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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 1:45:56 PM

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It's a bitch when you realize that being in your late 40's means that most of the 20 year old babes aren't going to be looking your way anymore, ain't it? OMG, it's a CRISIS!!!!

How about taking the blinders off and discovering that there are plenty of young-looking and acting 40 and 50 year olds out there that would think a 47 year old sub would be just dandy to have around.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 2:10:14 PM

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I always date guys older than me. How old? Depends on the guy. It all comes down to your match with someone and not their age. I find I have a lot more in common with people who are ten and twenty years older. I'm an old soul I guess. Look for what you want and don't short change yourself. You may be surprised at what is truly out there. Happy hunting!

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 2:57:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: NeedaWHAPwoman

If I pursue younger, at what age am I considered a pervert?

You say that as if the title should imply something negative.

<---Self-admitted (and comfortable with it) pervert.

And a DARLING pervert he is, too!!!

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 4:24:22 PM

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Testicle Lift.

Some pubic highlights to blend the gray.

Just avoid the whole botox thingy.

Little did we know when momma said, "Your face will freeze like that".

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chia, darling, who is gonna help me pick the carrot pieces out of the keyboard?

*giggling a lot* well-played!

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 4:43:33 PM

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Age? is a simple measure of chronology?
A relativity...He is far younger than me...
yet none of us would know
how old we are were it not for anno domini...
A day does not measure the beauty of the setting sun
or a lifetime state how many loves were lost or won...
a nanno, micro, split second and a bus load of opinion
passes on the street
And yet we are shy when we meet: if the face don't give a clue
my heart will skip a beat: words stuck in my throat,
Old soul, young blood: i would give You children if i could.
We'll thrash it out, just like the World and raging families do
and think we can go back on it, sorting experiences
like a cupboard full of old clothes, stacking letters and leaving notes for when it's over
yet forgetting to say goodbye.....
That's what age is.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 5:03:10 PM

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chia, darling, who is gonna help me pick the carrot pieces out of the keyboard?

kitten

Well I would, but due to my ancientness, the arthritis in my fingers prevents me from grasping.

The deteriorating disc in my back prevents me from bending over to attempt that grasp.

And this viagra erection lasting more than four hours prevents me from even getting close enough to the keyboard.

But how sweet of you to ask.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 5:57:15 PM

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 9:49:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kat713

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If you think finding a female Domme. is hard, try finding a female otk spanking S/switch who wants a ltr with a 61yr. old man.

Ok, I'm not trying to pick on the older people here, but...I'm sorry, I must admit that I laughed at that one.

On a serious note though: Being a 19 year old switch, I get lots of messages from people older than me. And I mean, I have to be honest. I'm not fantasizing about a much older guy or anything, but you would be surprised how the world works sometimes. For example, I met a guy on here and he is 42. Although we are not in a bdsm relationship, I have met him in person, we hang out, I flirt with him a lot, and yes, I think he's cute *blush*
So, it can happen. In fact some younger people actually prefer older guys.

Now as for you being considered a pervert? Ok, here is how things work: Under 18= PERVERT. 18 and over= You're good to go, man. So don't worry about it... Now if you're holding some young girl (or even an older girl) against her will or harrassing her, yes you're still a pervert lol. But if a pretty young thing wants to be with you, fuck what everyone thinks. I know I get a trip out of going out with my older friend and seeing the looks people give us when he's giving me a piggy back ride or something lol.

Oh, and Chuck48, as long as you have a nice ass, I wouldn't mind giving you a couple smacks .

I'm with you, Kat.
Ive always preferred considerably older men.
But I do seem to draw the line at twice my age.
And I'm not 19 like you-

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RE: Age question......... - 5/21/2009 10:13:07 PM

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If you feel uncomfortable with the age gap, would be my answer. If you are turned on by a certain age span (bracket?) you can not change that, in my experience.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/22/2009 4:27:19 AM

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~~fast reply!~~

now a more serious post about this....

my ex husband was 9 years younger than i am, and until i finally stopped dying my hair NO ONE believed i was the younger of the 2 of us. if i wasnt genetically predisposed to premature grey (started in my 20's, thank god they're more silver than dull grey) i still wouldnt look anywhere near my age.

age matters...if you let it. age matters if it weighs you down. TheEngineer recognises that i'm a 12 year old in an adult body, and allows me to be so. its not all beer and skittles, but age differences can work easily (he's 5 years older than i am, Daddy (who still owns my collar also) is 8 years older) if you let them.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/22/2009 4:58:29 AM

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Age is a number and can be totally irrelevant. Unless they're under the legal consenting age at which point you need a bloody good barrister. When I was 18, I was dating a 49 year old man. I loved older men. Now that I'm, well, a wee bit older at 43, I'm collared and married to a Man who's 7 years younger than me. Most people don't even recognize the fact that I'm older until we joke about it. I laugh when I see people nervously looking at me and making "cougar" wise-cracks.

OP, the person who is most worried about your age is you. Relax, let it go and be yourself. Everybody has personal preferences and you're no exception. But to tell the truth, if you dismiss some Dominants out of hand based on age, you're the one losing out in the long run. I can think of a few around here that if I weren't quite happily collared and married in a monogamous relationship, well, let's just say I'd be offering my butt to for a good spanking.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/22/2009 7:08:47 AM

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Thank you all for your very helpful comments!!! They gave me a lot to think about. Thank you.

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RE: Age question......... - 5/22/2009 9:13:01 AM

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at what age am I considered a pervert

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RE: Age question......... - 5/22/2009 9:42:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: NeedaWHAPwoman

If I pursue younger, at what age am I considered a pervert?

Between 14 and 50 earlier you are an "Innocent" and beyond that you are a connoisseur.

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