question for mature Ladies (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress



Message

MrsIsabella -> question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 6:55:54 AM)

Could one possibly tell how I can see that and older Lady is interested in someone a lot younger? I get confused on this website, as many use the world girl, but only to make one feel small, instead of meaning someone young?

Thanks!



SomethingCatchy -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 6:57:09 AM)

I suppose you could ask for clarification ...



RedMagic1 -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 6:58:15 AM)

Someone who identifies as lesbian and calls herself a cougar.



LaTigresse -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 7:01:09 AM)

I love younger women but don't remember ever calling myself a cougar (unless in jest). I've never had any problem communicating my interests nor have the young women I've met.



MrsIsabella -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 7:04:53 AM)

well, that helps a bit, bit still don't know how to tell?



LaTigresse -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 7:13:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrsIsabella

well, that helps a bit, bit still don't know how to tell?


Asking is always good. Often times they say something in their profile. Seriously, a short email asking, is never something I would be offended by. What's the worst that can happen, a stranger, you will never meet, tells you they are not interested.......no biggy ziggy.



fluffypet61 -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 7:19:55 AM)

i am 64 and some friends here call me "girl" and i refer to myself as "this girl".  For me it is a generic term for female.  Since i am a slave it would not be proper to call me Ma'am (like the bag boy at the market calls me).  Some Masters call a female slave "girl" because they haven't named her yet.   
 
In the vanilla world grown women often call each other "girls".  For example: The "boys" go to play golf while the "girls" go to the fabric store.  Those folks can be as old as senior citizens.
 
Just my [sm=2cents.gif].



LadyHibiscus -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 7:23:50 AM)

My adult friends and I call each other "girls" sometimes.  I don't accept that from men, though.  I don't call men "boys", either! [:)]

If you want to know if someone is interested, ask!  You don't ask, you don't get, eh?



GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 7:43:22 AM)

I call women "girl" and men "boy" as a term of endearment....not condesention..

To find out if they are interested in an age aspect you can ask..

Hopefully they will want a whole person not just an age ..height..boob size etc
I get messages..."you into younger guys ?" and it never ceases to amaze me that this is what they feel they have to offer..youth..??as a carrot..a tantilizer..??

for me it is MINDS FIRST

NOW someone may be genuinley wanting an older DOM so then one can then approach with.." I feel I would enhance your life by.."
or " I wish to be with an older DOMME because.....
" IT appeals to me to be with a mature DOMME because.."

GQ


GQ



Politesub53 -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 11:03:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I love younger women but don't remember ever calling myself a cougar (unless in jest).


We know Youre not a cougar, because youre stripey tiger. [8D]



LaTigresse -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 11:05:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I love younger women but don't remember ever calling myself a cougar (unless in jest).


We know Youre not a cougar, because youre stripey tiger. [8D]


I don't know why, but that made me thing of Tigger (Pooh's friend), which of course brought a smile to my face. [:D] Thank you Politesub!



Lockit -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 11:06:36 AM)

LOL... I smiled and laughed too... He has the touch! lol



Politesub53 -> RE: question for mature Ladies (5/29/2009 11:08:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

LOL... I smiled and laughed too... He has the touch! lol


Years of practice....lol



Page: [1]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875