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Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 4:32:15 PM

LindaLashes

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I´m a submissive in training, well, I was in training and finished a week and a half ago by going through the last of my 7 trials. While in that training I was a simple houseslave but after it I will be collared and be my Mistresses property.
Ok I´m afraid that I´m not being patient nearly enough. It´s been more than a week and though Mistress talked about different times ahead I feel like stuck in mid air and Mistress hasn´t contacted me.
She has a Dom herself overseas and visits him alot and probably will be with him all summer, or longer. She visited him last weekend. But enough of that..
Am I being silly? Should I excercise more patience? I´m so in need for her appreciation.

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RE: Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 4:39:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: LindaLashes

I´m a submissive in training, well, I was in training and finished a week and a half ago by going through the last of my 7 trials. While in that training I was a simple houseslave but after it I will be collared and be my Mistresses property.
Ok I´m afraid that I´m not being patient nearly enough. It´s been more than a week and though Mistress talked about different times ahead I feel like stuck in mid air and Mistress hasn´t contacted me.
She has a Dom herself overseas and visits him alot and probably will be with him all summer, or longer. She visited him last weekend. But enough of that..
Am I being silly? Should I excercise more patience? I´m so in need for her appreciation.

Hi Linda,
Perhaps your Mistress is testing you on what you have learned during training? Hang in there <s>

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RE: Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 4:45:36 PM

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Perhaps patience is the 8th trial?

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RE: Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 5:52:01 PM

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How long were you in training and did you have a relationship with your Master beforehand? I would agree with the posts before me in that the waiting may be a trial. However, if this isn't characteristic of your domme and you do not have permission to contact her, I would feel a little uncertain too. If your Mistress is also under the care of a Master, she may be distracted by her own course of training. If you have permission to contact her, I would with a humble note of query. If you don't, stay strong and perhaps keep a journal of the emotions you are experiencing during this trial. As a mistress, I would rather enjoy reading of my subjects wanton desires in my absence.

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RE: Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 6:07:15 PM

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My training took about 4 months. There have been times of longer separation than a week and a half... She is rather busy these days I know, I know I´m being unrational about this. It´s not been that long since the completion of the training, I just feel a bit disoriented I think after the training. There are greater times ahead but at the moment it feels like waiting alone at a bus stop not knowing when the bus arrives...
I don´t want to contact her beforehand, it just feel wrong, especially if she´s busy. She does check on my journal quite regularly though and that makes me feel a lot better.

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RE: Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 6:25:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: LindaLashes

My training took about 4 months. There have been times of longer separation than a week and a half... She is rather busy these days I know, I know I´m being unrational about this. It´s not been that long since the completion of the training, I just feel a bit disoriented I think after the training. There are greater times ahead but at the moment it feels like waiting alone at a bus stop not knowing when the bus arrives...
I don´t want to contact her beforehand, it just feel wrong, especially if she´s busy. She does check on my journal quite regularly though and that makes me feel a lot better.

Linda, if she checks on your journal regularly, you might consider writing in your journal how much you miss her, without complaining or whining about it. Just a simple "I miss my Mistress and can't wait til we can talk again" should be enough. I can't say whether this will cause your Mistress to contact her, but she will see that you are indeed thinking of her and missing her. Good luck.

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RE: Floating in mid air - 2/8/2006 6:33:27 PM

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Thank you MistressOfGa. I did add a comment today on how I missed her and longed for her presence.