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MySweetSubmssive -> Financial domination (6/7/2009 1:36:41 PM)
Bit of a head-scratcher here. I had someone get in touch with me recently and ask if I were into financial domination. I'm not, which I stated to him clearly, but said that I always enjoy gifts. I've had submissives with shoe fetishes buy me shoes for the pleasure of doing so, and others craft tools for me. I adore that. This person popped up on the radar and just asked me if I wanted ... stuff. He's not close to me, I don't have a hot, hot photo up on my profile. I feel a bit odd. Am I looking a gift submissive in the mouth, or is this is weird as it seems to me? If someone offers me gifts here, is it against TOS to accept? If I say yes -- and, frankly, it seems like fun! -- what are ways to accept gifts without doing paypal (too cold) or giving my home address. Thank you for your positive comments! Mss

TrixieDesireSlut -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 2:00:23 PM)
Eventually for every "gift" provided, or fee paid, something in return will always be expected.

liks2plzlf -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 2:15:27 PM)
I have sent gifts to some dominant women on here with no expectations. Still even send birthday gifts, to one, even though we never met, and she is no longer on collarme. I take vanilla women out to dinner, or movies, with no expectations as well, and I don't even get to read their posts on here.

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 2:20:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf I take vanilla women out to dinner, or movies, with no expectations as well, and I don't even get to read their posts on here. As far as you know, anyway.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 2:36:43 PM)
MSS!! Hiya!! I feel strange taking money/gifts for nothing. Most of that is my upbringing. One of my foot guys (years ago) sent me pedicure money, and I described the whole experience to him in full wanking detail... otherwise, I politely decline, in spite of my love for pressies~

TrixieDesireSlut -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 4:46:42 PM)
The point I am trying to make is that there is a risk in accepting gifts of any form, especially from complete strangers. Although the person receving the gift may not have any sense of obligation from taking the gift the person sending that gift may have an entirely different expectation.

PsyVamp -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 4:50:35 PM)
I am usually leery and distrustful when it comes to those emails I get from submissives wanting to be financially dominated. Considering I know there are a ton of Ladies that request tribute on the other side, it worries me that they are full of shit or trying to run some type of scam.

Politesub53 -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 4:54:43 PM)
Hopefully financial domination is someone stuffing £50 notes in my mouth, while whipping me with a blank cheque. ( which i get to keep )

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 5:11:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PsyVamp Considering I know there are a ton of Ladies that request tribute on the other side, it worries me that they are full of shit or trying to run some type of scam. Yup. That's my concern in a nutshell. Why contact me when there are plenty o' people already willing to do it. Mss

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 5:53:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive Bit of a head-scratcher here. I had someone get in touch with me recently and ask if I were into financial domination. I'm not, which I stated to him clearly, but said that I always enjoy gifts. I've had submissives with shoe fetishes buy me shoes for the pleasure of doing so, and others craft tools for me. I adore that. This person popped up on the radar and just asked me if I wanted ... stuff. He's not close to me, I don't have a hot, hot photo up on my profile. I feel a bit odd. Am I looking a gift submissive in the mouth, or is this is weird as it seems to me? If someone offers me gifts here, is it against TOS to accept? If I say yes -- and, frankly, it seems like fun! -- what are ways to accept gifts without doing paypal (too cold) or giving my home address. Thank you for your positive comments! Mss Excellent question! And you're wise not to use your home address. As to types of gifts, I'd suggest a new 2010 Prius (Red would be nice). Have him send it to my house....I'll make sure everything is okay....and even break the car in for you. (I know....I'm a giver....)

MsBlackheart -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 5:54:28 PM)
The guys who do this get off on discussing their fantasy with you, but they never intend to actually send you a thing. edited to add: Didn't meant to sound brusque, just been there, done that, and watched it happen over and over to a Pro I once knew. It's a scam.

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 7:09:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsBlackheart The guys who do this get off on discussing their fantasy with you, but they never intend to actually send you a thing. edited to add: Didn't meant to sound brusque, just been there, done that, and watched it happen over and over to a Pro I once knew. It's a scam. Ooooooo. Yes, that kinda occured to me, too. It helps to hear it reinforced from the outside. It was a nice way to spend an hour or so. smiling And thanks for the above offer of help with the Prius. winking Mss

CatdeMedici -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 7:12:17 PM)
tit for tat baby---be prepared.

liks2plzlf -> RE: Financial domination (6/7/2009 9:43:21 PM)
I should have mentioned I had emailed and talked on the phone with these women for sometime, so we knew alot about each other. I would not just send gifts to someone I did not even know. I just meant to say, that not all gifts are given with intent to gain something, other than just friendship. At least not from all of the subs. There are some of us who would do alot for very little.

Eclecta -> RE: Financial domination (6/8/2009 11:26:04 AM)
I've had several subs offer things like to buy me shoes, or corsets, etc. One from this site actually did buy me a corset. And then tried to go to lunch with my friend the next day. Which was weird. Anyway, that was the end of that. The corset was really nice tho. :-) Most on here who say they want financial domination are actually looking for some type of cyber sex or so I think. They will throw that out there, see if you take the bait, and then just start asking things like, "what color panties are you wearing?" Or something else equally lame. If it's too good to be true, it usually is. I'm jaded, yes I know.

LotusSong -> RE: Financial domination (6/8/2009 2:50:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TrixieDesireSlut Eventually for every "gift" provided, or fee paid, something in return will always be expected. Exactly. Ever hear of "There's no such thing as a free lunch"?

liks2plzlf -> RE: Financial domination (6/8/2009 3:09:01 PM)
Ms LotusSong I believe you are aquainted with one of those women I mentioned. I am told she is no longer in the lifestyle, unfortunately. I do not understand financial domination. Why would the guy not just go to a pro and spend his money and get what he wants in return? The men seekings jack off material on here makes no sense either. There is a web site for every possible kink, with pics and videos, and stories. I am starting to wonder how many sincere subs there are myself? Sorry so many of you have had so many negative experiences.

LotusSong -> RE: Financial domination (6/8/2009 5:28:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf Ms LotusSong I believe you are aquainted with one of those women I mentioned. ..... if so, I'm sure I have well-distanced myself from them. I find the practice of financial domination disgusting.

Lockit -> RE: Financial domination (6/8/2009 6:45:20 PM)
Somebody would have to pay me a lot... I mean a lot of money to listen to that shit. Like millions on top of millions. I'd want to reach through the phone and do some breath play.

MistressDolly -> RE: Financial domination (6/8/2009 6:51:42 PM)
Come on, you know you found that amusing. Who are you kidding. And if you could make $$ doing it, you probably would go for it. lol.

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