, I would do things like text him and tell him to be online in 20 mins. If he was at the pub with his friends ( and knowing that he had already asked how much he was allowed to drink if at all) i knew it would take him just that long to down is last drink ( more then likly coke) say goodbye and get in his car and get home..only to then tell him to go and play pool...now i know this sounds silly... but for him it was the aprehension of not knowing when i would text..what would happen when he got to the computer, and when he would be allowed to continue on his merry way. It worked very well... and did for a really nice 9-10 months... then on one of those nights i let the little bugger drink he met someone at the pub and asked to be released..which i did and he is now happily married an with a new bub... we are still friends...

So i guess if you are into micromanagement then you have alot of avenues to go... if you wann chat more about this with me then message me and we can go from there

Sunny

sry about the typing....it is hard in the dark

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RE: Online Slaves: Fun Tasks/Commands - 6/6/2009 3:10:54 PM

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The level of intolerance on these boards is still alive and well I see.

Online long distance relationships are bloody hard but can work and maintain a good D/s interaction when done well. Set your sub/slave daily tasks to do, get them to keep a journal, getting photographs or videos of them completing the tasks, see areas where you thing they could improve their lives and get them to work on that, i.e. loosing weight, learning a new skill etc. If you think they should gain real life experience then get them to interact with other BDSMers etc.

My Sir is at a distance. Our sexual interaction is not the main priority of our dynamic. At present the physical side is limited, of course it is. But for me, and for Him, it is the mental submission to Him and that side of who I am that fullfills the submissive side of my nature, and the Dominant part of His, without that the physical side and the sex is simply sensation and, for U/us, pretty meaningless. I have grown as a sub under His guidence tremendously. Part of my tasks and what He wants from me is that my life is not on hold for Him, quite the contrary. I scene, have my own sub, go to BDSM clubs and munches, bottom to others, work on my mental health, and everyday I know that me being the best I can be in all areas and to have tried the hardest to be my best is part of my personal growth and therefore part of my submission to Him. He and His energy are with me all the time. If there comes a day when my growth and wellbeing is compromised due to our separation, He will release me. Until the unfortunate circumstances we are in at present come to an end, we will be separated and it is something that is entirely outside of our control. When it is over we will be together again, in the meantime we can interact online with each other and keep the dynamic and relationship strong and healthy.

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