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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 7:22:05 PM

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since Master does not participate in BDSM; zaphira has never had to worry about shocking the general public. The farthest that Master has gone is to ensure that his property is always wearing her collar, his choice of clothing, etc. Other than that, the only other requirement is that zaphira always be respectful and obedient, even while in public.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 7:25:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

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I am not about to bend my girl over in the middle of the mall, and nail her from behind, but a secluded park is a different story.

Sir has mentioned this before as well. How likely do You (or anyone) think it would be that an arrest would be made if it's an out of the way place and someone happened upon two people "enjoying nature" in this way?

eta: assuming they stop when seen

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 7:37:51 PM

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dig it !
dig it!
dig it til the sun goes down

I love public play...BUT do not invade anothers visual/auditory space..

we are talking about it over on a thread:
BDSM in vanilla public..how much can you get away with?

For me the idea is we are outside...in public..a dif environment..
eg) a sub is still thrilled the time we went for a drive this winter..
I made him stop down a back road...get out pull his pants down and be spanked ad MORE at the back of he car..
if car lights were to come up the road we would have modified behaviours..
but the THRILL of being outside..the -33 weather with a spank was delicious for him and I
eg)camping....leg shackles to the picnic table...then tantalized as we appear to have morning coffee
eg) parkade/stairwell BDSM ...fun....listen for cars/steps..watch for cameras

WHAT I like about public...is I can spring it on them.. and be creative.. an dit is our secret...

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 8:15:34 PM

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Is that a snowflake I saw fall in hell? ;)

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There is also being courteous to others, which is an option that someone can decide to use or not. Ultimately a person that decides to take an action in public, should accept the consequences of that action.

That's all there is to it, really.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/20/2009 8:20:36 PM

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Depends upon many things I guess. I am 43 and only ever been caught by someone of authority once. It was a Park Ranger, and he waited till we were done before he approached the car with a cough from a distance. He told us that had he actually seen what he thought was going on for the last 20 minutes, it may be classified as indecent, but that he had not seen anything. There is no way he could not have seen.

Had a friend that was getting a blow job in his car, up a dirt road in a rural area. He was arrested. It all depends I guess. I have woods behind my house, which is my property, and most of the year the center area, which is a small cleared circle, is screened by foliage.

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

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I am not about to bend my girl over in the middle of the mall, and nail her from behind, but a secluded park is a different story.

Sir has mentioned this before as well. How likely do You (or anyone) think it would be that an arrest would be made if it's an out of the way place and someone happened upon two people "enjoying nature" in this way?

eta: assuming they stop when seen

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/21/2009 12:08:02 AM

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lol, it was harmless fun the audience loved. i wasn't violating someone with a pogo stick or something. No offense was meant to anyone, if offense was taken that's on you.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/21/2009 12:08:46 AM

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Master and I do "light" things. I don't eat until he starts, I take care of the tray, bringing it to the table and taking it away at a fast food restaraunt, He leads me aroundd by my wrist and I don't sit until given permission by Master (i stand beside him until he nods or says, "you may sit" quietly) and i usually walk a few steps behind him but that's one that's natural to me, I've done that all my life even with family or friends.

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/21/2009 1:56:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

My only opinion on the subject is that people ought to respect the public space of others, that's all. For example, there's a site that's advertised here called 'public disgrace' that I find absolutely gross. I really wouldn't like to be on a bus with these guys when they do their stuff, know what I mean?

I love the Public Disgrace shoots! As far as I'm aware, you have to have written permission from the participants before you can use their image on screen, so (I can at least convince myself) everyone invoved has consented to the actions of the main players...

As I've said in other threads, I've used my girl's collar to pull her around in public...only for a second or two, not an entire block, or aisle or something, but it's definitely fun...and I've been known to swat her ass - sometimes none too gently. W/we can't walk down the kitchen equipment aisle without her starting to get nervous. Can't imagine why

There was one time, W/we happened to be passing some rather interesting wooden bath brushes. I decided to try out the sting-rating on her ass and the bloody head of the brush came off and went sailing away down the aislebefore i could even make contact! W/we pretty much ran outta that store...

I've nuzzled her neck and talked her over "the edge" in the middle of a busy DVD department one time. That, i think was the most daring thing W/we've done, certainly the most public...

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RE: BSDM in public.. - 5/21/2009 2:27:33 PM

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Depends upon many things I guess. I am 43 and only ever been caught by someone of authority once. It was a Park Ranger, and he waited till we were done before he approached the car with a cough from a distance. He told us that had he actually seen what he thought was going on for the last 20 minutes, it may be classified as indecent, but that he had not seen anything. There is no way he could not have seen.

Had a friend that was getting a blow job in his car, up a dirt road in a rural area. He was arrested. It all depends I guess. I have woods behind my house, which is my property, and most of the year the center area, which is a small cleared circle, is screened by foliage.

Thanks for answering. I have to admit that the idea of intercourse outdoors intrigues me

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