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Sirandlittle1 -> How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 3:45:46 AM)
He likes to recieve this sort of pleasure from me, and thus, i love to give. But how do i do this better? Im really not that sensitive to a tongue there myself, so cant gain from a personal perspective. For those of you fans at receiving, what makes a good rim job fantastic? For those of you who enjoy giving, any tips? little1

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 6:06:24 AM)
Good positioning helps a lot. Nothing like getting into a groove and then suddenly having neck spasms. Use pillows and angles and get everyone into a comfy position that sets you up for a good long fun time. Next, just play around. Like everything, we're all different. If you love oral sex in general, then use the same techniques. Slow, fast, fluttery, licking, shoving in, teasing, see what evokes the best response. This is the fun part of exploring new things!

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 7:44:02 AM)
It really depends on what he likes. Agreeing with LA here, experiement and see what he responds to. In my case, i have found that a straight "tongue f**ck" (i guess i need to read posting rules - can i say that?) brings the biggest response.

truesub4u -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 9:02:07 AM)
Yep agrees with Lucky on this one too... The exploring is the greatest... I've always liked adding this to my giving oral sex. And never having done so with this Master... I took it slow.. and little by little each time to catch his responses. Not sure if he would actually allow me to enter. But by the time I got to that point.. he was eager. [:D]

Nuke718 -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 10:26:55 AM)
As usual LA beat me on speed and smarts with a good response, LoL. But I'd like to agree with the people posting so far. Just like normal oral (or anal or vaginal) sex, rimming desn't have a single "perfect technique" Some like slow sensual and teasing, while some like to move quickly to penetration (ot that penetration is even a given). Have fun, play around, and find something you both can enjoy safely and comfortably. N

Wildfleurs -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 12:32:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Good positioning helps a lot. Nothing like getting into a groove and then suddenly having neck spasms. Use pillows and angles and get everyone into a comfy position that sets you up for a good long fun time. This is something I have struggled with. Do you have any ideas or links about good positions for rimming (with men)? C~

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 12:39:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs This is something I have struggled with. Do you have any ideas or links about good positions for rimming (with men)? C~ Theres two ways I find best to do it: One is to get the dom into a doggy style position, on his hands and knees, or just on his knees. This isn't too bad on your neck an gives you full access to the genitals as well. The other is to get into a 69 position with the dom on top and the sub propped up with pillows to keep the neck supported. The anus really isn't designed to have things easily accessible to it, specially the tongue. Pacing is important as well, let the tongue rest in between kissing and slow licks.

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 1:34:28 PM)
[/quote] This is something I have struggled with. Do you have any ideas or links about good positions for rimming (with men)? C~ [/quote] Have done it two ways. 1. He is laying on his stomach and i am between his legs...holding him open with hands, face to ass. 2. He has sat on a chair, like an overstuffed chair, slid down on it a bit.. i'm on all fours between his legs, which are up, resting on my shoulders. This position is best for things like....breathing. :)

mnottertail -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 3:59:17 PM)
Two ways to go just like a blowjob.......... Dog eats peanutbutter or nursing Ron

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 7:52:07 PM)
Thankyou for the positions, coz my neck is killing me after ive done this awhile. I did discover that toothpaste is rather interesting too. Not intense, but different. Im loving this form of pleasure, something new to add to my repettoire is always a good thing. Compared to what he does 'to' me, i always feel i lag behind a little. But he doesnt seem to like the same kinda 'fun' i do lol. So rimming, is my new black. Perhaps i should have a H stuck to my forehead (red dwarf gag, Hologram character called Rimmer had one on his). And maybe strengthen my neck, hope i dont end up like a mastiff. Mnottertail, i didnt get what you said? Unless its a K9 thang. ?? little1

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 8:02:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1 And maybe strengthen my neck, hope i dont end up like a mastiff. Mnottertail, i didnt get what you said? Unless its a K9 thang. ?? little1 Just laughed at this....god i could relate!! And i didn't get the previous post, either.

truesub4u -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 8:22:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1 And maybe strengthen my neck, hope i dont end up like a mastiff. Mnottertail, i didnt get what you said? Unless its a K9 thang. ?? little1 Goes and chases down screen cleaner... spewed coffee all over it.... I swear reading this forum sometimes is getting costly in screen cleaner.. and soon enough.. just a whole new damn laptop... because it's just not on screen.. it's on keys too.. guess keys will start sticking now.. LOL

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 9:23:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1 So rimming, is my new black. Perhaps i should have a H stuck to my forehead (red dwarf gag, Hologram character called Rimmer had one on his).little1 Trust me, you don't have to explain any sci-fi or British humor jokes to this group.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 10:14:38 PM)
La by this group I hope you mean your group personally, because I wouldn't of known what she was talking about, I still don't. I don't follow hologram what ever it is.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 10:22:39 PM)
When I have been the recipient of this what was most enjoyable is what has been covered by LuckyAlbatross quote: Next, just play around. Like everything, we're all different. If you love oral sex in general, then use the same techniques. Slow, fast, fluttery, licking, shoving in, teasing, see what evokes the best response. and ownedgirlie quote: It really depends on what he likes. Agreeing with LA here, experiement and see what he responds to. In my case, i have found that a straight "tongue f**ck" I doubt you will go wrong with one or both suggestions, and yes a strong neck for endurance. [8D] M

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 10:30:14 PM)
~ laugh ~ Yeah, i tend to keep my chiropractor in business. She always asks, "What the heck have you been doing??" The last time i went, she said my sacrum (bone below the lumbar spine) had been twisted. Okay that hurt more putting it back in place than twisting it out of place.... But i digress...

truesub4u -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 10:45:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie ~ laugh ~ Yeah, i tend to keep my chiropractor in business. She always asks, "What the heck have you been doing??" ok I want to be there the day you run out of excuses and tell just exactly how it happens.. lmao My first Master bout died when I told my doctor the reason my jaw hurt so much....I looked over.. and I know he wished he could of crawled under the floor about then.... LOL

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/10/2006 10:59:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie ~ laugh ~ Yeah, i tend to keep my chiropractor in business. She always asks, "What the heck have you been doing??" ok I want to be there the day you run out of excuses and tell just exactly how it happens.. lmao My first Master bout died when I told my doctor the reason my jaw hurt so much....I looked over.. and I know he wished he could of crawled under the floor about then.... LOL Ha!! Laughing here! i just keep showing up....completely perplexed that my jaw needs to be reset from time to time....Chiropractor thinks i am sleeping on it wrong. [:D]

slave4Darby3d -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/11/2006 12:24:34 AM)
cover your laptop in saran wrap... works great..

Prunesquallor -> RE: How to give the perfect rim job? (2/11/2006 7:13:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Good positioning helps a lot. Nothing like getting into a groove and then suddenly having neck spasms. Use pillows and angles and get everyone into a comfy position that sets you up for a good long fun time. This is something I have struggled with. Do you have any ideas or links about good positions for rimming (with men)? C~ The position I found the best one to be entered was with me kneeling on one leg, with the woman on her back. That was the only method in which the tongue could really enter, and the result was out of this world.

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