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Fitznicely -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (5/29/2009 5:59:22 AM)

I guess it could be that he's looking for tortures that are specific and personal - I'm not gonna say punishments cos you're gonna enjoy them, aren't you, bratty?

An online PUNISHMENT would be withdrawal of contact. specifically timed and explained why you'd incurred the punishment.

There's a million and one play scenarios that will cause you discomfort and pain...

Nipple clamps, self flagellation, sitting on thumb tacks, wearing rigid gloves and a short short skirt out in public, typing with hands tied, tiger balm on the nethers, figging, whartenberg wheel, bathroom control, rope knickers, chastity & orgasm control, diet control, sleep deprivation, kneeling when on cam to him...on bare wood, or sandpaper, lentils in shoes....well, you get the picture...

Please tell me this guy has SOME ideas of his own....




Opalescence -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (5/29/2009 6:39:00 AM)

Smash your head into the monitor until you can wear it as a hat. ^.^




butterflyHD -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (5/29/2009 8:03:06 AM)

Beat yourself with a hammer, it works every time.




HarleyMac13 -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/1/2009 11:52:44 AM)

I think the "best" punishment you could come up with would be to find someone who's not a candy ass and can think up their own punishments for you.  I don't mind my slave's having some "input"...but that's only for me to find out what they'd like (kind of like children...let them decide and then go totally off of it)

If he's allowed it to go on long enough for you to get on here and request advice...well - I'd put him in the switch catagory at the best, you might even be able to dominate him (not capitalized because I don't think you'd want to!)
Mac




DesFIP -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/1/2009 1:23:40 PM)

The op states that she sends pics, but she hasn't mentioned if she's seen him on cam. I'm wondering if he's as old as he claims to be. But what kind of punishment could be needed for people who only have a relationship for 1/2 an hour a night? She didn't type fast enough? She didn't sign on because she was stuck on the side of the road waiting for a tow truck?




xxblushesxx -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/2/2009 10:22:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: novak

stand on a pile of un cook rice barefooted  for a whole day


Wait...are you..."foot whiper?" (sic)




CURIOUSGURLINSRK -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/7/2009 1:50:52 AM)

First punishment is for when you have done something wrong.  I think you may need discipline suggestions instead.  Maybe you can do an essay for him on BDSM --roles, expectaions... Or maybe some corner time, kneeling with your hands behind your head in front of the cam.  Maybe you could put  in an anal plug and keep it in while cleaning house, working, whatever.   I dont really know what to tell you because honestly any online submissive activities I did ,  I always faked [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image]. Until I met a real Dom it all seemed like a game.  After I met a real Dom, he told me what to do and I did it.  I did have to come up with real time punishments once, but this was with a real Dom who I knew.  I am wondering if this online Dom your speaking of is the same one you mention that you are under consideration by?  Because in this message you  claim you are never going to meet and he apparently wants you to do both jobs, so I would reconsider his consideration.  Good luck to you girlie, I hope you find what you need--but don't settle for less then you deserve. 




porcelaine -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/7/2009 3:48:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slavebratty

ok so i am owned by an o/l Master who wants me to come up with ways to punish myself and i cannot think of any...we have not and will not meet but i do make sure that i do everything i am told to do....i take pics of it or use my webcam....if anyone has any ideas i could use them.... ty


i'm sincerely trying to discover how this is going to benefit you. i don't know how long you've been acquainted, but it would take a very honest person to select things that would be truly punishment for them. so i guess if you're going along that line what would that entail? if you enjoy contact with him perhaps that can be restricted? maybe denial of the web cam or sexual release?

the real caveat is that the punishment should stem from him and is ideally selected to challenge the behavior and serve as a learning tool so further infractions don't occur. but if you're realistic, are you really going to choose to do something that will make you miserable? perhaps that's the real point in all of this, to see what you choose. good luck.

porcelaine




julietsierra -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/7/2009 6:47:20 PM)

Personally, I'd suggest an entire day of punishment.

First off, I'd suggest that she be forced to go out to breakfast - someplace nice so that she can really start feeling contrite as she begins the day with a good breakfast.

After that's done, my suggestion would be to send her shopping - hopefully to one of her favorite stores so that she can purchase a new outfit, all the while chastizing herself for being so "bad" when her O/L dom is so good to her. I'd say that nothing less than two hours should be allotted for this punishment. She would need to acquire an entire outfit (nothing casual, thank you very much - something fit for a night on the town so she can just KNOW how contrite she should  be) - from the inside out, including shoes in penance for her actions. She should also be admonished to purchase something to sleep in that would make her feel utterly feminine. Then, she should be directed to take those clothes to the next step of her punishment - a time and place already established.

Fron there, as someone already suggested, I'd suggest sending that incorrigible submissive someplace where she could have a facial, massage, her hair and make up done - because you just KNOW she should be made to feel badly about how wrong she was and during this time waiting for massages and facials and hair, she'll have plenty of time to mull over the error of her ways. Once her hair and make up and everything had been completed, my suggestion would be to have her dress in the clothes she purchased earlier.


And just to make the punishment complete, I believe a bit of humiliation would be in order, so that O/L dom should instruct her to meet 3 of her girlfriends for a late lunch/early dinner at a fine restaurant complete with entertainment so that good food would be accompanied by great music. And by all means, that malcontented submissive should be instructed to tell her girlfriends that they are participating in her punishment so that A) they are not being used non-consensually and B) so that they can be truly appreciative of his absolute and complete control of his submissive.

Once that was done, I'd suggest instructing her to stop on her way home and purchase a bottle of good wine. 

Upon arriving at home, she should draw herself a warm bath with the appropriate bath salts (or whatever relaxes her), light some nicely scented candles and put on the soft music of her choice - all the better to feel his strong hand, so in control of her life. She would need to pour herself a glass of wine, climb into the bathtub and spend some quality time contemplating the enormity of her transgressions and how she won't do whatever was done - anymore. She should be instructed to stay in the water until her glass of wine was gone and the water had cooled.

Then, she should be told to don the new nightgown or whatever she purchased. Then, with very little conversation, she should contact her O/L dominant and thank him for the punishment he'd enacted on her - that's it, that's all, no small talk, and then, blow out the candles, turn off the music and crawl into bed, knowing that tomorrow's another day and she now has a clean slate.

Oh yes... and because he is so absolutely in charge of her life and quite obviously, every movement, even if from afar... all of this should be done on HIS credit card and under HIS direction.

I know, I know... this whole thing seems harsh, but.. well... sometimes submissives DO come up with the best punishment ideas!!!

juliet




catize -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/7/2009 10:03:51 PM)

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but i do make sure that i do everything i am told to do.... 


Then WHY would you need punishment????




SrSummer -> RE: o/l punishment help!!! (6/11/2009 2:09:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Focus50

Whoa, I should get an Oscar for keeping a straight face here but I've just gotta ask....

*HE'S* the "o/l Master" (NOT you) but he wants *you* to come up with ways to punish yourself because (presumably) said "o/l Master" hasn't got the foggiest???

Best idea I can suggest is telling him that being semi competent with a keyboard does NOT qualify one as an "o/l Master"....

Focus.




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