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velvetvixen -> RE: feeling owned... (6/3/2009 3:04:36 PM)
I always like that little verbal chain yank when I'm not expecting it, in the middle of a seemingly dull conversation, when I am bluntly told that I can think what I want but in the end I will do what I am told. He's in my head and that's when I know I am his.

LPslittleclip -> RE: feeling owned... (6/3/2009 6:30:40 PM)
when sitting at my M'ladys feet and while Shes stroking my hair , i feel as if the whole world doesn't exist and nothing else matters.

junecleaver -> RE: feeling owned... (6/3/2009 7:05:18 PM)
That is just...all kinds of hot. For me whatever the activity is...the more I don't want to do it...the more it will make me feel owned. Because I'm freak? ;)

Zechriel -> RE: feeling owned... (6/4/2009 3:12:11 AM)
Good morning! In the beginning of our relationship and when I was still new to this, I used to feel that my collar/cuffs or things that I could see (little presents he would give me) reminded me I was owned. Then it got to where things he said, I would write down and remember, made me feel owned. Now after all we have been through and after 14 months, it is everything he says/does/is. Now that I know him, what makes him tick, what he prefers and how picky he is-that alone makes me feel owned. Simply-the way he picked ME not anyone else. I lay in his bed, I rub him down, he shows ME his darkest desires. Because he let ME into his life-being so private-makes me feel owned completely. Good luck! Love, Zechriel [sm=couple.gif]

hlen5 -> RE: feeling owned... (6/4/2009 10:30:29 AM)
This thread is sooooo hot. Kitastrophe, you have cmail.

sleazybutterfly -> RE: feeling owned... (6/4/2009 1:52:09 PM)
I know I already wrote on this thread, but I have done some thinking on the subject a bit more. I now realize, I feel owned every moment of the day. If for one second I forget, there is always an instance to remind me. It could be something sexual, or it could be when I really, really want to say something but I instead bite my tongue off in order to not cause problems. I squelch my personality and a part of me sort of falls away. Those moments, I realize I am more owned than I ever imagined. Not as glamorous or hot as some answers, but for me it's probably the most truthful thing I can say (without delving into my actual life on the msg boards).

rouletteslave -> RE: feeling owned... (6/6/2009 1:56:05 PM)
Chastity is a great way for ownership. There's nothing quite like having someone hold your key to make you feel owned. Anal penetration is another good one. It's one of my favorite, I wrote about it here. Imposing rules for conduct and a punishment schedule is always nice.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: feeling owned... (6/6/2009 2:18:44 PM)
If that's all it takes to make you feel owned.....[8\|]

zenny -> RE: feeling owned... (6/6/2009 2:42:48 PM)
Tell me about it. I mean, I'm sure getting there is easy! ha.

belovedfairy -> RE: feeling owned... (6/6/2009 6:18:12 PM)
I agree totally with DesFIP. I personally dont think that is dominant behavior. I think it was very disrespectful behavior. You said giving in to "being owned" was all you could do to not feel violated. Well, you WERE violated. Violation is not ownership.

KneelforAnne -> RE: feeling owned... (6/6/2009 10:49:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: ORIGINAL: Delphinus There was one time when we were having an argument of sorts. The air was very heavy between us. We were both miserable and the gray cloud just wasn't lifting. Then he told me to go in the bedroom. I didn't want to - I wanted to resist on every level - I was even angry with him, as I thought it was very much not the time for anything sexual. I thought we needed to talk it out on a one-on-one, save our loving relationship kind of way. I grudged, and I was angry, and I was kind of thinking "how dare he?" Of course, I did it. And we went in the bedroom and he made love to me and it was the deepest lovemaking experience I've ever had - no bondage or spanking or humiliation or general kinkiness that I love so much. Just him and me, having the most intense and (dare I say?) vanilla-like sex we've ever had. I think I felt so owned because at that time, there was no "BDSM", no CollarMe, no symbols, no limits, no implements...it was just a man taking his woman...a man making the decision to change the situation how he saw fit. There wasn't a bit of kink about it, yet it was a pivotal moment in our D/s relationship. Ok, THAT was cool. Ok, THAT was WAY cool! grins

trueshadow -> RE: feeling owned... (6/8/2009 8:36:28 PM)
I thought the o/p scene was quite hot. I understand others feelings, but I thought it must have been deliciously humiliating.

KateyCaine -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 3:00:09 AM)
For me, it's when He says " I love you, dear", and also the way that He knows exactly what i'm going to ask Him or say to Him before i say the words.He just knows me inside and out. He knows when i am worrying about not being able to get to the US when i had planned, and if i am worrying unnecessarily or feeling insecure - he just gently says "heni, stop it". i want for nothing else, and want for no other man. k.

KateyCaine -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 3:04:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: velvetvixen I always like that little verbal chain yank when I'm not expecting it, in the middle of a seemingly dull conversation, when I am bluntly told that I can think what I want but in the end I will do what I am told. He's in my head and that's when I know I am his. i like the way you worded that :) Very beautiful! Yep, i know all about that, Master Charles puts me in my place in that way if i get a little bolshie or too clever for my own good :) It feels lovely to be reminded of my place now when i need to be. k.

Padriag -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 4:49:00 AM)
This is one of those threads I think, in my opinion, dominants ought to quietly read... but say little.

WarKirby -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 5:03:30 AM)
We are here, reading and saying little

brandi1379 -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 6:44:47 AM)
i just wanted to say yall are so lucky, i cant wait till i have my first real "owned" moment :D

kitastrophe33 -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 3:18:50 PM)
I guess it's fortunate than that he and I are a good match. I certainly didn't say anywhere in my post that this sort of situation was a one-size-fits all scene. You see the situation as a definite violation. I saw it as a shade of gray. Somewhere in between violation and complete comfort. A situation that encouraged me to get over some internal resistance and just trust him. Of course I could have said no. But I didn't. And that worked out for me. It turned out that pushing past my comfort zone was a really positive. And damn hot. But definitely, if this is something you and your partner would not be comfortable with don't do it. And say no if you're ever put in the situation. I'm sure you've done something in your kink that I'd say "hell no" to. That's the nature of individuality, right? quote: ORIGINAL: belovedfairy I agree totally with DesFIP. I personally dont think that is dominant behavior. I think it was very disrespectful behavior. You said giving in to "being owned" was all you could do to not feel violated. Well, you WERE violated. Violation is not ownership.

Firebirdseeking -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 6:14:57 PM)
I maintain my opinion that even if you pushed past your limit, it involved another man, first of all, and not YOUR dominant; and IMHO, that was not dominant, nor honorable behavior on his part.

lronitulstahp -> RE: feeling owned... (6/9/2009 6:31:34 PM)
There are those little times when i am "reined in". Being naturally independent, and headstrong it takes a lot for me to be put in line. When i overstep, and i am mentally tugged without any sort of battle or tugging back on my part, damn... that's just yummy!

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