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Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:14:58 AM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		Do women who identify as "D" types want a "boy" or a man that submits? And if you have a preference, what makes one more attractive over the other to you?

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:18:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		Loyal, intelligent, strong, protective and fun - man or boy, I'll consider either.

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:22:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mine is both. We all have an adult and a child, within us. Id and the ego, ya know. Its a good thing.

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:28:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok Ladies.... Can i ask what i REALLY wanted to LOL.....  Daddy and i are supposed to get together this week and He and i have discussed me being on the "other side of the whip".... and i'm nervous as SHIT (in a good way!)
So, am i gonna die?....Grow a 3rd eye or anything?


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:34:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nah, you'll have FUN!

Just relax, and only do stuff that feels right, to you. Take it slow. Keep your sense of humor and go into it expecting a good time!

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:37:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Nah, you'll have FUN!

Just relax, and only do stuff that feels right, to you. Take it slow. Keep your sense of humor and go into it expecting a good time!

SWEET!.... was kinda my feeling...i just don't wanna be some weenie "D" type and disappoint my new "boy" LOL!
EDITED to add:
i was just sitting here looking at the picture of me and Daddy and i couldn't help but imagine Him so adorable, on His knees... those AWESOME blue eyes looking up at me, maybe begging me for just ONE chance to serve, begging to feel just one more lash (sigh)... maybe His beard soaked from me as a reward for being SUCH a good pain slut..... Holy shit, i may have to stop this talk, i'm starting to get umm, affected LOL


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:37:19 AM   
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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:38:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Err....I really am not sure what you are asking here.  Any person who is old enough to have a legal and moral bdsm relationship is by definition a "man who submits".  Having sex and putting the beat on "boys" who are really boys is both illegal and immoral.  Calling a grown man a "boy" is just an expression of power over him (or I suppose part of a role-playing game between lovers).

Edit to add:  No, if you swing a whip you will not grow a third eye.  Or a beard and testicles.  Or horns and a tail.  You might find out you like it, though.  You're prepared for that possibility, right--? 


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:46:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Nah, you'll have FUN!

Just relax, and only do stuff that feels right, to you. Take it slow. Keep your sense of humor and go into it expecting a good time!

SWEET!.... was kinda my feeling...i just don't wanna be some weenie "D" type and disappoint my new "boy" LOL!



Just remember domination is only about dispensing pain if and when you want it to be, when you are the dom. I'm not much into that aspect, myself. My kinks are control and humiliation. Objectification. All that good good shit. YUM.

What is it that turns you on, from the D side? Take as much time as you like, to find out. Its all about the journey.

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 8:55:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		No third eye but it helps to have eyes in the back of your head!  Some of those boys are naughty!

Go in with the attitude that it is more for fun and a step in a new direction that could go any way it goes... stressing over it will assure fear.  So let it go, think naughty and have fun!

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 9:24:44 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I want a man, who I can call boy (just like the male Doms call their women "girls") and who is comfortable with it. My boy is all man and yet is not afraid to express his fem side either so we are a very good fit for each other.

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 9:27:42 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Enjoy it, be safe and most of all do what YOU want to do to him. Just remember all the things that make you weak in the knees may very well have the same effect on him. Know his buttons and push them, remember he is serving you not the other way around.

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 9:29:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I want a man, who I can call boy (just like the male Doms call their women "girls") and who is comfortable with it. My boy is all man and yet is not afraid to express his fem side either so we are a very good fit for each other.

~Lashra


This is VERY close to what i am feeling i want (minus the guy acting feminine, just a personal preference on my part PLEASE no offense!).....a "MAN" (a manly man if you will) that kneels to ME....Holy shit it almost makes me high just thinking about it!


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 9:37:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		I only deal with MEN.  There are no boys in my world.  I love to play, and I appreciate a youthful spirit, but I am an adult, working with other adults.

You are going to have TOO MUCH FUN!!   I am envious!

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 9:57:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I want a man, who I can call boy (just like the male Doms call their women "girls") and who is comfortable with it. My boy is all man and yet is not afraid to express his fem side either so we are a very good fit for each other.

~Lashra



Mine is "my boy" but he is also my man, depending on the situation. Having or being one does not negate the ability to have or be the other.

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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 1:27:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I only deal with MEN.  There are no boys in my world.  I love to play, and I appreciate a youthful spirit, but I am an adult, working with other adults.

You are going to have TOO MUCH FUN!!   I am envious!

Awww thanks Lady!.... i appreciate the well wishes....Hmmm perhaps i should tape this....It will be His 1st time too LOL


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 2:14:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		How exciting for you!  Popping your topping cherry.  LOL.

To answer your first question, clip is My boy.  Granted, he's a man, but the man is what the rest of the world sees.  The boy is the submission, the owned, the expression of himself in My collar.  I just prefer the term.

Good luck on your upcoming new experience.  My best to you and your Master.


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 2:17:15 PM   
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Mine is "my boy" but he is also my man, depending on the situation. Having or being one does not negate the ability to have or be the other.


Correct

~Lashra


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 2:19:52 PM   
Lashra


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minus the guy acting feminine, just a personal preference on my part PLEASE no offense!)


No offense here my man does not act "feminine" or like a sissy. He is all man except that occasionally he likes to dress as a woman, wear makeup and have me put his hair up into ponytails. But if you ever met him, you'd swear he was the alpha male lumberjack. I am the only one who gets to see the little bit of fem in him.

~Lashra


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RE: Man or "boy" - 5/19/2009 3:38:07 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		Can i still call Him Daddy if i am beating the shit out of Him? Last night i had a dream about topping Daddy, and i still had ALL the feelings i always do....however there was a delicious addendum. i felt like i was taking Us both somewhere cool, somewhere only i knew the way to... like a surprise vacation that "i" planned. i remember feeling excited to "show" Him. Holy shit i wish i could say this better 

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