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HeavansKeeper -> RE: breathplay (6/6/2009 1:51:21 PM)
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Breath play and I are quite cross, likely from a near death experience as a child. For me, all forms of play are opportunities to establish or enhance trust and intimacy. Danger is certainly not exciting to me, neither is pushing my body to its limits. Mind you, I will push my body into dangerous situations in an effort to further trust, but not for the plain experience.
Heath Ledger, as The Joker, said it best.
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ORIGINAL: The Joker
Do you want to know why I use a knife? Guns are too quick, you can’t savor all the little… emotions. Y-you see, in their last moments, people show you who they really are. So, in a way, I knew your friends better than you ever did. Would you like to know which of them were cowards?
I like the little emotions. I like the way people react. I loved how my pet blushed when I arranged for her to kiss her first girl. It's truth incarnate. People lie when they talk, they censor themselves. Only some sort of James Bond meets World Series of Poker champion can hide the truth when a crop lands. (I know, crops aren't so manly, but I like them).
I've never met someone who's into breath play AND sees kink the way I do. I've watched a lot of breath play; it's probably natural to be intrigued by what you fear with irrational panic. I see it as a bottom centric activity. Not that it's bad, but I don't see much "joy" for the top.
Another note about edge play: Trust is essential. I may have a mistress I trust to the ends of the world. I trust her never to hurt me, forget me, treat me wrongly... But do I trust her to electrocute me? No. Why? Because she said "Which is worse, amps or volts?" yesterday at lunch. If you're going to trust someone with your air, you best be sure they're an expert at your breathing... However you qualify that.
In direct response: Yes, some people are into breath play. Let me leave you with some advice my father gave me.
Don't be stupid.
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