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LilBlkGirl -> Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 9:56:36 AM)

a White Master wouldn't marry their house slavegirl??


I think my Master would rather marry a white woman, which is fine. If I have hopes of marrying a White Master, is that something that doesnt happen for black slave girls? Or should I find another Master?



cruel2bkind69 -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 10:07:30 AM)

I think this is an issue between a slave and her Master.  Personally, I wouldn't have a problem marrying a black slave- assuming it's a good match.



LilBlkGirl -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 10:13:27 AM)

okay....thank you. I thought I already did discuss this before I was his slave girl.



HeavansKeeper -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 10:31:15 AM)

Without knowing more about your master, Lilblack, I would assume it's a specific case rather than a general principle.

I'm saying it's likely the specifics of you and him, not white vs. black. You may have discussed the race and marriage aspect before hand, but the outcomes are limited.

Assuming he doesn't want to marry:

1) He lied about the racial thing, and does not want to marry a black girl.
2) He was honest about the racial thing, but does not want to (is not ready to) marry, specifically, you.
3) He is not ready to marry anyone. (A natural fear of commitment)

Keep in mind he may still love you deeply. He may want you in his life forever. But those words are not proposals.

Regarding interracial relationships, they have an additional stress point, especially if the involved members are close to their family. When I was younger I dated a black girl, liked her well enough... But her father always reminding her I was white, and my TERRIBLY overtly racist grandmother stopping just short of calling for a lynching added a lot of stress for us. More likely than not, it's why things didn't work out. If you both feel that stress, remember an age old teenage adage: Fuck em, it's my life.


Nice dog, by the way.



janiebelle -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 1:27:47 PM)

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LilBlack,
It might have to do more with his perceptions of marriage.  If he sees marriage as the path to a family and children, his real issue may be miscegenation.
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RedMagic1 -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 2:07:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LilBlkGirl
If I have hopes of marrying a White Master, is that something that doesnt happen for black slave girls?

Based on my history, it seems likely that if I marry, my wife will have skin that is much darker than mine.  And I think race play is hot as hell.



antipode -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 2:43:39 PM)

quote:

is that something that doesnt happen for black slave girls?


I guess not in terms of play, if you want to be strict. But I am sure plenty will - in my case, I couldn't get you on my health insurance otherwise, not in Virginia. And of course you could marry and not tell anybody, or does that defeat the purpose? What is the purpose?



DarkSteven -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 4:44:18 PM)

Interracial marriage has been around a long time.  If your Master doesn't want to marry you, I would assume your skin color isn't the reason.



DesFIP -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 5:16:54 PM)

You're half his age. This may be his reason. You are still young and will probably want children in the future. He probably has a family already.

But all this is a moot point. If you need a relationship that includes love and marriage, then this isn't the right one for you. Only you can decide.



DeViLiVeD -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 5:49:52 PM)

I come from a multi-racial country and when I say multi-racial, its really mixed up. So to me I don't see anything wrong at all.

Anyway, you did say you discussed it with him. Wonder what are the outcome of it?



antipode -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/27/2009 8:10:53 PM)

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and when I say multi-racial, its really mixed up


You want to try New York City sometime....[:D]  (I know wat you mean though, having lived in S'pore).



LilBlkGirl -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/28/2009 9:26:35 AM)

Thank you all your replies. I will have talk to my Master or maybe I should write in my slave girl journal. I'm not good with actually 'talking,' b/c I'm never sure when is a good time. I know he wants a poly relationship with a white woman, which is okay and would be fun. I accidentally read a message (i thought it was my account) to a white woman on cm that he was interested in and it said he was looking for a partner/wife. I do kind of feel like we are not as compatible as I would like. I have written about these things in my slave girl journal, but I don't think he's read it lately.



Blaakmaan -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/28/2009 2:04:06 PM)

poor little black slave girl...

Massa won't marry her.

What to do, what to do???



lizi -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/28/2009 2:57:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan

poor little black slave girl...

Massa won't marry her.

What to do, what to do???



This is helpful in what way exactly? How can it even be construed as a response to the OP's question?



greenearth21 -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/28/2009 6:06:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

is that something that doesnt happen for black slave girls?


I guess not in terms of play, if you want to be strict. But I am sure plenty will - in my case, I couldn't get you on my health insurance otherwise, not in Virginia. And of course you could marry and not tell anybody, or does that defeat the purpose? What is the purpose?



My curiosity has gotten the best of me and i'm thinking maybe theres something I dont know, but...how come you couldnt "get you on my health insurance otherwise, not in Virginia"? Perhaps there's a rule I havent heard of? Again just curioius and dont mean to deviate from the OP



Huntertn -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/28/2009 7:23:23 PM)

I think he meant if not married no insurance .



GotSteel -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/28/2009 10:28:54 PM)

Well, not knowing anything about you or your Master my initial reaction is it's the age. I could be wrong, but I'd suspect a twenty year age difference to be a bigger deal than skin color to most. Here's a question, how old was the women you found him emailing?



scottishjason -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/29/2009 11:32:04 AM)

The biggest problem with kink is that everyone is a little different.  So what I like and want is going to be at least someone different from what someone else likes or wants.  There may be similarities however, they will never be exactly the same.  For that reason you should always get your wants, desires and needs out in the open at or near the beginning of any relationship.  If you want to marry a white master than you should make sure you are only dating white men who are ready and willing to marry you.  good luck in your search. 



stardancer00 -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/29/2009 1:23:42 PM)

A strong communication is so important, and it seems that is not present here.  There are white men who will never marry a black woman.  i would want to know what his feelings about race actually are.  i would want to know what his feelings about me actually are.  i would want to know whether our perspectives are compatible.  Staying in a relationship without knowing these things, and feeling bad, is unhealthy.



LilBlkGirl -> RE: Q for Masters/Daddys into Raceplay.... (5/29/2009 1:36:05 PM)

I was able to talk to him and he said that if we were together for long-term, he would consider marrying his nigger slave. I do have trouble communicating about how I feel. Since I'm so submissive, I just want to be quite and not talk too much. But he says I can email him or text him instead and he can read my slave girl journal.



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