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Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/7/2009 11:07:24 AM   
MasterG2kTR


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Granted this is a list of memories that makes it's way around the internet with regularity. But, I don't care what anyone else says, these were definitely better times than what we have today. Life was so much simpler and a lot more fun. You knew your neighbors and counted them among your friends. The word 'community' actually meant something. If you are like me you will probably agree that society has gone in the wrong direction.
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TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED THE
1930's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's!!


First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant.

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can and didn't get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-base paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, locks on doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had baseball caps not helmets on our heads.

As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, no booster seats, no seat belts, no air bags, bald tires and sometimes no brakes

Riding in the back of a pick- up truck on a warm day was always a special treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one actually died from this.

We ate cupcakes, white bread, real butter and bacon. We drank Kool-Aid made with real white sugar. And, we weren't overweight. WHY?

Because we were always outside playing...that's why!


We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. And, we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride them down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's and X-boxes. There were no video games, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet and no chat rooms
WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!


We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them.

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't, had to learn to deal with disappointment.

Imagine that!!


The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!

 These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever.

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.
  If YOU are one of them? CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good.


While you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave and lucky their parents were.


Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it ?
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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/7/2009 11:23:39 AM   
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i understand the spirit in which this is written...but as a parent my response is---> 




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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/7/2009 11:32:02 AM   
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and those born 1960 or later are like    going to an all you can eat buffet and nothing is left.


we were the kids who found that cereal boxes were not filled to the top with cereal.

that batteries are not included.

that if you open a savings account- you get a toaster.

the LP covers were cool.

that we were the good guys... and the Soviets were the bad guys.

we were told we had to tighten our belt.  the nation had a deficit.  HUGE.

we were told that college instead of costing  $16 a credit hour=  costs $120 a credit hour.    Sorta like a mortgage with no house.

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/7/2009 1:59:04 PM   
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When I was a kid we'd skip school, go down to the railroad tracks and hop a freight train into Boston.
Then we'd hitch hike over to Fenway Park, climb the chainlink fence and sneak in to watch the game. Once in a while we'd get into fights with the old drunk guys in the bleachers who were probably there because they hated their wives.
One time,...and this is on the "QT" we stole a truck to get home,...but don't quote me on that.
"AND I LOVE THAT DIRTY WATER............. B, B, B,BOSTON YOU"RE MY HOME!!!"

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/7/2009 9:01:03 PM   
MarsBonfire


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Let's see... I have a friend named Bradley who lost a toe to a go cart that he crashed.

I remember passing mono around Junior High, and at least half a dozen kids in my school contracted oral herpes from the "sharing a soda can" stunt.

I know of at least one kid, when I was growing up, who was "special" because his Mom was an alcoholic while pregant with him.

Three of my classmates from high school have died from cancer, after they reached 40.  Although no one can't prove it, due to the building being demolished in the early 1980's, it was thought that the probable reason for the high rate of incidence was due to blown in asbestos insulation. (I get screens done yearly)

I remember watching Staurday morning cartoons... followed by body counts from 'Nam. Never did me no harm! (twitch, twitch...)

So what's the point? You're saying because your very small statistical sampling wasn't harmed, the world is over reacting to the dangers we all stupidly exposed ourselves to? That, so long as we don't read the sign on the fence that reads: "MINE FEILD" we'll be okay hopping and skipping along?

You know, they say one of the obvious signs of advancing age is when you start to romantisize the past.

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/7/2009 9:21:45 PM   
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Ah childhood memories.

I remember my drunken father beating me bloody in the back yard and no one calling the police or anything. Just found out that one of my kidneys stopped growing around the time I was 10 due most likely to trauma so I wonder if it was kicks from his steel toed boots.

I remember the girl down the street hanging herself after getting the pregnancy test results back. I remember watching her mom ignore her new husband's unusual affection for his step daughter leading up to that.

I remember being required to say the Lord's Prayer in school every morning and how my friend Noah didn't like it and I remember in the third grade on Good Friday getting the snot beaten out of both of us because I wouldn't let the older kids beat up the 'Jesus killer' and he didn't run fast enough.

I remember when the n word was said openly and with venom by otherwise respectable people.

I remember marveling at the scars on my two older brothers from the car accident we all had been in together. I can't easily see my scar since it is down the middle of my back. We of course weren't wearing seatbelts and I, a year old, wasn't in a car seat.

I remember good things too but let's not fool ourselves the good ole days weren't.

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/8/2009 7:25:24 AM   
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Oh yes the good old days when it was legal to not allow people of a different race or religion or ethnic background to live in available housing despite credit checks proving they could well afford it. When publicly funded universities had quotas of how many of those 'other' races and religions they would allow in, despite their grades and test scores being far superior.

The good old days when children got polio, and measles, etc. When if you walked out of the ghetto you could expect to be beaten up for the crime of showing your face in a different neighborhood, and the police would not protect you. The good old days when children got expelled as too stupid to learn instead of diagnosed as dyslexic.

I'm glad to live in today.

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/8/2009 7:52:04 AM   
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I got this in an email from the mother-in-law. I deleted it. Such a rose tinted, emotive POS has no space in my inbox.

Oh, and I despise round robin emails. No offence, OP, not aimed at you

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/8/2009 7:57:26 AM   
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I kind of find it odd that you quote this overly-circulated favorite of people that like to fill your mailbox with cutesy nonsense to this site.  Our collective hobbies weren't exactly tolerated in the "good ol' days."  In fact, I can picture some of us at a gathering as the cops bust in and start beating the shit out of everyone with billy clubs. 

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RE: Reflecting On Days Gone By - 6/8/2009 5:40:23 PM   
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sb4u,

And then us being placed in mental institutions... because more than just 15 years ago, BDSM was considered a mental illness. (Thank you, gay leathermen, for fighting to change the DSM definition.)

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