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holehearted -> Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 8:15:05 AM)
do subs reflect the nicer side of human nature and Dom(me)s the worst? hh

chiaThePet -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 8:16:59 AM)
Well, you've assumed the perfect position for the response you might just get. chia* (the pet)

leadership527 -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 8:20:00 AM)
Let's all very seriously and devoutely hope not.

swimpecs -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 8:23:57 AM)
well, why... I mean does it mean for some that Dom(me)s brutalise a sub so... it is the nastier side? Actually, as a sub, I'd like to humbly say that it goes both ways... and apparent power/'abuse' is very different from the real forces at work in the play/session. There are deeply caring, loving, attentive, sensitive Dommes that read you like a book, as in any 'plain' sex, can read all your signs before you're even aware of giving those signs... So would not say being a Domme has anything to do with being 'bad' in some human ethical/moral/values/personality sense. And I bet subs can be as bad as human beings can get... and some may even overcompensate for being right b******s in real life by playing sub... so....

IronBear -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 8:45:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: holehearted do subs reflect the nicer side of human nature and Dom(me)s the worst? hh Sounds like either you have had a bad experience or been filled with vitriol by someone who has. Dominants of either gender and submissives through the whole spectrum including slaves of either gender are firstly just people with the same wonderful and bad points and attitudes as everyone else. Please try to remember>>> PEOPLE IN BDSM ARE NOT SPECIAL, BETTER OR WORSE THAN THE REST OF HUMANITY.

beargonewild -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 8:46:04 AM)
Every human being has the capability to show the best and the worse side of humanity. A self imposed label means SFA regarding who can be the best or the worst.

LaTigresse -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 9:08:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: holehearted do subs reflect the nicer side of human nature and Dom(me)s the worst? hh Oh hell no.

janiebelle -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 9:10:43 AM)
FR Not at all. Niether of my Doms were less than loving and caring individuals. How does the old saying go- sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. [;)] j

CatdeMedici -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 9:18:06 AM)
WTF???? Sure all submissives are good, kind, non-selfserving, no personal agenda and seek sainthood. Dominas are evil, Mommy Dearests, graduates from the ports of hell dispensed to seek and destroy the innocents. Now read the book, not the Cliff's notes as the exam is a practical.[8\|]

RCdc -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 9:19:04 AM)
No. Not even close. the.dark.

manxcat -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 9:38:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici WTF???? Sure all submissives are good, kind, non-selfserving, no personal agenda and seek sainthood. Dominas are evil, Mommy Dearests, graduates from the ports of hell dispensed to seek and destroy the innocents. Now read the book, not the Cliff's notes as the exam is a practical.[8\|] LoL Go Cat Go manxy

thishereboi -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:20:41 AM)
no

SassySarijane -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:21:09 AM)
~Fast Reply~ Where in everloving hell did that question come from? Reading fiction? Online? Someone said it to you? I know it is a crock of bullshit. It is people who are good, evil, mean, nice, whatever not the role they ID as in bdsm.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:28:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici WTF???? Sure all submissives are good, kind, non-selfserving, no personal agenda and seek sainthood. Dominas are evil, Mommy Dearests, graduates from the ports of hell dispensed to seek and destroy the innocents. Now read the book, not the Cliff's notes as the exam is a practical.[8\|] She said it[:D]

Fitznicely -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:29:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: holehearted do subs reflect the nicer side of human nature and Dom(me)s the worst? hh Yes. I'm an insufferable bully to everyone around me, and she's the light and soul of every situation, bringing joy and beauty into the world.

OttersSwim -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:31:58 AM)
Please hit me... I am an adult... I know what I want... I am not bad... I am not good... Please hit me... It's understood... This is how you are... You are not bad... You are not good... Please hit me... It's just how We are... We dance on the edge... We are not bad... We are not good... We are awake to our desires... And our desires feed us...

SteelofUtah -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:34:22 AM)
I believe that Submissives Reflect the Eggman and That Dominants Reflect the Walrus Goo Goo Ga Joob Steel

hlen5 -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 10:50:48 AM)
To the OP(Original Poster), Congrats on your first post on the boards!! Welcome, and as you'll soon see it doesn't matter which side of the slash you are on (Dominant/submissive), people are just people.

Lockit -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 12:07:43 PM)
LOL... I think I need to go back to bed...

Aylee -> RE: Dom(me)s v subs (6/9/2009 12:36:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: holehearted do subs reflect the nicer side of human nature and Dom(me)s the worst? hh Define the "nicer side of human nature" and the "worst side of human nature." Otherwise I have no way of answering the question.

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