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pm subs - 2/10/2006 5:48:29 PM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		In my day to day life I am not outwardly submissive. I go to work, I do what needs to be done, etc. And then when its time for bed, I put on my jammies and climb into bed and feel like im slowly sinking in an ocean of submission. I clutch my pillows tight and I feel so wonderfully helpless and vulnerable. Even with Sir in the daytime, it doesnt compare to that pull I feel at night, even when Im alone. Does anyone else experience this?

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RE: pm subs - 2/10/2006 6:50:59 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Submission isn't about how we act, it's about who we are in our personal relationships.

Any question that starts "Does anyone else...?" Is always YES.

The nighttime is when most people do not work, do not have responsibilities, they can just wallow in what their mind and soul are feeling.

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RE: pm subs - 2/10/2006 7:26:11 PM   
foxglove716


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quote:

Any question that starts "Does anyone else...?" Is always YES.


Yeah I had a feeling that was comming. "Would anyone else like to share their thoughts on the matter?"

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Illusion is the first of all pleasures. -Oscar Wilde

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RE: pm subs - 2/10/2006 8:02:05 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		I love the visual of your post and I am very much in tune with the night, especially when it snows and it's quiet and calm. I do most of my private journaling at night, a ritual instituted by Himself. Knowing that I'm obeying him and pleasing him by showing him my naked thoughts is when I feel his dominance and my submission to it the most. It's in that active service, where it's not about my body, but strictly about what's in my heart and thoughts and sharing those thoughts with him because he really wants to know, where I feel the most comfortable and yet the most vulnerable at the same time.

I'm going to stop before I ramble and get mushy. But, yes, I relate.. albeit differently, but I do relate.

Celeste

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RE: pm subs - 2/10/2006 8:29:47 PM   
Candlescandles


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Status: offline 		I know exactly what you feel. I am completly in control at work and have a high stress and high responsibility job that takes most of my time, but when I do get home and close the door I want nothing more than to let that all go.

Candles

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RE: pm subs - 2/10/2006 8:43:42 PM   
ShivaTS


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Status: offline 		At work I have to protray a very dominant figure and as soon as I am away the walls and acting drops. Not just at night, but anytime it is quiet with no distractions is when my mind is blank and I can simply be.... Yes, I understand how you feel.

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RE: pm subs - 2/11/2006 1:50:47 PM   
AlderTheKitty


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From: Oshawa
Status: offline 		i know the same thing some times when i am alone at home i will just curl up and imagine my self in my madams arms
curled up between her and her mistress(she is a switch) just completly safe in they're arms

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RE: pm subs - 2/11/2006 3:02:45 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: foxglove716

In my day to day life I am not outwardly submissive. I go to work, I do what needs to be done, etc. And then when its time for bed, I put on my jammies and climb into bed and feel like im slowly sinking in an ocean of submission. I clutch my pillows tight and I feel so wonderfully helpless and vulnerable. Even with Sir in the daytime, it doesnt compare to that pull I feel at night, even when Im alone. Does anyone else experience this?



mmmmm I feel more Dominance, more wickedness when the night comes---mmmm the darkness before the dawn, when I wake and reach for the boy---mmm I am so wicked...

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RE: pm subs - 2/11/2006 3:46:03 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Mistress H is wicked.......geesh, like we didn't know that all ready....LOL....Very happy for you Maam ; )

I guess Foxglove it it kinda like the cold medicine.....a.m. will satisfy but not be as strong.... stronger for p.m. when the chores of day to day are finished and you can relax?

And now Submissive P.M. so you can submit like the submissive you truly are and wake up feeling fresh for your less submissive feelings during the day......side affects include, whining, crying, and breaking out in whelps.





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RE: pm subs - 2/11/2006 4:37:56 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		I do know what you mean. Sometimes it happens to me anywhere. The other day at Target I just had this deep feeling of being submissive. I swear any guy could have came up to me ordered me and I would have obeyed. But that's just me. I love that feeling.

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RE: pm subs - 2/11/2006 6:03:28 PM   
LindaLashes


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Status: offline 		I do, and recently I tried something wich at first was for kicks,, padlocked two leathercuffs together and slept with them locked in front, the keys nearby... Turned out I felt alot better with them on and I do this every night, well almost every night. But it gives me a feeling of comfort, being in possession when so deeply submissive.

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RE: pm subs - 2/11/2006 8:09:19 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		I usually spend some time fantacizing just before falling asleep, it makes for some very erotic dreams.

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RE: pm subs - 2/12/2006 8:25:56 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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Status: offline 		Right there with you foxglove... As soon as the kiddos are asleep... all the stress and trapings fall off and I am just my Dragons phoenix. Nuzzled next to him on the couch with our kitten sitting on the floor between us... (nice pic huh??)

1st Girl Phoenix

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RE: pm subs - 2/12/2006 8:26:57 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LindaLashes

I do, and recently I tried something wich at first was for kicks,, padlocked two leathercuffs together and slept with them locked in front, the keys nearby... Turned out I felt alot better with them on and I do this every night, well almost every night. But it gives me a feeling of comfort, being in possession when so deeply submissive.



I can completely understand this feeling. But for me it is my red velvet sleeping collar.

1st Girl Phoenix

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RE: pm subs - 2/14/2006 7:26:33 PM   
LindaLashes


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Status: offline 		I won´t be needing those leathercuffs anymore, Mistresses chain collar is locked on me. It´s all the security and comfort I need since I´m her property now.

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Smack me around and call me Suzy...

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RE: pm subs - 2/15/2006 9:40:12 PM   
TexasMaam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: foxglove716

In my day to day life I am not outwardly submissive. I go to work, I do what needs to be done, etc. And then when its time for bed, I put on my jammies and climb into bed and feel like im slowly sinking in an ocean of submission. I clutch my pillows tight and I feel so wonderfully helpless and vulnerable. Even with Sir in the daytime, it doesnt compare to that pull I feel at night, even when Im alone. Does anyone else experience this?


In My day to day life I'm not overtly Dominant. I have a position at work which demands that I at least appear to be solicitous and kind; teamwork is essential, I often defer to superiors in the workplace.

And then, when it's time for bed, I put on My 'jammies' (or not!) and climb into bed and drift off to dreams, memories and thoughts of having My bobbi boy all trussed up, the victim of whatever torment I might be planning for him for our next session. I wrap My arms around My pillow and dream of having bobbi curled up beside Me, knowing he'd be feeling wonderfully helpless and vulnerable.

In a word: Yep! Others experience this!

Texas Maam

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RE: pm subs - 2/16/2006 9:46:34 AM   
MyCaptainsPet


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Status: offline 		It usually happens for me when the house finally quiets down for the evening OR after everyone is gone for the day. i'm able then to let the walls down and just BE.

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