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RCdc -> RE: Would I be a slave or a sub (5/27/2009 9:33:27 AM)
Bottom is the person taking a 'bottom' role usually in play - the person on the receiving end of play. You don't have to be submissive to be a bottom, but you can hand over temporary control of a scene. It's opposite would be a 'Top'. the.dark.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: Would I be a slave or a sub (5/27/2009 9:34:04 AM)
cuz dark did it much better than I did[;)]

RCdc -> RE: Would I be a slave or a sub (5/27/2009 9:38:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly bottom = submissive in the bedroom only....sexually submissive only....power exchange within the bedroom only where you take the role of a submissive..... submissive = in AND out of the bedroom..i.e. not only when it comes to fucking.. I would disagree with that Ms Awesomeness - A bottom isn't bedroom only - it's more 'scene' orientated. Bedroom submissives exist for the bedroom, but the OP hasn't spoken about submission at all, just orders and they are really specific (oral)... that's a big indication of bottoming(to us anyway). Giving over control but retaining authority. But meh - it's all labels at the end of the day.[;)] the.dark.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: Would I be a slave or a sub (5/27/2009 9:49:24 AM)
haha don'tcha dare challenging my awesomeness but yup you're right thanx[:D]

RCdc -> RE: Would I be a slave or a sub (5/27/2009 9:51:33 AM)
Challenge you ms awesomeness? I wouldn't dream of it...[sm=flowers.gif] the.dark.

sweetgirlseeks -> RE: Would I be a slave or a sub (5/27/2009 10:38:04 AM)
ok.... thank you for the explanation!!!! ~sgs

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