Old taboos, Todays kink?

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breatheasone -> Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 9:16:42 AM)
Two that leap to ...ok well three....that leap to mind are becoming Masters little girl, and Him becoming my Daddy[:)] Also, needle/blood play, and water sports. Both Daddy and i were rather shocked, and amused at how We had Both become suck fuckin FREAKS....LMAO.... So i thought i'd ask....How much more or less Freaky are you, from where you started, to now? Hmmmmm?......Well?.........Come on spill.........[;)]

sub4spanks -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 9:29:42 AM)
im def more kinky now that what i was when i 1st got into it...the images on kinky website used to shock me now im like...yeah - done that! lol

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 9:34:13 AM)
I will say that my horizons have definitely expanded in the last 15-20 years!

breatheasone -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 9:37:09 AM)
Right-on Ladies...i knew i was in good company![;)]

ShaharThorne -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 9:58:02 AM)
I started out with being spanked over 20 years ago (still love that Cajun boy) while stationed in Georgia and been experimenting since then. Now just looking for someone to do some knifeplay on me so I can have my shivers...cold shower time!

sleazybutterfly -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 10:32:16 AM)
Well, I would say I have changed a bit in it. I never in my life thought I would rim, but I have. I am still wanting to try watersports, but haven't figured out how to talk M into trying, or how to even go about the whole thing. Ass play is now one of my faves, and I long for marks from a cane. While I don't think some things will ever change, needles..fire, I do see myself evolving and wanting to try almost everything out there within reason.

breatheasone -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 10:38:13 AM)
i completely understand...Needle play is nothing like i thought it would be. Its absolutely awesome.

LotusSong -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 10:51:13 AM)
When BDSM becomes commonplace and the shock effect is gone.. will ONE still be attracted to it? Or will the pendulum swing back the other way? As in..."Boy! Did I ever abstain last night! You could have cut the tenderness with a knife.. it gave me chills". [:D]

IrishMist -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 10:58:22 AM)
In the last 20 or so years; my 'horizons' have definitly broadened, leveled out, shrunk, and eventually evened out to a point that I no longer need what I once needed. I have done things that I never thought I ever would; and regret doing some things that I did do. Either way, it's all been a wonderful learning experience that I would not trade for anything.

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 11:09:39 AM)
Always a troublemaker, and always a fringe-player, the taboos I've explored and embraced have pretty much all revolved around things that I thought were physically -impossible- to do... to quote Gomer Pyle... suPRIZE... suPRIZE...suPRIZE! Dame Calla

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 11:12:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong When BDSM becomes commonplace and the shock effect is gone.. will ONE still be attracted to it? Or will the pendulum swing back the other way? Will missionary become the new anal? Will bush be the new shaved? I think for me it is not about shock or taboo or kink... but..fascination with sensation explorations I have stepped into over the years with others and self...going from mild to extreme and finding my way of what I like..what my body likes..what my mind likes.. I am D and also like knife play on my self and water sports Back in the day( 20 yrs) I never thought I would love warm urine in my hair and to leave it in and go back to bed as it dries but I do.. I never thought I would entertain the thought of a DP but did.. I never thought I would chase a man( sub) in a parkade and pin him down and have my way with him over the back of a car but I did. I never dreamed I would be (at close to 50)..chasing a naked man in park playing werewolf...overpowering him and "eating" him alive..but I have...yum[&:] GQ

allthatjaz -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 11:24:52 AM)
I remember when I was about 18 and walking past this house on our street with a friend. She pointed to the house and said 'the people that live in that house are into tying each other up'. I walked past that house for a long time after and always thought the same thoughts 'strange bastards' I never thought I would become so kinky, so tolerant and so open minded. If someone had said to me back then that years down the line I would not only be suspended from a tree by ropes but suspended from a tree with flesh hooks through my flesh I would of told them they were insane.

kuriouswitch -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 12:55:16 PM)
well until three weeks ago I was a virgin; had never even been on a vanilla date let alone anything kinky or BDSM related; then I went and visited Master. Talk about a leap, we tried restraints, blindfolds (used to be a hard limit), ass play, watersports, needle play, impact play with floggers and paddles, some light "safe" outdoor play in a park, orgasm denial. some age play, and OTK spankings. That's a lot for a week's visit and I crave more. We already have plans for when I visit again. out of all of that there were two things i really didn't enjoy but can do them and get used to them.

ShaharThorne -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 1:02:05 PM)
Not to mention flogging, ass play (not anal sex, sorry), being tied up, some breath play and biting...I don't regret a bit of it. On needle play, I hate watching the needles go in for IVs, yet I feel fine afterwards...is that typical or am I a sick pup?

velvetvixen -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 2:31:20 PM)
Many years ago my first experience was with a RopeMaster. I thought I was the kinkiest, craziest girl on the planet!! I still love ropes more than anything else, but have certainly come to appreciate a lot of other different activities along the way. My list of hard limits used to be about 10 pages long. Suffice it to say it's a few lines now. The original question, though was (paraphrased) are you freakier now than when you started... I don't think I am freakier, I am just more experienced and more comfortable with who I am and what I like. Thanks for the post. I always like to remember my dear Mister and his ropes.

Lashra -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 2:39:41 PM)
I've definitely "perverted" him lol In his previous relationships he was a Master, now he is the slave. I've introduced him to a whole new world of kink that he never explored before. I plan to expand into electric play and some other areas which will be new for me. So yes we are changing as we grow older, learning new things and having new experiences. I think that is what life is about. ~Lashra

whiteslavebitch -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 2:45:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong When BDSM becomes commonplace and the shock effect is gone.. will ONE still be attracted to it? Or will the pendulum swing back the other way? As in..."Boy! Did I ever abstain last night! You could have cut the tenderness with a knife.. it gave me chills". [:D] Way to make me puke, lol.

DavanKael -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 2:51:44 PM)
Fundamentally, I am the same: I view sexuality as an aspect of spirituality and always have. Some things that I didn't think would appeal to me have wound up being incredibly pleasurable and/or intense. One that comes really readily to mind is fisting. I wasn't particularly interested in it; was not looking to add it to my list of 'things I've done'. Was tied up one day and the person I was with and I were being playful. At some point, the intensity amped up and we decided to keep going and, woo hoo, my body surprised me. It was a freakin' fantastic experience and one of the few truly intimate experiences with that particular partner. Fundamentally, my ideas about things are the same but my repertoire has grown. :> Davan

DomDaddy100 -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 2:59:45 PM)
It dwells within A/all...you just have to be patient and find that...."S/somone" for it all to gel. I had such a girl......My growth was beyond My dreams....as was hers.. btw......It ain't kinky if it pleasures both. Kink only shows it's face when one cannot stand to look in the mirror.

breatheasone -> RE: Old taboos, Todays kink? (6/3/2009 3:12:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL:DomDaddy100, Kink only shows it's face when one cannot stand to look in the mirror. i'm not sure i can go along with this....nawww.... [&:]

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