RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising

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califsue -> RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising (5/28/2009 12:44:07 PM)
pdv99..I know how hard it is when you only get to see one another once a week. I am glad you were able to carry the bruises as souvenirs of your time together. CreativeDominat and Fitznicely..thank you for sharing as a Dom your thoughts. Was nice to see how it can make the Dom feel to have the submissive take the marks even with a short term partner getting to know you process. Fitznicely...yes part of the issue is the guilt as you stated that "I shouldn't be enjoying this". When I know that in one way there is nothing wrong with the the physical reminders later ... just accepting and embracing that part of me.

SabrinasSlave -> RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising (5/31/2009 4:43:01 PM)
My Mistress loves making marks on me and I want everyone to see them as evidence of her ownership. I have even explained them as what they are (like the huge multicolored bite mark on my thigh - visible when I wear shorts) to friends, only to have them believe I am joking. A strong desire is to be able to withstand more pain so that She can beat me for longer periods of time. It is therapeutic for both of us.

variation30 -> RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising (5/31/2009 5:37:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder For me the bruises are a symbol of his power over me, reminders of him. The pain brings back memories of our time together and who and what I am to him. It's like wearing a collar or a mark of ownership. that's the attitude I prefer. add to it a dash of exhibitionism (showing off the more taboo aspects of the relationship unashamedly) and that would be, in my opinion, the perfect reason for a woman to love her bruises.

LadyPact -> RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising (6/1/2009 3:30:46 AM)
When I first got clip, he was just learning to enjoy his masochism. I don't think he really had much of an opinion one way or the other about the marks he'd receive. There wasn't guilt involved in the after effects of play. There weren't positive feelings connected to them either. Sure, they were fun little sore spots that would bring back a smile of reminder of play, but not an emotional link. Over the course of time, the pride in the marks came. It was something that happened as a result of a lot of positive assurances during after care and him seeing My reactions to them (I love playing with bruises in the following days) for as long as they would last. As he would see how proud I was of him for wearing them, and how it pleased Me so much, the pride became instilled in him for getting them. I think a Dominant can help with to encourage the pride that a sub has for wearing marks and to help release you of the guilt that you are associating with them. It takes some time to unlearn the things that you've learned and what's bringing on the feelings that you're experiencing. As you accept yourself and what you enjoy more, it will get easier.

DaddySL -> RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising (6/1/2009 11:30:25 AM)
If you have a problem with bruising, apply some ice immediately after the scene. It will help, and it can also be used for other delightful purposes.

califsue -> RE: Impact/Biting Play and Bruising (6/1/2009 4:28:32 PM)
SabrinasSlave -- Thank you for sharing your thought and how proud you are to wear your Mistress bruises. DaddySL -- Yes..Ice does indeed help immediately after. Thank you for the reminder. variation30 -- Thank you for your thought on bruising and that you agree with littlewonder and how bruises are a reminder of the symbol and power of the Dom/Master. LadyPact -- It is so nice to know that clip was indeed learning to enjoy his masochism and how over the course of time the pride in the marks came. I can relate very well to what you stated. I am sure what you wrote "As you accept yourself and what you enjoy more, it will get easier. " is so very true for me. To everyone who has shared their thoughts and experiences thank you very much. I greatly appreciate hearing from all.

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