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Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 10:58:52 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		I recently embarked on a journey into the terrifying world of chastity, all in the name of charity. I'm not sure chastity is the correct term to use, but the basic idea is that I cannot cum for a whole month. Now the creator of this horrid fundraising scheme came up with an idea to make it a little harder for me. I will not be wearing a device, and I can be teased or touch myself if told to.

Now I'm on day three and finding it difficult already to concentrate on anything else.

So the purpose of this little message was to ask anyone if they have any tips for me. Is there anything I can do apart from try to keep busy? I know it sounds like a strange question, but is there anything that I can drink/eat that will make it easier to cope with the next few weeks?

I'd love to hear opinions, from both submissives and dominants who have had experience.

Thanks for your time

The Submissive Boy
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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 11:14:41 AM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		You need advice on growing up and keeping
                                         your hand out of your pants?

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 11:17:24 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		Please explain what you mean by "Growing up". Is what I am doing considered immature?

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 11:27:06 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Uh, dude?  I found this on Google in maybe 2 seconds.  It was the first hit.

http://www.moonmac.com/Mormon_masturbation.html


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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 11:30:40 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		Thank you Red Magic. Unfortunately masterbation without release may be part of the teasing process.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 11:32:26 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Does your Dom want to see you succeed, or does your Dom want to see you fail?

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/6/2009 11:35:26 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		I hope she wants me to succeed, but making it harder has raised a lot more money. A lot of people don't think I will be able to do it. I am very determined to prove them wrong.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/7/2009 5:15:53 PM   
Tinkerer


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Status: offline 		There's a reason why people are willing to donate... it's meant to be hard.

Will power is something that only grows with exercise.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/7/2009 5:27:13 PM   
dcnovice


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Status: offline 		I don't have any advice, other than to try to keep your mind and hands occupied as best you can. But I did want to wish you luck! It sounds like a cool, offbeat fundraiser.




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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/9/2009 11:31:34 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		Thank you. I've found that keeping busy seems to work. So lots of running, lots of reading, and handcuffing my hands behind my back also helps lol.

3.5k and counting so far.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/9/2009 1:35:27 PM   
dcnovice


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quote:

3.5k and counting so far.


Pounds? That's awesome!

What charity are you doing this for?

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/9/2009 1:42:38 PM   
CatdeMedici


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dcnovice

quote:

3.5k and counting so far.


Pounds? That's awesome!

What charity are you doing this for?


<backs away from the keyboard> I am going to be good, very very good.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/9/2009 6:20:11 PM   
aravain


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Take up smoking! :D

In all seriousness, though... uh... just don't be nekkid? If teasing happens... don't touch yourself (though, that sounds like someone doesn't want you to succeed, honestly)...

Is anyone else reminded of that one Hartnett (or whatever his name is/was) movie? Where he abstains for Lent and everyone bets on him?

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/9/2009 8:09:39 PM   
StoneFox


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Status: offline 		I think this idea is awesome. Congrats!

I guess my advice is (and I hope you're a masochist) to enjoy the delicious denial that so many subs love/hate. Take the teasing and tormenting and revel in it. I know this may sound a little fruity, but in eastern philosophy you go TOWARDS what you're trying to get away from. For example, if someone has a fever , eating something very spicy is a common curative. It raises the body temp. and causes sweating, thus leading to a natural cool-down of the body via it's own functions. Just a thought.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/9/2009 8:11:34 PM   
Danibelle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: aravain

~FR~

Take up smoking! :D

In all seriousness, though... uh... just don't be nekkid? If teasing happens... don't touch yourself (though, that sounds like someone doesn't want you to succeed, honestly)...

Is anyone else reminded of that one Hartnett (or whatever his name is/was) movie? Where he abstains for Lent and everyone bets on him?



Forty Days and Forty Nights

To the OP, good luck with that.  I'm pretty sure I haven't gone a month without masturbating since I was around 10.


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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/11/2009 1:23:37 PM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		DC: its in £'s. Luckily we managed to attract some quite wealthy people who put in nice donations. Work and friends, and friends of friends have all been very generous. Not all the money has been made from this activity. There are a few others going on at the same time. It's for the Cancer Research UK charity. It's a charity which is important to the main fundraiser so of course I'm happy to help as she's a close friend.

Aravain: If only I did smoke. That film was actually the fundraisers inspiration  for this lol.

StoneFox: I think right now I'm trying anything to keep my mind off it. Films, sports, tying my hands behind my back, anything to stop me giving in!!!

Danibelle: I haven't gone a week without doing it lol

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/12/2009 5:21:37 AM   
andreasubmissive


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Status: offline 		i agree with DaniBelle, i haven't gone a month either, i find it hard going a week!

but you seem to be doing the best things, keeping busy etc....if all else fails, cold showers :)

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/13/2009 12:56:52 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		I took one this morning. It worked for a while. I should really stop coming on here though lol. Beautiful profile pics and adverts everywhere do not help.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/13/2009 3:45:46 PM   
aravain


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Like I said ;) Stay clothed. I'd even suggest tight underwear, if you don't wear it already. Ruins any sexual desire when my boys are that tight.

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RE: Chastity for Charity - 6/13/2009 7:34:48 PM   
GotSteel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Uh, dude?  I found this on Google in maybe 2 seconds.  It was the first hit.

http://www.moonmac.com/Mormon_masturbation.html



I'm really underwhelmed by that advice, for instance:

"3. If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, YOU MUST BREAK OFF THEIR FRIENDSHIP. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never will. You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind."

Apparently it's bad to be friends with anyone who has a healthy libido.

"6. If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak."

   of all the irresponsible....I just have to stop reading this, my brain hurts.

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