Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Your Ideal Play Setting


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Your Ideal Play Setting Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 11:12:43 AM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline
Fantasy time ~ Forget your fiscal and other limitations, what would be your ideal setting/s for a BDSM play session?


Mine is very Gothic, dark similar to those old Hammer Film sets for Christopher Lee's Dracula movies set in the Victorian era (where else?). An abandoned Gothic Church lit with candles, late night with a heavy mist outside and an organist playing Bach's organ pieces with the lioghter areas adding heart rendering pathos to a slave's begging and the rich powerfull areas lifting the screams of the slave and the sound of a whip or crop meeting her flesh..





_____________________________

Iron Bear

Master of Bruin Cottage

http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 11:18:59 AM   
ElectraGlide


Posts: 1246
Joined: 11/25/2005
From: Maryland
Status: offline
I played with my slave on a moonlit beach at midnight last year. It was something I always wanted to do. I presented her a new collar first. It was at Assateague Island Maryland. We found a area that had a old pier piece close to the ground. We had the edge of excitement looking around to make sure no one walked up on us.

_____________________________

www.starhillcreations.com

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 12:14:26 PM   
CatdeMedici


Posts: 2257
Joined: 10/20/2008
Status: offline
Biltmore or Versailles

_____________________________

I am the Cat, holder of the whip and chair.

"Let's see-whips, dips, chains, chips, yep sounds like a party to Me!"

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 12:19:04 PM   
SimplyMichael


Posts: 7229
Joined: 1/7/2007
Status: offline
This is a great question but I don't really know my answer.

I love sword and sorcery stuff as a kid, but while some of gor resonates with me, I don't see myself as a warrior like that and that doesn't work.  Same goes with Sci-fi, again, huge fantasy of mine, love reading, but that doesn't work either. 

I am more interested in molesting the baby sitter, shoving someone up against the wall in an alley, or violating someone in the confessional at a church.as it is far more the acts than the space itself.

For me it is more what it isn't.  It isn't my house but someplace "else" (which might say something about me) but that was true even when I had a penthouse overlooking the capital mall.  Although oppulent and exotic surroundings work best, if I had to choose something it would be a toss up between something out of "eyes wide shut" or some sort of middle eastern hareem. 

This is so funny because when I formed PleasureBound.org it was because I wanted something with more ambiance, more exotic than the existing groups and yet I have come to a place where "place" is far less important to me.  I am actually even moving away from the scene a bit.  Yeah, for me it is all about the act, whether sensual and erotic, or dark and twisted.

I have some unused speculums that are hot for me but doing it all in a medical room as a "doctor" doesn't do much for me, but doing it on a bed in private does.  I hadn't really given this much thought to you asked and I am a bit surprised by my own answer.  I guess it all goes back to me that what really counts is who I am with and my connection with that person, I guess that overshadows all else.


(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 12:32:19 PM   
onlyfreelycaged


Posts: 254
Joined: 4/3/2007
Status: offline
the beach, at night, after having watched the sunset.. with a nice wall-less building in the middle of the sand..

(in reply to SimplyMichael)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 1:10:02 PM   
oceanwinds


Posts: 530
Status: offline
Out in the woods with a full moon would be my ideal setting for play or Stone Hedge.

_____________________________

I know where I came from and where I am today. I am forever grateful to all that touched my life. Thank you all and especially you, Goddess.

(in reply to onlyfreelycaged)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 1:17:48 PM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline
I found a huge heart shaped rock in Colorado, that would take some doing to get up on, that I really wanted to play on!  I could just see someone staked to that!

But I think for fantasy... I'm going to another planet with pink, blue and orange sky and a couple of moons.  You can read about it in my next story if I ever get it done and published! lol

_____________________________

No matter how old a woman gets, some men will think she was born yesterday! ROFL... I love this place!


(in reply to oceanwinds)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 1:23:33 PM   
AngelGeena


Posts: 1324
Joined: 10/17/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

An abandoned Gothic Church lit with candles, late night with a heavy mist outside





I'll go with this one too. I also like the idea of an abandoned lighthouse on a stormy beach. *sighs*

_____________________________

Owned heart and soul, bound to MZ forever.

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 1:26:38 PM   
Calandra


Posts: 725
Joined: 11/22/2004
Status: offline
Hmmm, I think there would be two places I would love to do a scene in...

1.) a Victorian parlor with overstuffed couches and cabbage rose patterns on EVERYTHING. There's something soooo exciting about doing naughty things in such a proper setting.

2.) A fern covered clearing deep in the woods where the air is clear and the stars are out and no one can hear the screams for miles and miles...

_____________________________

Lady Kathryn
Athens, Ga.
House of Phoenix

"Nothing is ever final until you're dead - and even then I'm sure God negotiates" Anjelica Huston in Everafter

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 1:58:18 PM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline
Prior to becoming involved in BDSM, I joined the mile high club, bonking a female flight engineer in an RAAF C30, and then bonking one of the TV7 crew whilst filming a sunken wreck (30ft under water) off the Ahbrolis Islands NW Western Australia and of course I've worked pagan rites naked with a coven on a beach under the full moon, in a glade in the woods and on a mountain in the midst of a thunder storm, I'm thinking of revisiting the last three and especially the side of a mountain in the midst of a thunder storm would be mind blowing to do a heavy scene.. Under water or in an Air Force C30 might be a whole lot harder but perhaps not impossible if the right people were involved. 

< Message edited by IronBear -- 5/28/2009 1:59:47 PM >


_____________________________

Iron Bear

Master of Bruin Cottage

http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.

(in reply to Calandra)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:09:16 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline
A huge mansion with cathedral ceilings, lots of open space, fulltime catering and cleaning, a pool to lounge by and lots of time to waste.

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:35:39 PM   
Rainfire


Posts: 4047
Joined: 1/5/2009
Status: offline
  Any time and any place without the munchkin running around...... 

(sounds simply, no? It's not.) 


_____________________________

"I have sold my soul to the devil for You, will You still love me when I am soiled, stained and souless in my love for You?
Or is this the beginning of the end?"

Proud member of the Clan Scarlett O'Hair

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:36:44 PM   
DavanKael


Posts: 3072
Joined: 10/6/2007
Status: offline
It's far more about the person than the setting. 
That having been said, a few things that come readily to mind:
**A church, rather isolated, bright moonlit night.  Moonlight spilling through the stained glass windows which casts colorful streaks of light down into the church, particularly onto the altar. 
**A castle with gothic, over-done furniture but also the sense of disrepair as some aspects are rough and rusty.  I am envisioning a rather rugged St. Andrews cross. 
**Outside, a mostly wooded setting with a clearing.  Potentially ringed by stones. 
      Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:41:40 PM   
lizi


Posts: 4673
Joined: 2/1/2009
Status: offline
Industrial factory type place with all kind of metal structures hanging around and being put to use. Chains, hooks, scary machines, the smell of grease and oil, spotlights, weird acoustics/echoing. Extremely loud thunderous metal or punk music in the background.

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:47:48 PM   
kallisto


Posts: 1185
Status: offline
I agree with DavanKael .. it's more about the person than the setting.  But in saying that ... a beach, white sand, cool, blue water, at night, with a full moon, hearing the waves crashing.     A castle with lots of rooms and balconies and heavy, dark, big furniture.  

(in reply to DavanKael)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:51:15 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline
Public storage units. The echo is divine....

_____________________________



(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 2:53:00 PM   
subbisherri


Posts: 109
Joined: 5/28/2006
Status: offline
Outdoors in a rose garden in bright sunlight, aroma of flowers and the rustle of trees in the breeze.

Or in a barn during a violent thunderstorm with constant flashes of lightning, booms of thunder, gusts of wind and heavy rain on the roof for aural stimulation.

(in reply to lizi)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 3:07:23 PM   
Joseff


Posts: 505
Joined: 6/2/2007
Status: offline
I gotta go with IronBear, the classic dungeon in the gothic castle. Kind of subterranian, lots of masonry, dank. Maybe a huge fireplace at one end, brasiers for light, worked iron everywhere. Chains hanging all over....Or maybe, how about Frankenstein's lab? Old world masonry and sci-fi electrical props. Ok, I'm done speaking in sentence fragments.

_____________________________

This is gonna hurt...

Joseff

(in reply to subbisherri)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 3:40:20 PM   
SlyStone


Posts: 398
Joined: 12/23/2006
From: Chicago
Status: offline
quote:

Fantasy time ~ Forget your fiscal and other limitations, what would be your ideal setting/s for a BDSM play session?





The front room of a  glass house overlooking the ocean, empty except for a long oak table perfectly polished and adorned with leather cuffs attached and shiny  chains hanging from the ceiling above, lit by the dying rays of the setting sun and warmed by a blazing fire, Houses of The Holy playing on the stereo.


_____________________________

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.

Anais Nin

(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Your Ideal Play Setting - 5/28/2009 3:41:46 PM   
GYPZYQUEEN


Posts: 730
Joined: 4/14/2009
Status: offline
I want to get a yurt and set it up like a Ghengis Khan exhibition I saw..
silk carpets...ornate low furnishings...candle holders...torch sticks...low bed with pillows...
and with BDSM furniture as well...in that "style"

GQ

(in reply to Joseff)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Your Ideal Play Setting Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.098